So feminism as a whole believes men are not entitled to sex from women. No man inherently deserves sex, it is to be given only when a man and woman consent to it. The woman is not obligated to do anything sexually for a man she doesn't want to. Most importantly, she can stop sex at anytime, for any reason.
I don't think i need to source this as it's evident in any feminist article or website.
Now, given that, I came across this startling article about dating tips for feminist men.
If you make out with somebody, you are responsible for checking in to make sure they are ok, not just during, but also after.
In that same vein: actively invite conversations before, during, and after a hookup to check if you are on the same page and have similar ideas about what it all means.
And the punchline:
Consent is continuous and has to be established through ongoing checkins.
So the idea here is, a woman can, at any moment, deny and reject a man for sex, but a man must check in continuously and emotionally support a woman after sex. It's his responsibility. She is entitled to it.
Actively taking on the identity of a feminist man means you are equally responsible to do your own research and actively notice these things. Help your friends of all genders see them. Realize this is your responsibility.
My view is in short, feminists should never claim that a woman is entitled to emotional support and attention from men they hookup with, because men are not entitled to sex from women. If you have to have NSA sex, you have to have NSA sex, period.
Disclaimer: I am aware that not all feminists may hold this view, nor is my view that all feminists think this. Do not challenge my view by claiming not all feminists believe this.
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