What does TRP think of male rape victims (of women)?

passepar2t · 2019-06-30T17:46:23+00:00

Well, I once got blackout drunk at a party and a gross fat chick basically climbed on top of me and tried to have her way with me. I'm sure I was too drunk to penetrate and my pants were still on when I woke up but I don't know how far it went. My friends even guided both of us to a separate room where she could do her thing.

It didn't traumatize me or anything but I think it's kind of hypocritical of my allegedly woke feminist friends (at the time) to have made fun of me and laughed about it for months afterwards. If the sexes were reversed, they wouldn't have been laughing. I laughed along too because wtf else was I gonna do.

In short, I think it's possible, I don't like that it happens and I don't like the double standard but my feelings about it aren't very strong.

angels-fan · 2019-06-30T23:52:54+00:00

From what I can tell, men don't feel as violated as women do when men get raped or sexually assaulted.

I've been sexually assaulted a half dozen times and it's never left any lasting scars.

agree-with-you · 2019-07-01T01:24:45+00:00

Yes it is possible for a woman to rape a man.

Yes, it should be viewed seriously.

rus9384 · 2019-06-30T17:52:31+00:00

Humanity is a broad spectrum.

It would be literally impossible for me to feel as though I was raped by a woman...all sex is at least a little good to me, no matter who the woman is (only exception I can think of is if they hid having HIV)

But not every man is like that. While I imagine the tool used is much more likely to be, e.g., emotional coercion, emotional or literal blackmail, or drugging, rather than physical overpowering, I very much believe it's possible for a man to be raped.

I also especially believe that statutory rape of boys needs to be taken much, much more seriously than it is (is this where your boomer reference stems from)?

Even the boy himself may feel "lucky" in the moment in the way that many people in society (men and women) attribute to him, but depending on where he sits on humanity's spectrum he may be in for years or even a lifetime of emotional damage (inability to trust, love, bond, etc.)

It's a disgrace that women are not held responsible so frequently (or held less responsible) in cases of statutory.

Actuallyconsistent · 2019-06-30T19:24:10+00:00

I have literally no respect for a man who downplays or dismisses this.

DaphneDK42 · 2019-07-01T08:29:23+00:00

For underage (<16) or guys who are incapable of resistance due to things like drugs or alcohol, the rape is a possibility.

tearose11 · 2019-07-01T09:42:01+00:00

Rape is rape.

I would & do believe men who say they were sexually assaulted.

A human body reacts to stimuli and so I wouldn't judge anyone, male or female if their body reacts in a horrific situation such as rape.

And why couldn't a man be raped or abused by a woman? And just as I couldn't care less about the physical traits of a male rapist, I couldn't care less about female perpetrators.

Unfortunately we do seem to react very horribly to male rape victims, we'd rather not speak of it at all, nor offer them any support.

A while ago I remember reading about male victims of wars in Africa. While there were medical help available for the female survivors of rape, there were zero places equipped to deal with the men who were raped. Most men couldn't even tell their wives about it, and none of the medical staff sent from the UN were sure how to deal with it either.

We don't even blink when female teachers have sex with male students, most joke about how they'd never report it.

A few years ago, a man was raped by a group of women in my city & everyone, from the tv to the radio stations, to ppl on the street, men & women, made fun of the man for even going to the police in the first place with a few women saying they'd hold a good looking man down, too.

It was all very gross.

We fail massively when it comes to female victims, but we still are far more sympathetic towards them, but I do believe we fail male victims slightly worse by comparison, in some cases.

abaxeron · 2019-07-01T16:42:56+00:00

It is possible, and I think nothing of it. Usually, I don't bother people with my shitty experiences, and expect them not to bother me.

Should rape of a man by a woman be as punishable offense? - I don't know.

I think I should have never been conscripted into the military. I think every argument in favor of segregated prisons works as well for segregated schools and colleges. I think that social security system in its current form was instituted specifically to benefit women who betrayed and dumped their husbands.

I think a lot of stuff about a lot of things, and I think that speculating about "punishability" of f-on-m rape is useless. It is neither viewed nor punished as seriously, it will not be viewed as anything comparable to m-on-f rape in my lifetime, and there is nothing I can do about it. I have only a handful of decades at my disposal, and with age, I'm becoming rather picky on what I choose to worry about.

I'm not into BDSM; an attacker's attractiveness doesn't matter to me.

throwinout · 2019-06-30T17:35:05+00:00

Is it possible for a woman to rape a man?

Yes. A woman can both force a man to penetrate her and forcefully penetrate a man. They can also be very manipulative, so it doesn't always have to be about force.

Do you feel less “sympathy” for the man if the woman was attractive?

No. Attractive women are fucked up in their own way. For example, I would be more fearful of an attractive woman getting her beta orbiters to jump a guy than an ugly girl.

Should f-on-m rape be viewed as seriously as any other type of rape?

Yeah. Female crimes in general should be taken more seriously. Women won't do it because "men are always worse than women", and blue men won't do it due to the women are wonderful effect.

if your friend told you he was raped by a woman, would you believe him? What if it’s an attractive woman?

I don't automatically believe sexual assault without evidence. Accusations have been weaponized.

LeJacquelope · 2019-06-30T22:14:46+00:00

Yes, there are cases of women literally raping men. But they're not treated the same as a case of a man raping a woman, and it would be foolish if it were. It's too different

Shadow_Of_ · 2019-06-30T20:41:38+00:00

The real question is how did that happen?

MrHerbSherman · 2019-06-30T17:50:57+00:00

It seems much much worse to be forcefully penetrated than to be forced to penetrate someone, tbh I don’t even understand how that works. It honestly sounds fictional but maybe I’m just ignorant idk

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ThePrinceOfCheese · 2019-07-01T14:43:26+00:00

That they are pathetic.

No it shouldn’t be viewed as seriously, if at all

Genders are not the same. Abilities are not the same. The issue men face are women intentionally getting knocked up or manipulating them. Not physical rape itself. Women can run manipulative circles around men, and men can run physical circles around women. If a man is physically raped by a woman then he can’t be called a man at all

GrumpyOldHistoricist · 2019-07-01T15:35:46+00:00

How are we defining rape? A man being forcibly raped by a woman or group of women is possible (especially with the aid of a firearm; the dudes talking tough on here must either think they’re bulletproof or have trouble getting their dicks hard), but exceedingly rare. When it does happen it should be taken seriously.

If we’re including manipulative coercion then it’s more common than people realize. And it’s often more sinister than a dude just being browbeaten into a pityfuck. It’s happened to me and I don’t consider myself special. If I’ve faced it, so have other men.

CosmicBioHazard · 2019-07-02T02:46:29+00:00

Well, look at it this way;

situations can exist where the woman doesn’t bother to get the man’s consent to do what she does, but the man decides after the fact that he enjoyed that and now he offers consent retroactively. problem here is;

that can happen to women too

that doesn’t really make it not rape.

perpetrator should be dealt with regardless, because they legitimately believed the victim did not consent and went through with it anyway. But actually, that brings up the crux of the argument here, a lot of women believe so thoroughly that sex with her is such a great honour that she in fact does have his consent, even if she’s got no chance of making the actual act happen without chloroform.

the_sea_witch · 2019-07-04T10:06:07+00:00

I get really shitty with how the media seems to always portray female teachers who sexually abuse male students as some kind of fun and harmless seductress. It's always 'school sex romps' etc. The language and tone of the articles is very different to male abusers. They are both equally bad. I make a point to comment as such on every article I see doing that. It's part of the problem and a big reason why male victims aren't seen as real victims. I can only imagine how terrible that must make other male survivors feel to see that.

TheJim66 · 2019-06-30T18:37:42+00:00

I'm convinced that non-anal male rape by women is fictional.

crackrocksteady7 · 2019-06-30T18:06:56+00:00

if your friend told you he was raped by a woman, would you believe him? What if it’s an attractive woman?

I'd laugh at him for getting overpowered by a woman

the-4th-survivor · 2019-06-30T17:47:15+00:00

Unless she shoves a dildo up his ass while he's passed out I don't see how it's possible, at least not with regular PIV sex. She would have to force herself onto him which most women can't do, and even if he's super drunk or in an otherwise vulnerable state, she would have to get him aroused and hard before she could fuck him.

blackedoutfast · 2019-06-30T19:31:11+00:00

depends on the situation:

hot 22 year old teacher "raping" her horny 16 year old student (who was probably initiating most of it)? yeah not a lot of sympathy for lil Chad.

crazy psycho chick who intentionally drugs a dude and then fucks him while he is unconscious because he rejected her when he was sober? yeah that's just as fucked up as when men do it to women.

WhatIsTheMeaningHere · 2019-06-30T17:39:11+00:00

I don't think too much of them just because it's very hard to relate. Even if I was raped by a woman, I couldn't imagine it being as traumatizing as being obsessed with a woman who doesn't like you back. It's like if somebody just forced me to take a check for $300. It's like, damn okay fine I'll take your money. No need to be so forceful.

[deleted] · 2019-07-01T02:38:57+00:00

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Title	What does TRP think of male rape victims (of women)?
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