~155 lbs. 6’2” 24 y/o married for 2...almost 3 years. We have a 1 y/o son with another baby on the way... Christian, both of us raised in nuclear families. Both homeschooled. Lost our virginity to eachother. I work, she’s a SAHM. I have read WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, working on Mindful Attraction Plan. Going to gym. StrongLifts 5x5.
Actual question: how do we “act sexual” with eachother? We are both goofy during sex, but don’t mean to be. I have recently just started not saying anything because everything out of my mouth is just pure cringe. (STFU?) The other day we were doing foreplay and she is comparing the few out-of-place freckles on my body to “chocolate chips.” I’m struggling to keep an erection after that. It’s just so...goofy. Not sensual. We could both use help in this area. Is my ego getting in the way of us having a good time? Or should I actually try to fix this, and if so, how? Don’t know how to lead in this area since I don’t really know how to be “sensual” either.