Right.. So I was at my university friday bar a couple of weeks ago, judging a beer bowling tournament. Now, during this tournament I noticed this girl stealing glances so I figured I would go talk to her after I was done judging. She was maybe a 8 on a niche scale, meaning that she had that whole 50's/60's look going on, which lead me to think that she would make for a good RP LTR. I have never been more wrong in my entire life... But more on that later.
The night progressed really good. After the tournament was over, me and some friends decided to hit up another annex of my university, and I told her tag along, which she did. At the annex, I isolated and we did some kissing and talking. During our talk she said shit like "Oh SixFingerRing, I'm so used to having guys wrapped around my finger, but I can't seem to do that with you" and "You're really resting in yourself" (Don't know if it's a saying in English, but it is in my native tongue).
Now shit gets intense. She started telling me all kinds of crap about her self esteem issue and how she's been "raped" by guys, it was like a fucking red flag bonanza up in that bitch.
By the end of the night, I decided to hit up one last bar and she tagged along, which was cool with me. We stayed at the bar 10-15 minutes and I decided to leave. On my way out the bar, she asked for my number and I gave it to her. Not 2 minutes later, she wrote "I wanna see you naked", another two minutes pass and she writes "Naked naked naked!", and finally she writes "Ok with clothes on, otherwise God would be pissed at us". I laugh to myself and continue walking home.
A week pass, I'm drunk and horny, so I decide to hit her up. Now the whole thing just took a turn for the worse. A transcript:
Me: Let's chill :)
Her: Hey you. I'm gonna go with no. I'm sure you're nice, but I don't wanna see you like that
Me: That's cool. Let me get an explanation though.
Her: I don't wanna say anything bad about you, cus I don't know you like that, but you're just too arrogant and that makes me wanna fight back. I don't wanna it to be a competition between us.
Me: That's alright. Have a good night :)
Now, I have two theories in mind. Either she's trying to flip the power dynamic and make me go beta, or she has actually hamstered herself into believing that I'm too alpha and since she can't control an alpha, she doesn't want anything to do with one. I'm not gonna hit this chick up again, even if she writes me. What I'm really looking for is a RP explanation, because this shit has me baffled.
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