Aren’t women with high notch counts men’s best bet?

2020-02-17T00:08:55+00:00

You answer your own question here:

Obviously you don’t wanna wife one but who the hell wants to get married anyway?

The discussion is usually about LTRs. Sleeping with them is alright.

BumblingBeta · 2020-02-17T00:13:32+00:00

Because contrary to your belief, sluts don't have sex with just any guy. There's enough guys in the top 20% that they don't need to fuck anyone much lower than that. No slut ever needs to fuck a bottom 50% guy, that's for sure.

sadomasochrist · 2020-02-16T22:36:51+00:00

Sluts are a gift to men sex-wise. Obviously you don’t wanna wife one

So... what exactly is this thread adding to this?

DicamVeritatem · 2020-02-16T22:19:16+00:00

Why is this subreddit called purple pill?

Purple implies some knowledge of basic red pill. This post exhibits none.

There are solid reasons why men have a visceral disgust for promiscuous women.

Look it up. Don’t expect others to do your homework for you.

poppy_blu · 2020-02-17T00:06:57+00:00

If y'all spent even half the time on self-improvment than you do arguing about sluts, you might not need TRP and incel echo chambers.

Don't like sluts? Don't date them.

Like them? Date them.

There, I solved your dilemna.

BTW OP, the crazy obsession here with "sluts" is just incelTM jealousy. They hate sluts because what's worse that a woman who'll fuck anything but won't fuck you? When you point this out, they'll come at you with the evo psych -- promiscuous women are a bad bet for men who want to be sure who fathered her kids. Sure. No one's debating that. No one's even telling you that settling down with a promiscuous women isn't a risk. We get it. Most normal men would and do hesitate and that's fine.

We're rollling our eyes at 1) their definition of a slut, which seems to be any woman who has had more sex than them or wasnt sold off as a 17 year old virgin to a husband for 500 bucks and a donkey, 2) their maniacal obssession with proving to the world that sluts are more evil than the devil, 3) their contention that all women should refrain from sexual activity because they themselves prefer chaste women (translation: they want chaste women but chaste women IRL won't give them the time of day -- that old control and oppress women as a dating strategy thing that seems to be popular in this bizarre corner of the world).

exit_sandman · 2020-02-16T22:36:03+00:00

I’m pretty open about not having an issue with sluts- even preferring them. I can’t understand the manosphere’s hatred of them.

You're free to date them, problem solved.

They’re women who like dick for the sake of dick instead of some kind of validation or status boost.

I give you the status boost, but don't believe for a second that there aren't plenty of women who do it for validation.

These are the least hypergamous kinds of women. Chads are rare as fuck; there’s NO way they sleep with only Chads and there’s even less of a way that they keep finding better Chads than the last. Best believe their high counts are mainly made up of average men. Hell, I would be a virgin today if a slut didn’t want my average cock.

Not really. It's not a complete "NO!", but you're severely underestimating how often women on the casual sex SMP sleep with guys who are hotter than they could "afford" otherwise. Especially due to the supply/demand-imbalance.

The women you are talking of, who treat sex the way men do (meaning they have a "dick is dick and I am horny"-attitude)? They're a minority.

loke2dabrain · 2020-02-16T22:48:39+00:00

Sluts aren't worth it cause you have to use condoms which make sex pointless imo. Unless you want to actually date one seriously which I wouldn't do.

Workaholiconew · 2020-02-16T23:22:32+00:00

You understand that most men have a instinctual disgust for high n count women, correct?

Many can't even get hard, why the heck would they want such a woman for anything outside of sex?

hammerhaunts · 2020-02-16T22:53:46+00:00

If you talked to them, you would disagree.

2020-02-16T22:29:50+00:00

Obviously you don’t wanna wife one but who the hell wants to get married anyway?

Is this controversial to anyone? That count doesn't matter if you're not looking to wifey up?

CosmicBioHazard · 2020-02-16T22:32:49+00:00

Obviously you don’t wanna wife one but who the hell wants to get married anyway?

I kinda want to get married, which I of course wouldn’t do to a high-N woman, but if I didn’t just wanted to be with as many women as possible....

the two additional issues that I see are

a.) the risk of catching feelings. Keeping my n count as low as I can muster and marrying a low n girl assures that I’m getting the best sex possible because the attachment is there on both sides which allows for those warm fuzzies that I want so badly

b.) STD’s. Don’t wanna risk ‘em. If it’s ever proven that chemicals in the vaginal fluid are used to attempt to force men to catch feelings, then that would be included here, too.

Barring those three issues, sure, sluts all the way. Those are some big “if”s, though.

forlorn0 · 2020-02-16T23:22:24+00:00

What point is this post trying to make? You understand that you shouldn't wife up a whore and yet you're here arguing that men should go have sex with whores for casual sex? And this is somehow against what the manosphere tells you to do? Since when?

NeedingAdvice86 · 2020-02-17T00:07:38+00:00

Easy...because they seldom have much to offer except for their vagina.....think about it.

Knowing how strongly men at a young age are drawn to sex, girls with high n-counts are so oft-putting that no guy wants to keep them around for much longer than it takes to drop a load.

Every study has shown that the more attractive\higher quality a woman, THE FEWER number of sex partners those women have....because they have so much more to offer to prospective men they don't have to go fucking every dude in the back of his Celica in the hopes of getting a 2nd date.

Throughawayman80808 · 2020-02-17T18:07:51+00:00

Nope, you're competing with every guy she's ever fucked. If you're not the absolute best, she'll move on a find someone who will be. If she has had better she'll assume she can get better. And don't give me that total horse shit about "I'll be better because I've known her longer and know all her kinks blah blah etc" that's bullshit and you know it is. It's 2020, almost everyone eats pussy/ass, even the dude with a 13 inch dick.

OXOzymandias · 2020-02-16T23:26:29+00:00

Honestly i am totally with you, i prefer a "slut" aka woman who can do some good things in bed, like yeah baby you can choke on this dick there is no problem XD XD.

But i am never gonna give her the chance to put me the collar on.

Btw that is so fucking dumb to get married like WTF why people are keeping getting married it doesnt make any damn sense.

2020-02-17T01:44:09+00:00

The guys here have been rejected by sluts. They want women who won’t screw them to have a bad time sharing Chad’s yuge uncut cock and becoming wise, then repenting and begging for relationships with them after they “hit the wall“ while they finally get to reject them for 20 yr old bubbly but successful Amish Instathot Stacy.

It’s basic primate behavior. Males compete for hierarchal dominance using strength, intelligence and political alliances among themselves in order to secure sexual access to females, while female chimp hierarchy is stable, and works itself out without much fuss. Female chimps, from newly fertile age to mature, mate with as many males as quietly as possible and pick the strongest as a mate, and together regulate antisocial behavior of genetically inferior males by not screwing, ostracizing and murdering the worst lechers and misogynists.

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DangZagnut · 2020-02-17T00:22:33+00:00

. I can’t understand the manosphere’s hatred of them.

Those are incels and trad cucks, not the "manosphere". Trad cucks and virgin worshipping isn't anything specific to the male oriented groups, but of the conservative religious idiots.

I'm in the "manosphere", and I prefer sluts, and only dated sluts.

But only real sluts, not those fake sluts that try to hide their n-counts because they're trying to flee from it.

Obviously you don’t wanna wife one but who the hell wants to get married anyway?

Trad cucks and low IQ incels.

Tornapart96 · 2020-02-17T00:23:02+00:00

The ideal world is one chock full of quiet, submissive, well mannered tradcon women who have a hot meal on the plate at 6pm, kids in bed by 8 and in bed with legs spread by 9.

Because we dont live in that world and the best wives tend to be the worst, or stingiest, lovers, men must make do with the slut. But if, even while in the midst of jackhammering the slut’s willing ass, your heart of hearts doesnt long for the glory of a 1950s style stepford wife utopia... then you are no true american, nor any kin of mine.

wtknight · 2020-02-17T01:12:01+00:00

Sluts are a gift to men sex-wise. Obviously you don’t wanna wife one but who the hell wants to get married anyway?

Most guys want families eventually, even if marriage is supposedly a bad deal for men. Nothing in your post states that promiscuous women will be more loyal, and the entire premise of it is that they'll be disloyal from the start because they love cock too much.

Of course, the idea that every woman is disloyal is ridiculous on its face. 100% of women do not dump or cheat on their men.

2020-02-17T01:12:39+00:00

No man would disagree.. sluts are the best for casual fucks. Only when a man wants to settle he may reject promiscuous women

PickleLine · 2020-02-17T02:33:33+00:00

Women with high notch counts have different standards than women with low notch counts. Most men would consider that different set of standards as higher standards.

Low notch count women have higher "commitment" standards (e.g. how fukboi is the guy, does this guy really like me and see me as a long term partner) and lower standards for fun/status/looks. The commitment standards need to be met before the other standards, so the potential suitors population is small. High notch count women have high standards for fun/status/looks because they have low commitment standards. Their potential suitor population is high.

The average guy would have an easier time sleeping with the low notch count women by committing to her. It would be hard to be more fun/handsome and higher status than the guys that a high notch count women considers.

PrincepsOmni · 2020-02-17T07:43:46+00:00

Much depends on what one wants.

If you have no intention of a serious, long term relationship then this would be 100% correct in societies where promiscuity is easy and acceptable. There are plenty of women who sleep around who are not very fond of men though - they might like sex but actually liking men is another matter. If this were the case prostitutes and porn starts would all love men - which is not always the case.

If one wanted to start a family, marry etc then they would be the worst choice statistically speaking. Not sleeping around doesn't mean a woman hates sex or men - that is a ridiculous assertion for either gender. People don't need to prove their love of the opposite sex by sleeping around - all that does is prove a love of sex with different people.

So the real question is what path one is choosing, and what life one is creating...not what you think is the 'best bet' for others - but what is the best bet for your goals and aims.

Who cares what the 'manosphere' thinks? They contradict themselves entirely - they say pick women who are essentially wife material (feminine, low notch counts, high self validation, stable and willing to work in long term relationship investments) while at the same time telling men not to marry or live with women - and to keep spinning plates and possibly sleeping around.

So basically you choose the life you want to create and then date according to that...it's up to you and you don't need to justify it to the world.

SDW137 · 2020-02-17T19:24:28+00:00

Nope, those girls still have some form of standards. They're not going to settle down with just anyone.

joesmithasdf · 2020-02-18T03:12:09+00:00

After thinking about it for a while, the issue on the manosphere with sluts is because most don’t actually get access to sluts. Fuming about them doesn’t help when it comes to casual sex.

Most actual players know sluts is the way to go outside of LTR. The game is rigged against men already, why make it even harder trying to casual up prudes?

ConsolesQuiteAnnoyMe · 2020-02-18T08:10:39+00:00

The only reason there's any contest is that STDs still exist and male birth control that doesn't involve surgery doesn't.

If people could turn screwing around into a completely riskless encounter on their own terms without having to rely on their partner of the moment to do anything, it'd be a lot more popular.

Joey_Lopez · 2020-02-19T06:24:07+00:00

Why would you get validation from a girl that just has sex with everyone? Why would you even want to have sex with a girl that has a high probability of having an STD? 🤔

Simp_Gulag · 2020-03-18T03:04:44+00:00

Only if they think you’re hot.

maljo24 · 2020-02-16T22:44:35+00:00

You are correct. Ignore the sociopaths below.

Bntt89 · 2020-02-16T23:11:30+00:00

They are but guys who hate high n-count women think they will only fuck the Alphas they all want to be. It makes sense if you think your not good enough than it wont matter if women have sex with alot of ppl. Because they arent getting any. It really seems like some inferiority complex, which they essentially use to punish everyone.

Anthony-waltzs · 2020-02-16T23:00:01+00:00

Yes, sluts are your best bet.

Title	Aren’t women with high notch counts men’s best bet?
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Date	February 16, 2020 10:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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