If she says hi to you before you say hi to her when you meet her, and you do not know her a lot, she likes you.
If you do not know her at all and she approaches you to chat, even to ask a question like what time is it, or whether you are XYZ, she is opening you.
If she enquires about your girlfriend, or mention anything resembling talking about a possible girlfriend, she likes you.
If you change something on you (haircut, beard, cloth, accessory) and she mentions that she liked it better as it was before, she likes you. It's a subtle compliment.
If you catches her stare and her gaze linger, or she maintains it with a faint smile, a sneer, or any gut feeling you have that she likes what she sees, do the math. Also, if you catch her looking at you and she immediately look elsewhere, she was checking you out. A female doesn't gawk at guys like in movies, in plain sight within meters, unless he is stunningly good looking or high value. It's too obvious, she looks easy, and she surrenders her power to choose. They'll wait that you look elsewhere instead, or when they are too far to be noticed.
It she acts submissive towards you and complies to your requests, she likes you. The more demanding or the more daring things she complies to, the more she is into you.
If she is finding time to spend with you on her own accord, she likes you.
If she constantly leans towards you and laughs even your lamest jokes, she likes you.
If she attempts to find a way to see you alone, she likes you.
If you find her invading your personal space often, or she hovers around you and she seems to be always there when you go somewhere, she likes you. Proximity is a dead-on indicator.
If she keeps touching you, she likes you.
Informative post.
Here's a couple more.
If a girl disregards any negative opinion from her 'girlfriends' - she likes you.
If a girl goes along with anything you do "Yes let's do that!" (I.e suggesting to do something) she likes you. Bonus points if its in-front of a social circle.
If a girl does little things for you here and there, out of the blue, unprompted - she likes you.
Any sign of nervousness, higher pitch tone and a locked up face, and breathe rate, she likes you.
I stress the importance of alone time and touch. These two are the prime give aways. Regarding touch, the duration context and feel are the most important.
If she follows you anywhere you go when she is alone with you, without even resisting, she likes you.
If she can't stop playing or placing her hair, exposing her neck, scratching her hand, or acting fidgety and nervous towards you, she likes you.
If there is a lot of lighting and her pupils are still heavily dilated, she likes you. Nothing she can do about it, it's reflexive.
If she always look in your eyes with a calm, easy-going face, or lowers her eyes often when you make eye contact, or looks away then looks at you again, whether you are looking at her or not, she likes you.
If suddenly she acts pissy at you for no particular reason at all or for imaginary reasons, or she hates you for no reason at all, she likes you but can't handle it. Girls that don't like a guy don't waste time being emotional on them, they are apathetic instead, they ignore him and avoid him.
If she is friendly with you in public, but you learn she badmouths you heavily to her friends in private, behind your back, it's possible that the girls likes you and wants to dissuade her friends to go after you. That's the kind of toilet room power play that queenbees play in their cliques. Girls are highly competitive and they'll never hesitate pick up fights or say made-up shit about a guy to weed out her competitors, even within their circle of friends. Same if she treats you like shit in front of her friends, but act totally differently when she is alone. In these case, if you like her, approach her when she is alone.
If she invites you in her home, in her own bedroom or she follows you inside your bedroom, with the two of you alone, it's strongly implied that she accepts the possibility of making out or having sex, if you take the lead and don't rush things.
As a proofing method, I asked my girlfriend for each item above whether it was true or not, and she agreed with all.
If you think she likes you, well be a man and take the lead. That's very important, you are in control and you're cool. Just tell her you want to grab a coffee to talk, sit besides her, and have fun with her, invade her personal space AND touch her playfully. The more she complies and answers positively, the more you may escalate the tension, and go with the feedback. If she backs off, don't panic, if she isn't leaving it's just that she was not ready to go there yet and she needs to be more comfortable. Get to know her story, her passions, her values. Project in the future, talk about things that light her up. If you find her looking at your lips or biting her lips, she wants you to kiss her.
Bear in mind, that a window of opportunity can close very fast, and most guys are bad at catching social cues. If you take too much time, she might think you are not interested or a total wuss, move on, and see you as a friend instead. That is why it's better to go for the type of relationship you want at the beginning of you knowing one another, rather than befriend her beforehand.
Flip this for men towards women (when applicable). How many are you doing by accident that makes you seem desperate?
We've hit a winner! You often find guys who aren't as successful seem to react to the girl instead of the other way around. Now that's not to say you don't mirror behaviour etc and end up being an awkward cunt, it's just means sometime's it's good to be aware of what you're doing. Let her be the one to come up to you, let her be the one who tries to touch you.
If you're walking down in the shop and meet a girl and she's walking towards you, giving you lots of eye contact, let her be the one who moves for you. Of course, that means you can still get out of the way for girls looking to get past you etc but do so by having solid body movements. Don't be like a woman tip toeing, making jerking movements. Maybe I'm off topic now though lol
It's a winner but wtf is this?
What can I do to stop my pupils from dilating?
If she is in your bed and she sucks your dick
she likes you
“Mhmm yea... you can never be too surr... its too hard to tell if shes into you then”
Casually explained for life
You're definitely into her tho ;)
Great stuff! Keep going, I’m taking notes!
If you have cocaine, she likes you.
Thanks keep a look out for more of my posts
Or she can just be Canadian you never know.
Holy shit how did I not see this
You were busy worrying about what other people think of you.
I was kidding bro. Generally I'm not in a place where I need to care about whether someone likes me while they're sucking my meat.
Still can't be too sure, maybe she's Canadian, just being polite.
What am I missing? I just fucked a candian exchange student
What’s the stereotype I’m missing/unaware of
If it’s they’re polite that explains why she said she like taking guys virginity
As a Canadian, there's no sterotype. Just a funny youtube vid reference.
How can you be sure it’s not just another shit test?
It can be, but you play it out either way. You don't respond to girls liking you by exhibiting excess interest. Stand your ground. Many guys play the cool guy card and girls will think you're not interested. Just commit. Qualify them. Don't be a dick.
Dude I fucked up it's so clear now thank youi!
what if she's eating my ass?
But does she like like you?
I don't know about this one.. seems kind of rapey.
If she says to you fuck me like never before, maybe she likes you too
Damn it. You mean the girl who undressed in front of me and gave me a good blow actually has romantic interest in me? I always thought that's what friends do
Informative post.
Here's a couple more.
If a girl disregards any negative opinion from her 'girlfriends' - she likes you.
If a girl goes along with anything you do "Yes let's do that!" (I.e suggesting to do something) she likes you. Bonus points if its in-front of a social circle.
If a girl does little things for you here and there, out of the blue, unprompted - she likes you.
Any sign of nervousness, higher pitch tone and a locked up face, and breathe rate - she likes you
I stress the importance of alone time and touch. These two are the prime give aways. Regarding touch, the duration context and feel are the most important, a girl means different things when she touches certain parts (i.e shoulders or arms).
There needs to be a section on the sidebar for body language and flirtation.
Not body language, but still indicators she likes you:
She changes her opinions or preferences to match yours. This could be superficial preferences like food, drink or venue... Or it could be profound ones like politics or adopting pastimes.
She adapts her schedule to accommodate yours. Self explanatory.
I notice #1 frequently. A girl will explain her opinion on a subject, then ask mine. After my opinion is said and conflicts with hers, she will completely contradict herself. Even if it's not true, she does this to establish your commonalities.
Similar to number one, if she says something to you like "I don't like guys with beards, but I really like yours," or "I hate flannel shirts but you look good in them," she didn't just suddenly develop an appreciation for something. Her hamster is telling her that since you have a beard and she likes you, she must like your beard too.
The video you linked, couldn't she just be a newer reporter that's nervous? Looks young enough for that to be plausible
A moment of that video was converted into a meme some time ago, she was biting her lips so hard when he was talking.
She clearly is heavily attracted to him, what are you going on about?
Great additions. I'll add to the post.
All of a sudden she dims the lights, pushes you onto the bed, rips off her clothes, and you start having sex....is she into you? Yeah still can't really tell, it's pretty dark in the room and she can't see you properly. Maybe she's Canadian and was just being polite.
https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw
I fucking love casually explained. Pretty much all I use YouTube for anymore
I was a nice guy still recovering and I’ve literally been that guy. Really fucked up and killed some relationships with a few 9s because of it.
and a shit test. don't go back to what she said she liked better.
Good post. Very basic stuff that nevertheless gets often overlooked.
Fundamentals always need to be addressed, whether you're a beginner or a master.
Good stuff. God I wish I read this when I was 18. So many missed opportunities because I was oblivious and just thought they were being nice.
Oh god.....the pussy we both could have smashed....
Meanwhile I'm 18 right now and no girl has ever done any of these to me
Hang in there bro. Your time will come.just keep working on yourself. I just got lucky with genetics. 6'5" dark hair, thin women tell me I'm gorgeous shit like that.luck of the draw. The moral is I took no action and missed dozens of chances. Do your thing ,play your cards right and you'll be more successful than I ever was. You got man, no problem.
I'm working on myself, but I too was born with semi-decent genetics (naturally muscular and lean, good jawline, dark hair). Throughout my childhood, adults would always compliment me on my looks so I never really tried to get a gf because, as the adults would say, "you'll have beat all the girls away with a stick!" Surprise surprise, I'm now an 18-year-old kissless virgin. It dawned on me only a year ago that I'm a 6/10 at best and that I would actually have to put in some effort to get into a relationship. Who knows, I'm still relatively young and naive and maybe sometime down the line I too will realize that I missed some opportunities. Thanks for the kind words.
Exact same thing happened to me... Everyone said I was naturally good looking. I got fat and didn't dress well. Oh well, the improvement process is fun
If she doesn't tell you to stop when you whip out your penis and start masturbating, she likes you.
She could also be planning to blackmail you with sexual harassment charges in 10 years.
However it does not matter what you do in that particular moment. She can do it anyway so you might as well keep going...
is that advice from Louis CK ?
LCK was a gentleman and always asked before whipping it out and stroking.
A trick I've used that really seems to work for me is asking someone what color they think my eyes are over text/when they cant see them.
Most people, even close friends, probably won't know. I can't tell you what color my coworkers eyes or my boss's eyes are (I haven't consciously looked at them) but I could abso-fucking-lutely tell you the eye color of people I've found attractive.
Bonus points if they say something other than brown/blue. Like if your eyes are brown and they say "chestnut" that's as good as a blowjob.
This definitely isn't working for black people lmao but good observation.
You mention that the window can close fast. You’re definitely right, that’s why lately when these situations happen to me I instead say to myself “she likes me in this moment”.
Girls are very emotionally driven as you know already, nobody respects the timid they respect the bold. Your timid behavior inspires insecurity in her. Boldness shows dominance. Dominance inspires her femininity.
having your gf proofread your trp commissions... ISHYGDDT
"Honey, can you help me show the boys how redpill I am?"
well if his GIRLFRIEND says it's true, who are we to argue?
If she touches her hair while looking at you, she wants anal.
If she is in your bed and sucking on your pointy doctor stick, she likes you.
If she wolfs down your whole supply of goat shit, she likes you.
If she throws all of your leeches at the peasants, she likes you.
If she tries to rip your bird-nosed doctor mask off, she likes you.
If she wants to give you her medieval Bitcoin, she likes you.
If she enjoys huffing herbs with you, she isn't just some goatish wench, she likes you.
Source: I am the best doctor in the land.
If she sacrifices her 7 sons because you told them they were possessed, she likes you
Gj copying literally every comment in the thread
If you're banging her asshole raw while her head is in the toilet bowl and she turns around and takes the shitty dick in her mouth while humming the national anthem, she just sees you as a good friend.
Better luck nex time good buddy.
She thought a fulfilling career would make her feel confident as a woman. Turns out what she really needed was to get peed on by a rich pervert.
I get all these signs from a girl with a boyfriend of almost four years. Where do I go from there?
either go indirect using plausible deniability, or approach her directly in front of her social group for the face-slap
Flirt and banter and seductive demeanor.
If she mirrors your pose or moves, she likes you.
If her foot is pointing at you, she likes you.
This doesn't always happen.
Then I'll twist her feet, subtly, to point at me, lol.
Great! Now if only a chick that's actually attractive would exhibit these signs for me.
What if she does the opposite of all of these things but claims to like you, tells her friends you’re hot, etc.
Girls oftentimes do this to "save face", when an attractive guy isn't reciprocating or she just deems him "too good" for her, she puts up defensive walls to protect her ego. This defensive wall can easily be shattered by displaying to her you're interested.
Great response, I was about to say the same.
Moral of the story: If you don't get a flat-out "go away" there is a chance she likes you. If you start questioning "Hmm, does she like me?" based on her actions - there is a much bigger chance she likes you.
If you are reading this: she doesn't like you... but may think your car is cool and likes free drinks.
Who gives a shit? As long as her cheeks are clapping on your dick who cares if it's for your money, your fame, or whatever. I never understood guys that are getting amazing head but in their heads they are crying "B-But she isn't doing this cause she loves me for me!"
If you get pussy for anything other than genetics/face/body, there is a vocal minority that will be very upset.
You will be given a prepaid shipping label and asked to return all of the pussy to the UPS store.
I guess people have different ways of appreciating a person
every woman I look at, looks at me then away straight away, I think it's a 'not interested' as opposed to interested. I'm average looking too
When a girl hear's your sick, goes and gets soup, tries to make it up a snowy hill, can't, borrows some guy's truck to make it up the hill. She likes you.
ohh shit, this made me slightly more sure that no one was ever into me in my entire life...
So no need to cold approach after all huh?
I mean cold approaching is WRONG. They know how make Chad know and they will let Chad know they want Chad to approach them.
Once they let Chad know they want Chad to approach them, Chad doesn't really need any theory regarding how to approach: just saying hi will work anyway.
Since Chad needs no 'behavioral game', the only game Chad needs is the only game the female brain understands: physical-visual game, that is, LIFTING = MUSCLE = ATTRACTIVENESS.
(Female body language should be unnecessary and uninteresting to anyone who honestly believed in male 'behavioral game').
Remember: talk is cheap; muscle is expensive.
Pussy gets REALLY wet when it sees a man's lack of 'behavioral game' can be clearly understood on the basis of that man's really visible muscles and physical attractiveness.
It was about swallowing bitter realities hard to swallow, wasn't it?
This is the best advice in the whole fucking thread and it’s basic RP theory. Do people even read the sidebar anymore? Jesus, this sub is is deteriorating.
Some one do the opposite 100 points where she doesn't like you?
How can all of these arbitrary and sometimes completely antithetical scenarios verified by one girlfriend be any sort of actual advice?
The more turned on a girl is the deeper her voice, another added little thing to note
Though I doubt all of you need that to indicate if she's turned on or not considering
More on girls staring at you and when you make eye contact they sneer? Is that actually a positive. Why do they do it? I thought these girls were bitchy af tbh and ugly personally.
I guess you address it whenever you say that if a girl hates you for no particular reason she likes you, does that apply in this case?
I'm going to save this post and read it everytime I'm ready to leave the house. Just reading it now put me in a more positive mindset.
Appreciate it, make your own notes too
According to this, no one likes me.
Just keep in mind your use of "like" can come in many variations. Women are sneaky bastards and will abuse their body language to get what they want be it either a good drilling or help with homework
Well fuck me....all these chances I fucked up when I was BP...someone shoot me...
Wow! I have a girl in school that I thought don't like me because she has a LDR bf, but she do like 90% of the things on this list! So, do I shit where I eat or not?
Looks like a Facebook post some woman typed up to feed her "like" addiction.
My personal favorite and one that should not be overlooked:
If she talks to you and says she thinks she recognizes you from somewhere, she is not only interested, but bold enough to approach.
(If she actually does recognize you from somewhere, obviously this is not true)
Girls do this to have an excuse to talk to you, even though they're completely aware they don't know you. Act like a normal person and she's yours.
Those things haven't ever happen to me, but I'm optimist
If you're balls deep in that pussy and she screams "Yes daddy, I want a mini you inside of me!" She may or may not like you.
This is true. Source: am woman
If she grabs her crotch, licks her lips, and winks at you......She likes you
This is one of the funniest posts I've seen in awhile. The simplicity kills me
Does the square from highschool know this? We're all here to help each other out.
I have a question since this hasnt happened to me before. Some may despise a comment like this but this is so relevant to this post. I will tell u a story and u tell me wtf is that.
So there was that girl that saw me during my last yeat of high school but we only talked like once. This girl moved to the same university as me. She is a year younger. Saw her on her admission day to my uni and made an indirect gesture so i approached her talked for a minute and she said something like "oh u remember me!" Then left since i didnt know what to say but made sure to leave a masculine identity that im not a pussy.
Now she is in my uni and would not move her eyes from me i would hold eye contact with no smile but wouldnt approach her since she was with her girls.
Found that she was alone on a day so i approached her with do u have an extra pen, sat beside her got and closed by "give me your number maybe i can send her some material" idk why i didnt go full direct
I messaged her hi to days later and she just ignored it and didnr even read. That never happened to me but i didnt message her another time. Can she go so cold or thats a shit test? If she is not intrested that can save me some time not thinking about talking to her, since i already approached another girl. The apprach and text happened a week ago
There are a few good bits of advice here, but most of them are pretty much, "If she spreads her ass cheeks and sits on your erect dick, she probably likes you." How this fucking post got 700 upvotes is beyond me.
If she is a girl, she likes you.
Can we get the same but "she doesn't like you"?
If she takes doesn't reply to texts, she doesn't like you (or whatever...)
I’m genuinely curious about a few of these. It’s a nice thought to think that if you catch a woman looking at you and she looks away, or down and away that it means she was checking you out. But how do you know she wasn’t just looking at you in general and looked away? Men do the same thing. It doesn’t necessarily mean she was checking you out.
If she has her legs behind your ears, she likes you.
if a girl snaps "i can't wait to have you in my mouth tonight, daddy", she likes you
If you and her are talking and making jokes within a social circle of people and she laughs when you laugh and looks over to you directly to see if you're laughing, she's into you.
Also if on the first date you don't bang, but then she pretty much initiates the second date within a few days from the first one, this means she's ready to drain your cock into her mouth and was trying her very best to suppress her urges on the first date and not come off as a slut. This also means you did something right on the first date.
Most men will get some of this from some women at some point. Part of developing game is knowing how to see it and act upon it. You have to calibrate, which is what this post is about. It doesn't replace lifting, dressing well, fixing your posture etc. But it enables you to use your developed physical attractiveness.
donkey dong ding dong will do it everytime just look at the ugly well hung guys get paid to bang pussy in porn
Some of these sound so obvious that I feel really dumb for wishing I saw something like this 5 years ago but seriously, where were posts like this when I needed them. Thanks OP
Feminists gonna have a field day with this XD
She's a stalker and wants to rape you. Back away slowly...
Sone of these more casual ones are not sure signs of a girl liking you, for example if shes approaching you about something simple like the time. Some girls just don't have a watch.
Also, if a girl catches you looking at her and she "sneers", she's probably not into you.
Yeah right
I asked ladies about the gaze into your eyes part and the look away part. They all said it's nothing and women just look around like normal people.
Go figure
Why would women admit to their weaknesses?
Why would they not admit? They are not the subject of my case
These body language lists are bullshit. Women aren't like this. They can do all these things and it doesn't mean shit. Source : most of my friends are chicks. I've asked about all this nervousness and hair playing shit for years. means nothing. Her hair was just tickling her neck. Nothing more.
I must admit, I used to think the same way. In my mid 20's one of the guys who I worked with was a seriously good looking chap (as in male model looks) and when we went out on works outings and nights out as a group, the amount of girls who used to do this with their hair when he was in their vicinity was fucking unreal.
In one of my previous posts I wrote about the "foot point" ioi, this is where I first noticed it before I knew it was the car salesman's biggest tell in customers.
Some nights it was like he was a super conducting magnet and every woman in the venue had steel toe capped high heels on.
cmon man are you serious?
its all subconscious, and also why are you taking the advice from women? that is totally opposite of what you're supposed to be doing.
ever get nervous and see somebody scratch the back of their neck? all that was was a itch on the back of their neck that randomly appeared at the right time?
dont jump in to the comment section sounding like a bad boy who knows everything.
or they might act flirty for practive or to advance her career