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Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?

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November 29, 2018

It seems that the majority of you have absolutely zero problem getting laid. Is it truly that easy for you or are some of you exaggerating?

Edit: after reading the replies it seems like you all have hundreds of chicks lining up to screw you. Damn it’s fucking depressing

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Title Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?
Author 345674
Upvotes 77
Comments 166
Date 29 November 2018 06:12 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]Thizzlebot142 points143 points  (35 children) | Copy

Depends on a lot of factors. Also it's not hard to get laid its hard to get laid by desirable partners because it requires a lot more work. Most people here role play though.

[–]jaw862591 points92 points  (27 children) | Copy

This. Its easy to get pussy.....but getting quality pussy is a different game. I used to just be happy to fuck any halfway pretty woman with an hourglass shape......going after girls that you'd be proud to introduce to your family and friends takes a lot more finesse

[–]MisterDSTP35 points36 points  (7 children) | Copy

This exactly..

I had a thing going with myself thst i can't date a girl less attractive than the last girl i dated and boy has this shit gotten tougher.. it's likena completely different game.

But fucking basic bitches.. that shit is light work.

[–]Pluglord5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

That shit is light work

Lmfao how?

[–]munky8220 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

Every pumpkin spice latte follow the same recipe. So once you have that down, you just keep on doing the same.

[–]buttgoogler3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If your SMV is high enough getting 6s are not hard. They will mostly make it as easy for you as possible.

[–]es14265 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Be a 7+, have game.

Ez mode.

It’s not difficult, just complicated.

[–]MisterDSTP7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah i hate to come off like the exxaggerated stories that you're referring to but girls kinda make it very easy for you when you are attractive, confident, have a sense of style, and your shit atleast somewhat together.

I use to just straight up tell a girl "im married to my career and I'm not looking for anything romantic. Period." And then I'd invite them to over to smoke or whatever and thatd be it.

And honestly in retrospect i had some pretty beta-ish ways about me. I didnt know about TRP. I'd tell a lot of jokes just to get a laugh, giving them genuine life advice, letting them sleep over, text them without logistics, and other subconscious validation seeking shit.

But i still had a good roster at all times and never dealt with too much BS. Aka more comfort tests than shit tests.

It wasn't until i graduated to HB 8.5+ that I realized my flaws and started reading TRP. Everything i used to use back then with the HB 7 and lower ends up backfiring at this level.

Might be good for a fuck or 2. But keeping them in rotation is a lot harder and does takes a lot more finesse.

So now I'm recalibrating.

Hope this helps OP

[–]jayceeohem0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Can you go into more detail on what behaviours backfire with HB 8.5+ and why? Cheers

[–]MisterDSTP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well when you give a girl "unearned" comfort like i was it makes a HB8.5 really start to get a sense of commitment anxiety and they start pulling away.

Ironically its the same type of way I would act with my playes and fwb thst werent as hot as me. If they even SEEMED like they wanted more than anything casual i'd push them away, create distance, or generally be an asshole to them.

I NEVER wanted a serious relationship with any of these chicks but me getting so comfortable so quickly came off as needy and gave them that impression without me really realizing.

So i think i came off like the other boring dudes who will do anything for her because shes hot and put her on a pedestal and not really challeneg her.

And while it wasnt true of me i can see how my lack of calibration resulted in that perception.

Like i said. Before i might have a girl sleep over and give her a toothbrush in the AM and then not speak to the girl for 3 weeks.

But you do something like that once with a bad bitch with options and she starts thinking "WOW he's head over heels! ABORT!". While the less attractive girl feels "WOW he's so nice and i feel comforted! Next time ill cook"

I think social media adds to this. There so many more options readily available to these chicks.

Just my take

[–]Alpharettaraiders092 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well said!

[–]omega_dawg934 points5 points  (12 children) | Copy

the problem i see on the internet is guys basing a woman's "quality" (solely) on physical appearance... and to me, that's a big mistake.

an average looking, average built, woman with a good personality and attitude is passed over on the internet... bc everyone here is chasing the mythical "10." the problem is... to most guys a "10" is simply, blond hair, big tits, nice smile, hopefully tanned. THAT'S IT! she can be a bitch or dumb as fuck, but you'll put up with it and call her a "trophy."

this is the girl most guys want to introduce to friends & family... bc she makes him look good based on HER looks. your choice.

in my years, I've met some very average looking women and some bbws that would probably make excellent wives, and many do... as you can see from looking around. but to hear guys state what they want doesn't match what you see in daily life.

the same is true for "quality" pussy. my take is you don't know quality until you penetrate it. you might be with a gorgeous girl but the first 3 inches of her pussy might be worn like a war zone in iraq; you may fall in or feel like you've stuck your dick outside an open window.

but that average looking girl or bbw might have that snapper pussy: tight, wet, and warm... always juicy and ready for work. guess who I'll be visiting more often? lol.

if you guys don't know, women don't put a lot on a man's looks as her deciding factor to fuck etc. women don't care about your looks; they care about their looks. perhaps we should put more emphasis on finding good women over some ideal prototype. regardless, all women know what they'll "win" after a divorce.

[–]growingstronk2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Ok, you can’t be an excellent wife if you’re not fuckable. I get what you’re saying about only chasing hot blondes, but the woman still has to be moderately attractive

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

attraction is important but attraction isn't just physical. personally, I'm not attracted to "not so bright" women.

most important, attraction is not a choice. I've been attracted to redheads, Asians, blonds, bbws, and nerdy girls with thick glasses. if I'm attracted, i usually give in to it and "go with the flow."

and guess what... even the most fuckable hot women, bc of stupidity or deceit, etc., became instantly un-fuckable. bye bitch.

[–]InvictusDO1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Eh. I can't fuck a personality.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

you can't fuck all day every day either.

[–]InvictusDO0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

And that's when I'm off doing my own thing. I don't get companionship from my plates.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

plates and LTR or marriage traits aren't the same.

plates are plates... they do what they want. i only want pussy and they only get dick.

but when you want more than just fuck holes, you have to look beyond (just) sex and looks.

[–]11NV0K3R2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

is blonde hair

I'm gonna need you to change that to red hair

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

that's what you tell blonds and brunettes in the hair dye section of Walmart.

[–]ChadTheWaiter1000 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Lol. This isn’t how the human vagina works. Girls don’t actually get physically loose from fucking a lot. I’ve fucked sluts with super tight pussy.

The term loose means they have had a shit ton of partners. Which isn’t a good thing either, to me.

[–]JarHeadJoseph0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Women don’t care about your looks?

Dude what the fuck. Looks is like half of the entire game. Look at who hot chicks are with. Good looking guys.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

then the guy with money walks by... then the guy with the big dick passes by... then the guy that sparks her feels.

and on and on.

women like good looking men no doubt, but looks are nowhere near as important as they are to men.

that's why you see hot broads with average looking men. pretty boys can get pussy but you have to be a man first and foremost.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

My cousin brought his girl over for thanksgiving. They’re both 18. They stayed 3 days and she didn’t talk to anyone. She was an 8 but not social at all.

[–]ChadTheWaiter1000 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

She sounds perfect. Why do you paint this to be a bad thing?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Why is that perfect? Shouldn’t you want a girl who is friendly and has social skills?

[–]ChadTheWaiter1000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s a joke bc I like girls who are quiet but I would like for her to be able to socialize with family. If she’s 18 though she’s not quiet because she’s a bitch she’s quiet bc she’s scared/shy af.

[–]neoda12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Most people here role play though.

Yup. Noticed that a lot more recently.

[–]StudyHacks3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

Most people here role play though.

What does that mean?

[–]unique_user919 points20 points  (4 children) | Copy

Lie. Pretend.

[–]StudyHacks1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

The "you're the prize" dogma?

[–]unique_user911 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

That they are getting laid. Like if someone is bedding 3 women in a week which is his personal best, he shows it as if it's normal for him to get lays from 3 different girls each week.

[–]TitsAndWhiskey5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Or that the girls are hotter than they are. Fucking average bar bitches isn't hard. 2-3 a week isn't unreasonable even for an average guy with moderate game - as long as he lowers his standards.

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

no. "you are the prize" is what pimps (like rosebud bitterdose) say, mean, and truly believe; it's about confidence.

the pc version of that is what rollo states: "make yourself your mental point of origin."

to live a man's life, you TRULY must believe that your presence makes her life better... and you'll "win" when she literally feels that way.

[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy

I think most are exaggerating.

You also have to take into consideration the quality of woman they are fucking. Is it really that special if you have a high n count when all you are doing is banging 3s and 4s and land whales? And then come onto TRP and lie, saying you were banging 7s, 8s and 9s?

I don't have a lot of sex, but thats because I am picky and selective. I'm not that desperate to get my dick wet to where I will drastically lower my standards. But many men are. Banging higher quality women takes a lot more patience and effort(not try hard effort, but tactical effort), but its worth the payoff.

[–]trp282872 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

What do you mean by “not a lot of sex”?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev74 points75 points  (9 children) | Copy

So, here's the thing. I have been doing this for a long time. Pussy acquisition isn't complicated at all. Take a look at Tom Brady (for those who follow American Football). He's 41, and last year was the MVP of the league at 40 in what is a 25 year olds game. How does he manage it? The guy takes care of himself, and he's so good at what he does that he can drop back, look at a defense, and shred it because you can't throw anything at him that he hasn't seen before.

It's the same with older guys. We've seen it all. Chatting up girls is as natural as breathing. You learn how to use innuendo, getting them to qualify themselves, etc. Once you can see the Matrix, everything become easy.

I suspect that you're a young guy who is, like most young guys, living in something of a state of deprivation of sex, even if you're getting laid. Maybe it's not enough, or not with the girls that you want. What you will discover is that sex is like oxygen: it's only important if you aren't getting any - and then it's REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT! There is no getting around that it takes practice to get good at. Go out and make 100 approaches. Rejection will hurt at first, but by the time you get to 25 you won't care anymore, by the time you get to 50 you won't care how hot the girl is and by the time you get to 100, you will be thinking, "What is the most fucked up thing I can say to her and still pull?"

[–]LLL3peat10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

“What is the most fucked up thing I can say to her and still pull?"

After awhile you get bored and just want to see what you can get away with. People will be surprised how much bullshit you get away with if you are one of the top men in her life/presence/etc.

OP won’t like this but they eat it up since it shows you have balls or have a fuck it don’t matter attitude. Which makes them want you even more

[–]randomviper4123 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

, "What is the most fucked up thing I can say to her and still pull?" - I'm not even at 100 and I do that now ha... Just to cure the monotony of repeating the same things.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

You inspire me.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

Actually, I spent this last week on vacation in Europe with a 6’ bikini model. But doubt the OP was ready to hear that. Lulz.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I aim to make something like that happen in the next 3 years.

[–]yumyumgivemesome2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I suspect that you're a young guy who is, like most young guys, living in something of a state of deprivation of sex, even if you're getting laid. Maybe it's not enough, or not with the girls that you want. What you will discover is that sex is like oxygen: it's only important if you aren't getting any - and then it's REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT!

I remember those days. Anytime a relationship ended, my biggest fear was that I'd never be able to get another girl to fuck me ever again. It was highly irrational but the realness of that fear was extremely palpable. As you said, it took tons of effort to get where I am now, which is far from where I'd like to be. Now after a very hot plate drops, I'll still feel that irrational fear of thinking that I'll never get a girl that hot to fuck me again. It makes me wonder if I'm insatiable.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

My OLTR2 dropped off a few months ago. It was irritating as she was REALLY hot. But no worries. She's been replaced. The fun bit was that she broke up with me via email and I emailed back "Clearly you sent this to me by mistake." and then I got a text 5 min later from her BFF to the effect of, "She is sooooo pissed at you right now, and the fact that I'm sitting here, laughing my ass off probably isn't helping!"

[–]Youngyoda890 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve finally reached lvl 100.

[–]trpppp1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I suspect that you're a young guy who is, like most young guys, living in something of a state of deprivation of sex, even if you're getting laid. Maybe it's not enough, or not with the girls that you want.

I'm 28, doing well for myself, and I still feel like I'm stuck here. Sure, I can get laid with a fatty whenever I want and occasionally a semi-attractive chick, but I can't seem to get laid on my terms with hotter girls.

[–]TheStumblingWolf11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've had sex once in 1½ years. I feel like I was so behind when I found TRP that I need to fix the basics first. I'm getting there though, slowly but surely.

[–]EternallyRed53 points54 points  (30 children) | Copy

After putting in the work you’ll have no trouble. Girls want to fuck and will fuck. You just need to be the one they are fucking.

Correct diet, gym, groom, tinder, whisky bar, uber, done.

Just don’t try to skip steps. Always follow rules one and two.

Also, if you’re wondering whether you have put in enough work at the gym, check that you A) have abs, B) look good shirtless at the beach.

[–]moltenw10 points11 points  (11 children) | Copy



[–]DaftOdyssey2 points3 points  (10 children) | Copy

What's Buffer?

[–]moltenw11 points12 points  (7 children) | Copy

A "Buffer" is essentially an excuse.

Some of the buffers are, but are not limited to :

"She's out of my league, there's no point to approach her"

"She's with her friends, I don't think now is the right time"

"I'm not gonna Day-game, I'm just gonna use Tinder instead".

This does not mean that Tinder doesn't have it's uses, but it all comes down to context. If you are using Tinder as your only source to get women, then it's a buffer - no exceptions. However, if you are day-gaming all the time, approaching constantly and using Tinder as an additional source instead of as your main source, then It can be beneficial if you know how to utilize it properly. (Although at that point, unless you are going for efficiency, I can't imagine why you'd want to be using Tinder if you are slaying in the first place).

The key here is to understand the difference between hamstering and something that's actually benefitting you. Even if you are approaching etc and start using something like Tinder, you have to be very careful not to become too comfortable with your position, otherwise eventually you'll start rationalizing using a Buffer (Tinder) more than what you actually should be doing (Approaching) if your mentallity is not strong enough.

It's a fine line. Be careful not to overstep it.

[–]DaftOdyssey2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That makes sense, thank you for the explanation

[–]Psychological_Radish0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

If you are using Tinder as your only source to get women, then it's a buffer - no exceptions.

I don't agree with this at all.

The men who are successful on Tinder and wrote the guides (i.e. /u/mallardcove and others) largely agree that it is one of the easiest ways to get laid, which has certainly been my experience as well.

Swipe a few min a day, and with Tinder Gold I can literally do nothing except watch right swipes roll in. What could be easier?

It is not a "buffer." You still need to meet these chicks and game them IRL to actually have sex with them.

[–]moltenw0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Alright, fair enough. I take my "no exceptions" statement back, but certain conditions need to be reached.

In order to use Tinder as your only source and for it not to be counted as a buffer, you need to be able to get chicks in real life as well and your game needs to be on point. At that point, you can choose to get efficiency over quality if that's what you want, but not the other way around. If you only get some from Tinder and get anxious in public and can't approach a girl, then deep down you will know that you are a fraud to yourself, that you aren't that good with women in the first place.

It's kinda like MGTOW - you can't be a MGTOW if you haven't actually experienced a succesful male's lifestyle prior to going MGTOW, but if you do it after realising that it's not worth the investment, then go for it if that's what you choose to do.

Thing is, 90% + if not more of the so called "MGTOW's" refuse to play the game in the first place, just like most people who use Tinder don't slay in "real life" conditions.

[–]Psychological_Radish0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

The Tinder buffer is matching with a girl and then never escalating to meeting IRL because you don't want to get rejected. Tinder itself is neutral.

At that point, you can choose to get efficiency over quality

Let's dispense with this notion that Tinder is filled with trashy sluts. Girls you day or night game are not inherently any higher quality just because you met them in real life. Most of them have Tinder or Bumble, anyway.

If you only get some from Tinder and get anxious in public and can't approach a girl, then deep down you will know that you are a fraud to yourself, that you aren't that good with women in the first place.

I agree in principle, but I find that the men who get laid a lot on Tinder are generally successful approaching in real life as well. After all, you have to be fairly attractive to even get matches from pretty girls in the first place, and you still need game to have sex with them. I don't think the problem that you describe actually exists for a lot of people.

[–]moltenw0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I agree in principle, but I find that the men who get laid a lot on Tinder are generally successful approaching in real life as well.

I wasn't talking about those men, obviously. That's why I men

I don't think the problem that you describe actually exists for a lot of people.

Completely disagreed. I'd say it exists for most men. How many matchless men are on Tinder that don't approach or men that get ~3-4 matches a week or something and then never getting anywhere with them? If I was a betting man, I'd say that's 80% if not more guys on Tinder.

[–]Psychological_Radish0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I said guys who get laid on Tinder, not guys who don't get any matches or don't escalate therefore do not get laid. Remember what we're talking about here - men who meet the majority of their lays online. That's why I chimed in in the first place.

[–]moltenw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Then I have to wonder if there was a need to chime in in the first place , considering that in my first comment I was obviously talking about the guys who use Tinder as a buffer, not as an efficient tool to accomadate their skills. I even mentioned that Tinder does have it's uses for guys that already slay.

[–]mulattoTim0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Let's you preschedule your social media posts. Unless he meant something else, then I'm not sure.

[–]omega_dawg933 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

you don't need to be a physical specimen to get pussy bc a beer gut with a big dick print will score girls too.

but the guy with the ferrari still wins in the end tho.

[–]TitsAndWhiskey3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hell, 20-30 year olds these days are impressed if you have a car, your own place, and a couple hundred in your wallet.

[–]StudyHacks0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy

I'm saving this, thanks. But what are rule one and two?

[–]Pepethe2nd13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Be attractive don't be unattractive

[–]StudyHacks1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Got it, thanks ;D

[–]ironrape129 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Practice, practice, practice.

It looks easy, but you have no idea the shit I had to go through to just have pussy on demand or acquire new pussy.

[–]randomviper418 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Even if you do the general "self improvement" bits such as gym/groom/learn pickup ect.. There will always be some work to be honest. People MIGHT make it seem like they walk into a bar and then leave 30 seconds later with 3 HB10's but no.

Hotter girls require more work, if you do the basic things near the top of this comment you will find it easier to get HB 6/7's as you will be of more value than the average man.

At the same time it does require some level of social calibration and talk. I've been doing well recently but there was 2months of nothing (infact until I moved location in July I went 12-18 months without a lay, one or two opportunities turned up but I didn't work them well).

Recently I had a week where I got 3 different girls in 5 days... which is something I never expected to happen before (I did put work into that though, one of them I'd met before aswell..)

It's like buses at times, there's never any around and then 3 come at once ha.. Now I have 2 plates, but yes it did require effort aswell as gyming, learning pickup stuff, pre-meditating situations/creating good logistics/having a game plan/ acting a certain non needy way ect..

[–]askmrcia2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm going to expand on this comment. I have dry spells and most men do as well. Especially for me because I do try and only go for hb6s and above.

You ask my friends and family they will swear up and down that I have a new girl every week and I don't struggle at all. They could not be more wrong.

But they only see what I bring around. And every girl they see, I don't always bang them.

This year in the winter (Jan - March) I had least a different girl a month. I want to say 4 total.

April and may? Absolutely nothing. I had dates, but it didn't go anywhere.

June? I got with one very good looking chick. This one, my friends actually saw. That one ended after about four weeks.

July - current. Nothing unless you want to count a girl I dated last year and we got together on July 4th.

And this year, I have no idea how many flaked and ghosted. The past two weeks I met girls from day game and they both flaked out of nowhere.

So dry spells do happen. This is the downside of being single. Sure we may have more flavors of Starburst. But the guys in the relationship, they get the pink starburst every time almost whenever they want.

Now my buddy, he's your stereotypical Chad. And like me he only goes for the hottest women. He only hooked up with one girl so far this year. And that was a girl he knew for years.

But last year according to him, he was killing it.

[–]3chazthundergut41 points42 points  (5 children) | Copy

Getting laid isn't difficult.

Transforming yourself into a high-value man is.

If you put in the work and build a foundation of attraction (physique, social status, money, purpose, friends, hobbies, lifestyle), combined with RP awareness and a little game, pussy will fall out of the sky and onto your dick.

It took me a couple years to see results with women they are like a lagging indicator. But once I got things going, momentum took over. And each success builds confidence and leads to more success. I'm not even finished losing my belly fat and I'm already fucking a couple girls a month and building a small rotation.

Get on your purpose. Lift. Earn. Socialize. Pussy will come.

[–]MisterDSTP2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well written. Good on you, bud!

[–]randomviper412 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

this is weirdly similar to me! Well done mate

[–]markinsinz70 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Where did you build your social circle from,

[–]3chazthundergut0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

School, work, hiking, and soccer

[–]gregoire_6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Realized my sex drive isn’t as high as I used to think it was, but I have a few I can hit up anytime if I need it. I can do pretty well getting others too, but I’m not fucking every day. Just when I get the urge.

[–]ChemicalGiraffe5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Most are 17yr olds who think going to the gym for a month makes you a bodybuilder.

[–]xx-Rain_Maker-xx9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Confirmation bias plays a huge role here. You only hear the success stories, not the bad ones.

[–]ghosts_of_me5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is it. For every comment there are hundreds, thousands of people not commenting.

[–]deadwoodcylon8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not easy, it's work. It is a numbers game. You only hear about the successes, not the failures. So if you want to get good at this, accept that it's a lot of work and most importantly, enjoy the journey and look at all of it as a learning experience. But once you get the ball rolling, it keeps rolling and somewhat snowballs. So keep it rolling.

[–]DrizzlyShrimp363 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

You need to remember that everyone here seems to be getting laid because those who aren't getting laid aren't talking about it. No one is posting their failures.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I get a new plate once every 3 months. That's more than the 0 I was getting.

I am however like 20% redpill. This shit works if you follow through. I can imagine if I stuck with it that 3 months could be 3 weeks easily.

[–]masterpiece002 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Internet karma likes, don't let the truth get in the way of e-bragging.

[–]RaughKee2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Once you finally put the pieces of the puzzle together, women become no problem. It’s natural abundance and it resonates through every interaction you have, women will find you attractive because you are no longer needy.

[–]TheYambag2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've turned down offers for sex from 3 different women in the last year. I haven't had sex in about 9 years. I don't want to have sex with a woman that I either don't trust or that I can't see myself with long term. I would still have sex before marriage, but I am very very picky about it, because I do not believe that it is healthy for those of us whose long term goal is a healthy marriage with children. I also think the hook up culture is degenerate and super blue pilled. For a crowd that claims to be about knowing the secrets to "the way things really are", this crowd is as blue pilled as it gets on how promiscuity destroys a healthy society.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You ever watch it's Always Sunny in Philadelphia? You know the character Mac? He's always getting laid. Well that's because he has no standards. He'll sleep with women of all types, big one, little ones, old ones, young ones, even ones that used to be guys.

So really it depends on your standards. A lot of guys here who boast about getting laid alot are like Mac. They have no standards.

The other type of guy that gets laid a lot are good looking guys with tight game. They spend more time, approach more women, and pretty much have no life outside of pursuing women. These guys turn PUA into their full time job. These are the guys that make spreadsheets, do A/B split testing, spend a lot on physical appearance, and travel a lot.

Your average guy is maybe getting sex every 3 or 4 months from a random encounter or they are in an LTR/FWB situation.

If it's sex you want them there's huge amount of work that you have to do. First you have to get your body in check. Get to the gym. Get below 10% body fat. Next, up your style game. Get fitted clothes. Then you improve your social skills. And last you approach, approach, approach. You'll approach 100 women, 10 will like you, 5 will go out on a date, and 1 will have sex with you. Approaching 100 women will mean approaching an average of 3 women a day for a month. If you want to have sex once a week you'll have to approach 14 a day, set up 5 dates, and woo 1. It becomes a second job.

[–]addwater2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

A lot of guys on here are just pretending / exaggerating.

I guarantee it.

[–]cat_magnet4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Although I always had at least an LTR in my twenties in my thirties it has gotten a lot easier. I guess more confidence and resources. Also Red Pill helped. At the moment I have a HB7 LTR, HB8 FWB and generally have other encounters around once a month. Thats without really looking or trying that hard. Not sure how to verify that, but its true.

[–]jaw86255 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

I have gone through periods where I was fucking 4-5 girls a week. Some would be only once, some would be regulars for months. Some would get into relationships and hit me up years later. But it did take a lot of work. Lots of swiping on tinder, lots of rejections. And the girls of higher social quality take a lot more work. But if you put the work in, have the time and desire, there is no reason you cant pull like that. Ive pulled over 100 from tinder alone, let alone girls I met irl

[–]Rosace_893 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

if you dont fuck, you have nothing to write about when the topic is about lays

thus, you only hear about the ones who have something to say

[–]TigerXtrm1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is it truly that easy for you or are some of you exaggerating?

There's a rule of thumb about claimed sexual partners.

Men like to inflate numbers, women like to deflate them. TRP is no different.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having?

Plenty of people lie on the Internet.

It seems that the majority of you have absolutely zero problem getting laid.


Is it truly that easy for you


It's not complicated. Put in the work.

[–]downvotesanimals1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

For me, there are dry spells and times when I get on a roll.

[–]BuckNekkid181 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's a simple game, and fucking 5-7/10 girls is easy, but getting laid with quality girls is difficult. You'll get rejected a lot, but the more you approach these girls, the thicker your skin grows, and eventually you'll land a couple of them.

[–]justicecantakeanap1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"hey, seller, is the stuff you sell any good?"

[–]Elitevaz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you are at 0 it might be difficult. However, after you start gaining confidence and the intuition on when to move in on a potential plate, you will find it's pretty easy to get an average girl to want sex with you.

[–]Andorli1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

majority of you have absolutely zero problem getting laid

Getting laid is easier than most guys portray it to be. Once you have couple of plates spinning it stops being a concern at all.

Is it truly that easy for you or are some of you exaggerating

It is usually harder to get laid if you are invested and really want to have sex with a particular chick...ironically.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's not easy, but if you're willing to put in the work on your looks, your life and maybe most importantly your mindset, it's not difficult. Do you realise though how hard the first part is, until you make it a habit? You, OP, also have some skills, something you've invested years into and spend atleast an hour or so a day at. Do you think about that stuff? Do you need to be taught it? Does it look easy now? Of course. But you look back and you realise you've put in hour after hour of work, years of just going in and doing the same thing. Was it easy then? No, you were a novice, an apprentice, an embarrassing idiot, even assuming you had some natural talent. Women are the same. It's never...easy...but you can make it not difficult. Right now I'm guessing, like a lot lot lot of guys, hell me, you haven't put in all the work necessary, or you're not doing it consistently. Getting women and getting laid are like any other skill you can learn if you want to, you need to put in the time, energy and work.

[–]LLL3peat0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I was but then I don’t care anymore. It’s cool to be able to be in a different woman 4 days out of the week. After awhile it gets tiring. Go on a couple dates and keep fucking but after awhile I personally want to be left alone. There’s one girl I miss more than others. Great girl, submissive, great duck, made her own money. But it was only my turn. After a couple weeks she didn’t want anything more so we had our last sex fucking hurrah and I haven’t heard from her since August. She wanted to be able to spend more time with me but I wouldn’t have that time as grad school started two weeks later. Ah well.

Sex is easy to get and obtainable, still fucking two plates once a week but otherwise I got other things to do. Workout, pay down debt, work towards my life goals, etc. it’s a grind but it gets easier as you get used to it. New job potential and I’ve increased my salary from 3 years ago by 300%. How? By valuing my time and finding companies to invest in me as I’m looking for a career not a job.

As stated before, sex is easy, getting new sex is easy, however quality sex and something you could build with another person and your emotions is a rarity. You play the game and keep fucking options and finding new people until you both come to an agreement of exclusivity or the fwb runs its course.

TRP is about getting or putting yourself in the best position for sex and life as possible, not relationships btw.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

If it was that easy subs like trp wouldn’t exist. It’s not easy in fact it’s next to impossible unless you’re a really good looking and rich dude

[–]LLL3peat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like you are in denial. It seems easy but I didn’t reply the years of grinding and hard work. I’m honestly a ugly guy. Non symmetrical face, loose skin from extreme weight loss.

It’s all about frame, a numbers game, and putting yourself out there. Once you start seeing success you’ll find out what works for you and what doesn’t. Sitting behind a phone/computer screen gets you no brownie points.

Be attractive (looks, skills, personality, job, goals you are working on), and approach those you find attractive. Only in Disney movies will the woman approach the guy unless she sees him AS the HIGHEST obtainable man at that given time. The worst someone can say is no so what do you have to lose ?

[–]TheGoldenLeprechaun0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm sure some are but I'd hope in asktrp there'd be a lot less fakes.But if you feel the advice here isn't quality or highly exaggerated you can always mosey on over to /relationshitshow and listen to them.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Its all relative to what you're willing to get laid with, what you're looking for, and the amount of time your willing to spend buttering prospects up.

The guys who get laid often will either have 2-3 good plates spnning, or they are happy to have a lay that's 1-2 points below their SMV.

Personally, as a mid thirties separated dad, I have good success with single mums in their twenties (as they know I understand kiddies come first, and I'll just give them positive times and no shit) and younger students in the city wanting to try a older guy. I'm currently dating a girl who I like, and might be a LTR, but i have 3 or 4 women that are "booty calls" on my phone who I can call to drop a nut and keep my abundance mentality. They are only 6's, but they have good hygiene, nice teeth, and generally nice people so who cares? plus for me as long as the boobs are good I'm normally good! I might actually drop a text to them to meet tonight, I'd rather fuck and try new things in bed on a 6 than masturbate.

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Mid-30's guy -- I am basically done pursuing casual sex.

I've been slowly changing, probably as a result of killing it professionally, and the things I want out of life have changed.

My total n-count is somewhere in the 50's, but, looking back, I'd trade half of those to have been in fulfilling LTR's.

Humans are designed to pair bond; we're not supposed to be running around smashing everything above a 6. I think a lot of the glorifying of casual sex that goes on here is a cynical reaction to having been taken advantage of by women and the system at large. Once you get over that, you realize that yes: you probably do want a great relationship, and yes: it's better than endless casual sex.

But hey, you're on your own journey. Smash away. Just pay attention to the hollow feeling underlying all those orgasms.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I think you should be grateful that 50 plus women let you screw them with absolutely no strings attached. There are so many guys out there who would be grateful to just get one gf but here you are complaining about your n-count

Kind of ridiculous if you ask me

[–]TheLongerCon0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

He's not complaining about his n-count, he's warning you that casual sex is alot of effort for not alot of reward. It'll boost your ego, and make you better with women but it's emotionally empty.

[–]EdvardMunch0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I get laid a lot but its not often what many guys would consider a 7-10. Anyone banging 8-10s regularly probably has about it all and in a densely populated area.

The midwest is very different than large cities.

Its mostly factors of various kinds. Maybe work on every edge that would help you get laid if its what you want. Personally good sex is fairly hit or miss beyond the looks. Sometimes a fairly nerdy overweight chick is an absolute freak and a model has a saggy ass and boring as hell.

[–]GregTRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not a great poster here but I do alright. Currently got about 6 girls on the line and I work abroad a lot. One of them is LTR material but also works away, one I met through reddit, three through tinder and one through bumble.

I go out with/have them over maybe 4/5 nights a week and I'm maybe having a girl spend the night 3x a week. Not uncommon to have sex with two different girls in 24 hours but I'm burning myself out.

Still trying to up the quality and there's a continual changeout of girls after they pull drama out but I do alright.

[–]Youngyoda890 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I’ll tell you from my perspective. I’m gq handsome (believe it or not idc), college grad with a job, 27 years old and a genius (again - believe it or not; don’t care.)

The barely legal girls that are very attractive are easy because I’m simply too smart for them. They don’t have the exp to handle me. Conversations are almost unbearable with them.

The category of: 7 and below is also easy. Game doesn’t matter because they’re already attracted to my looks so I can say anything and they’ll still like me.

The hot girls that are solid 9s and 22-24 years old. These girls are a little more challenging because their brains are more developed and at this point they’ve seen a lot of games played. They most likely have a boyfriend/husband and/or some baggage. They look at me lustfully but the work required for me to get them isn’t worth it in my mind. I just don’t have tome as I already have a gf, gym and career, etc.

8+ women over age 30 are easiest.

I’ve had a good amount of failures from girls that were heavily lusting after me and blatantly flirting with me. I’m not too concerned about it but I want to highlight that there are definitely failures on my end.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Wow, your life must be so awesome. Enjoy it while you can

[–]Youngyoda890 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I just half assed wrote this but let me say this. I was always had a ton of potential but so do most men. High IQ and good facial aesthetics. Body was sub par but I started lifting at age 13. Lots of fuckarounditis until around 19 or 20.

I got into a car accident that killed me (idk if this is the correct term) and they had to shock me back to life. I had a little brain damage from it. Went through some depressing shit along with that and then I bounced back hard af! Graduated college at 25. Felt like a long journey but all worth it.

My point- it doesn’t happen over night for everyone.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

I am flirting with eight girls at the moment, three of whom are on active sexual rotation. Any of the other five can be added to the sexual rotation if one of the three drops out. Sex occurs regularly, since at least one of my active three is bound to be available at any given time.

Don't get depressed, and don't feel like you have to live up to anything. Just arrange your life in such a way that it suits you. And if you're not yet able to get easy sex, put your head down and work hard until you are. Never stop improving, and never stop approaching girls, even when you're a noob.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

When you say that you can screw 8 different girls any time you want how do you expect other people not to get depressed? You’re screwing more girls than most guys can their entire lives. Fucking ridiculous

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy

Because I didn't arrive at my situation by magic powers, or by fate, or by any means that is inaccessible to you. All I did was work hard.

You can achieve the exact same thing. That's not a depressing prospect, that's an encouraging one.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I work hard too (cut throat major where anything below a 70 is failing) but I’m never going to be in a situation where I’ll have 8 women be interested in me. That’s just something out of the movies

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

I’m never going to be in a situation where I’ll have 8 women be interested in me. That’s just something out of the movies

I'm proof to the contrary.

Keep feeling sorry for yourself and be an incel. Or, start putting the TRP sidebar into practice and make the gains piece by piece. It's up to you.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Well that’s because you probably look like a model or you’re really filthy rich.

[–]Musicgoon1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Dude, I came to the Red Pill about 6 years ago. I was a fat Fuck. My game was on point and I tried really hard. It took effort but I was successful even when I was Hella fat. Don't make excuses, try...

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I guess trp works. Good for you for being able to pull even when not being particularly attractive

[–]Musicgoon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look bro, you have to be ,"attractive" to attract women. You can't think like an incel. You can be emotionally attractive, attractive with talent, attractive with strong frame, you can also have a handsome face or good style. Being fat was something I fixed later, but it didn't stop me at all. If you think unattractive thoughts, you won't be attractive...

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Success with eight women is just success with one woman, done eight times. Start with seducing one. The results don't come quickly. They come as a result of sustained hard work with few rewards along the way.

When you came here leaving comments I assumed you were a man. Was I mistaken? Are you just a child looking for someplace to throw a tantrum?

[–]Peter_B_Long0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Guys who are fucking are posting here. Guys who aren't are just observing or are on MGTOW.

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

For me personally it comes in waves. I have 2 girls currently who I guess you could consider plates in the sense that if I invite them over to come and hookup they're not gonna say no unless they are actually busy. But I honestly only see them once every 2 weeks probably.

I've been trying to go out and game a lot more and sometimes I'm feeling it and sometimes I'm not. I'll have weekends where I bring home a different girl on both friday and saturday nights, but then will strike out for the next two weeks. But those periods are what plates are for.

I've started daygaming recently and it's really helped me so much in terms of my game. It's not that hard to have a decent amount of women in the pipeline from different sources. You have girls from:

  • Social circles: These are the easiest girls to game because you already have the social proof of being friends/acquaintances with someone they know. Plus in my personal experience my female friends will put in a good word for me. After that it's pretty much tee-ball. The only problem with social circle game is that there is a finite amount of women compared to other sources.

  • Daygaming: The hardest to master but also the most rewarding. Works on not just your game but your social skills in general. In my experience allows you to bag hotter chicks than other sources. Being unafraid to approach and actually spitting good game demonstrates value that you wouldn't be able to show in a bar or over tinder.

  • Bars/nightlife: The easiest type of in person game because you usually have a bit of alcohol in your system making you more sociable and the women more down to fuck. The problem is every other guy in the place is trying to do the same thing as you so there can be some tough competition. Bars are not as bad in this regard as nightclubs. Nightclubs are the biggest waste of time and money in terms of gaming women unless you're in the top 5-10% of men or are spending hundreds/thousands of dollars to attract female attention in the form of bottle service/vip.

  • Dating apps: The least amount of effort needed but also can be tough unless you aren't high SMV since even 6's are getting bombarded with messages. Dating apps used to be amazing 3-4 years ago but Tinder and Bumble have changed their algorithms to try to get men to sign up for their premium subscriptions. Back in the day on tinder I was getting a solid 8-10 matches per day, sometimes 15-20 on the weekends, and yet today I'm lucky if I get 5. My SMV has increased tons since then as well. I saw a deal for a month of tinder gold for $5 so I said why not. (For those who don't know tinder gold allows you to see all the girls who've swiped right on you and then allows you to pick and choose out fo those who you match with). So I got tinder gold only to see that I had something crazy like 480 girls in my range who had swiped right on me that tinder had just been conveniently deciding to not show me. At this point I just swipe when I'm taking a shit.

  • Dating apps (cont.): My new favorite app is hinge. Better format than tinder and also you get a notification when someone likes you and they always appear in your stack in less than 10 people.

Look I'm a solid 6, 6.5 when I get a nice tan going in the summer and I've probably banged something like 25-30 different women so far this year. It's hard but it's definitely doable.

[–]boy_named_su0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This gets asked here every couple of weeks

10-20% of men are getting most of the pussy. Okay, so a small number of Chads are fucking dozens of girls a year. And the bottom 80-90% are rarely getting laid, or never getting laid

I've fucked 8 women this year (have 3 plates), but it's been a slow year

[–]ProFriendZoner0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Keep in mind their are a lot of keyboard jockies here.

[–]koedeloe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A lot of people lie. No way it's possible to get laid so much if you have a decent job, work out, have hobbies/goals and spend time with your friends/family. Most people on this sub are college kids who lie. Can't imagine someone with a busy life to have time to approach girls all the time.

If they were really as succesful as they said, they wouldn't have to brag about it on a forum. Take it with a grain of salt.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm not a looker at 26% body fat at 5'10". I'm a 26-yr old grad stud....that's right not a student, a grad stud. I dress like a rocker.....hell I am a rocker.

I moved to MURICA from a shithole country with designated shitting streets around a year ago and have fucked exactly 4 bitches; 2 Asian HB7 and HB8, 1 redhead HB8 and 1 blonde HB10 multiple times. I've also had multiple make-outs which I lost count of. Super-proud of myself for fucking the latter. I can honestly say that I can die happily now. Currently, the blonde is just a phone-call away.

I look like a 5 and act like a 9. Currently, I'm a master faker/manipulator.

My frame: I beat death, I'm gonna face it again. I survived using my base aggression and do the same when talking to these bitches, who happen to be entitled and are here to fuck me. Unless I'm told to "fuck off" or they physically go away, I keep talking, in my carefully-cultivated behaviour and British accent, of course. I keep pushing buttons to get them to react emotionally.

Am I 100% secure in myself? Am I at the pinnacle of my game? Did Bush do 9/11? Am I comfortable in my body? Does Hillary deserve the presidency? Is President Trump an idiot? Do I pass the T-shirt test? Do I feel like Zyzz would have felt when looking at his body?

The answer to all the above 9 questions is an unequivocal no. But I'm working on myself, and by that, I mean trudging through the shit while more of it gets shovelled on me on a daily basis. You have a good day now, kid.

[–]Youngyoda891 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I thought you were gonna say Hillary deserves the presidency.. I was about to dismiss everything you just said. I too have been killed and they “shocked me back to life”.

[–]redpillbanana-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's like asking a gymnast if he really is tumbling around that much or is he just exaggerating. He seems to have zero problem doing backflips. Is it truly that easy for him?

Yes, it is truly that easy after a few simple tricks: years of discipline, learning technique, hard training, and hard falls.

Last week I had sex with three different women in one day. While three in one day is getting to be a bit much for me, it was still fantastic. I realize that some men haven't had sex with three different women in a lifetime. I also realize that there are men who put me to shame in the sex department. Now imagine the huge gulf between the men who put me to shame and the 40-year-old virgin-types out there.

The lesson here is that you can improve yourself in this and any other area if you put your mind to it. You may not become Dan Bilzerian but you can certainly improve on where you are now.

"I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by conscious endeavor." Henry David Thoreau

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (11 children) | Copy

This is an advice forum, so the people inclined to give advice are those who have succeeded. People without success aren't going to share.

Me personally--I post a bit but not a ton because I feel like I'm good enough to help newbies but not exactly a guru. I've LTR'd girls that dudes get jealous of both because of their hotness and other traits, and I've plated some cute chicks too. My n-count is near 20, but I probably have like 5 lays only that are what other dudes want to hear about. Meaning, high quality women. One was an LTR for two years.

So, if you read my advice, you may see "n-count 20, HB8 LTR, side plates" but it's not like every chick is a HB8. I've also had to put in multiple years of studying a lot of TRP, lifting, PUA, rejection, etc just to reach where I am today. And where I am today is that only occasionally will a truly hot women sleep with me, but I could fuck average chick after average chick. But really, fucking average chicks is not hard. Make some bar approaches and get a tinder--I have a lot of Beta friends who fuck average chicks with ease.

I suspect many forum members are similar. A lot of us are in pretty good shape, so naturally, at least some hot chicks will want a piece. The amount of people here regularly fucking HB7+ is probably pretty slim, but also, those people will post a lot. A lot of posts also highlight the success because that's what teaches people to mimic the right things, and if you think about it, I am only 20 right now. I've fucked, again, maybe five chicks that dudes would be heavily desiring. To me, it doesn't feel like a ton--I at most have two of these high value chicks going at once. Across three years, that's five people. Now, raise my age to 30. That'd be 13 years of trying to fuck chicks, essentially 4 times as long. If current trends remain, let's say that lands me at 15 high value women. If I go out and say, "I've fucked 15 sexy as shit, feminine, cool women" your immediate thought is "wow, this guy fucks." What you're not seeing is the time-span and all the rejection, which at that point would be innumerable. That's still an average of only a little more than 1 per year, a.k.a. I am usually NOT fucking some hot ass bitch. But in raw totals it would seem like I am.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

So essentially you all are not getting laid as much as it seems (aside from an extremely small minority)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

Depends what it seems like to you. If you think people are having sex with 3 new people every week, then no, we're not. If you think that we are having sex at least once a week, then yes many of us are. I have sex a few times every week though not always with new girls.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Well the way you all talk about it made it seem that you were nailing 3 new chicks a week.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

I mean some people are. Me personally, I fuck about 1 new chick every month. So it adds up over time but it feels far from "fucking a new chick all the time." I'm not the top of the hierarchy though so as I said yes some people do fuck a new chick every week or maybe even multiple or whatever.

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Good for you man. Im sure they do

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Well most of us do go to the gym, and the bar to be attractive isn't much higher than that and dressing well tbh

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

The bar is a lot higher. The majority of dudes do lift weights.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Lmao the majority of what dudes? Athletes? I'm on a college campus, and if the majority of dudes are lifting weights, 1. They must not go to the campus gym because it has nowhere near the 30,000 male students on our campus in it and 2. They must be experts at hiding their big strong arms under the noodles they walk around with. Like seriously I am not big at all--far from jacked--and my arms are bigger than 80% of dude's and I bench more than 90% of dudes. The other 10% being those who take lifting super seriously, lol

[–]345674 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I go to big school too and my gym is packed, all the fucking time. I actually wish less people would come to the gym because it’s always so fucking packed. Since you’re so swole what do you bench then?

[–]Jabbermouth-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m assuming you’re a younger guy like me so I’ll give you my story.

Getting laid is not difficult. I’m a 19 year old college student and in 4 months I’ve went from virgin to an n-count of 6, currently with 2 plates. Most guys in college are getting almost zero pussy. Pareto principle is on steroids in a college environment.

Literally have gone to the gym for ~ 6 months with a decent amount of fuckarounditis. Started dressing better and grooming myself. And got a job to have some money to buy shit. That’s it. I no longer stress about getting pussy. I can focus on other shit.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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