Summary: Even if you're a white guy with a low SMV that wants hot white girls, this guide may even benefit you. I've noticed that it is indeed a question a lot of guys want to know the answer to, whether they admit it or not. I see tons of advice on how to get latinas, Asian girls, black girls, and even Indian/Middle Eastern girls but not as much advice on how to get the good ol All American blonde or hot white girls in general. So, as a guy who has had a ton of success with white girls despite being Indian and has some Asian friends that do well with them, I decided to make this guide.

How to get hot white girls

So after Gaylubeoil's guide on how to game Asian girls as a white guy, I thought, why not make a guide on how to game white girls no matter what your race is (even if you're white)? As a guy who has managed to do well with this demographic and has friends who do well with them, I decided to make this guide.

Why should I even care about this guide?

Whether we like it or not, if you're in the western world, white girls are here to stay. For most guys, especially as they move up in terms of social class, the majority of the girls they will come across are going to be white. Whether it is going to college in a college town or living in the wealthier area of a big city, white girls are going to be the main group you run into. Even if you meet women from minority groups in these areas, chances are they are going to be so brainwashed by their white friends that a lot of what I said on this thread can also apply to heavily white washed girls of minority groups.

I've also found that guys of minority groups who could pull hot white girls had an even easier time pulling hot girls of their own minority groups, this is especially true for Asian and Indian guys I've known.

What do I mean when I say hot white girls?

I mean beauties, the women with pretty faces, nice racks, and nice bodies. Not the geeky chick at the computer lab but the hot girl you see out at the bar or clubs. I mean the hot blonde you see at a rooftop pool party or the Megan Fox lookalike you might run into one day at a bar. Yes, I mean the 10 who used to be in a sorority and came from a rich suburban home where money was never a problem. The kinds of girls Eliot Rodger went bananas over because he wasn't able to get them, that is what I mean by "hot white girls". My guide mainly applies to good looking white girls in the western world, particularly the USA since so many TRPers come from North America. For European girls, standard game will be good enough.

So whether you're a white guy from the midwest who is as American as Apple Pie struggling with them or an Asian guy having problems, this guide is for you.

How are "hot white girls" different?

The answer is simple, money is never a concern to them. Most good looking white girls grew up in wealthier families and simply lived like for the thrill, survival was never on the back of their mind, enjoyment and thrill was. While your typical Asian girl, black girl, or latina was not nearly as spoiled growing up and was taught things such as how her actions have consequences, your typical hot white girl was raised to believe that she could get away with mostly anything (and she probably can!). A great majority of them are jaded and bored, they live life for the excitement and thrill. Money and stability hardly get the typical suburban princess going, they've had both in their entire lives.

Simply put, girls of other races and demographics go for guys that make them feel good. Hot white girls go for guys that make them look good or help them in their never-ending quest for status and validation.

How much your race matters to them and how to do well with this demographic regardless of your race.

I used to think that hot white girls were only hard for Asian guys or brown guys but then I learned that they are difficult for guys of most races, even white guys themselves. Even among white guys, the ones I saw doing well with hot white girls were typically Chads with some status and/or seriously good looks. The ones that couldn't get hot white girls had to resort to getting uglier/plain ones or going interracial. So to make a long story short, getting hot white girls is difficult for guys of mostly all races. Now that being said, it is easier for some than others.

Despite all that being the case, I've found that white guys, mixed race guys that can pass for white, and black guys have an advantage over just about all other ethnic groups. Guys who are in those groups might be able to get by on cold approach, online dating, and social circle game alone but the guide will still help you. For the guys not in those groups, things are slightly more difficult but the obstacles can still be overcome and here is how.

Whether you are the typical midwestern white guy who is as American as apple pie or an Indian guy, this is how you can do well with this demographic.

1 - Lose your anger and hatred towards hot white girls.

Hot white girls symbolize everything that a lot of the guys on this forum who peaked later in life missed out on. The sluts who went for Chad instead of them, the party animals who threw parties they were not invited to, the girls who enjoyed their lives while they were busy building their SMV, etc.

By posting this thread, I know that I will get a lot of responses from angry guys talking about how horrible white girls are, telling everyone not to go for them, and how they are not worth the trouble. Now I am good at reading people, I know that if a guy took the time out to write that response, it isn't that he hates this demographic but it is more along the lines of sour grapes. I've known quite a few Asian guys, Indian guys, and even white guys who did terribly with this demographic and grew to obsessively hating them and bashing them.

Let it go and get over it. I understand that she picked Chad over you in high school and wouldn't give you the time of the day in college, get over it. You can fuck Asian girls all day and scream out to the world how horrible white women are but most people still see you as that guy who is angry that he couldn't get hot white girls. Yes, I admit, hot white girls have many many flaws but if you let them drive the angry emotional reaction from you after reading this thread, they've won.

See them for who they are and work with that, take your frustrated emotions out of it.

No matter how hard you try to tell the world about their evils and how horrible they are, people are hardly going to listen to you.

2 - You MUST understand this: Hot white girls live and die on their social status, more so than any other group of women out there, become popular! Don't be even remotely nerdy!

If you're not a white guy, black guy, or a mixed race guy that can pass for white; you really need to follow this piece of advice.

Simply put, they don't grow out of high school, ever. Even in their 30s, they are playing the same high school popularity games. You have to have status in their world in order to do well with them. If she is a sorority sister at your university, you better have some serious status in that crowd or else you're toast like the rest of guys trying to get at her. To these girls, everything is about one-upping her friends and bragging about the guys she has banged to her friends in order to make them jealous. How do you become popular?

Most of you are too old to get on the high school football team or make it big in sports so I will propose somewhat more realistic options. Get a job as a bartender at a popular nightclub in town (easier said than done), get a job as a club promoter at a popular nightclub, throw your own cool parties, get a male modeling gig, or get 5k followers on Instagram. Get what I am saying? The status you acquire has to be "cool" status, not "stability" type of status. You should get creative with this, don't just limit yourself to the options I've listed.

How not to do it? Talk to her about how you are in med school (nope, doctor = stability = nerd), working as a software engineer, accountant, and talking about your weird geeky hobbies. Now granted if you're a handsome white guy, you might be able to get away with this but most of you aren't so my advice holds. If you have any of those geeky hobbies/career choices as a part of your life, conceal them for later. Geeky hobbies work strongly against you if you are an Asian or Indian guy, beware!

3 - Looks matter a lot more to hot white girls than any other demographic out there.

Hot white girls want male arm candy, there is no exception to this rule unless you're filthy rich (millionaire or above) or famous. With girls of other ethnic groups, game and charisma can make up for a lack of looks but with hot white girls, it cannot. If she is going to go for a brown guy, she wants to be with a Zayn Malik. The obvious red pill advice applies here: lift, max out your looks, and work on your style. TBH, all guys from non-black minority groups that I know who pulled hot white girls were at least 5'10. If you're short and from a non-black minority group, it is going to be even more difficult in which case you must lift, work on style, and hit the status game HARD.

4 - Location location location location location.

In general, if you want to game hot white girls, you need to go to places where there are a lot of them. IMO, Los Angeles and New York are horrible places to game hot white girls because the ones that are there are going to have an inflated SMV due to whites being the minority in those cities. While NYC is a great place to game girls in general, it is not a good place to score with hot white girls. Now add in wealthy trust fund babies who are socially well connected and you're fighting for scraps. Pulling that blonde 10 in the midwest is 10 times easier than pulling her in NYC. If hot white girls are your thing, you need to go to areas where they are the majority as opposed to "diverse" areas where they are a small portion of the population and the competition for them is rough.

That being said, number 2 (the status game) still applies if you happen to be stuck in a place like NYC.

Location also plays in with race as well. A brown guy gaming hot blondes in Illinois is going to have a significantly easier time than one gaming hot blondes in Virginia or North Carolina. Reason being that in the latter states, the racism is so bad towards foreign looking men that even a high SMV will have a tough time making up for it. I would avoid states where racism is really bad (Missouri, Kentucky, Virginia, North Carolina, and Oklahoma are the big ones). This advice only applies to guys that aren't white, black, or mixed to the point where they can pass for white.

5 - I don't recommend most of you do this but it does help: blow.

Hot white girls love abusing drugs because it makes them feel so edgy compared to their safe suburban household lives. Unfortunately, going down this path can lead to a lot of legal problems for you so I don't really recommend most of you do this but it is an idea. I have not gone down this path and don't intend to but I have known guys that have supplied these girls with blow and it helped them with this demographic. Once again, even though it does help you score with these girls, I don't recommend it because of the many dangers involved.

6 - If all else fails, expand your options.

If you can't get that HB9 20 year old blonde, open up to the idea of going for the 28 year old HB9 blonde who is close to hitting the wall. You might even need to open up to sleeping with the 31 year old "milf" you matched with on Tinder. Landing a ONS with a 35 year old milf won't give you the same validation that one with a 20 year old HBB will but you would have still gotten the kind of girls you wanted.

Lessons learned:

1 - You must lose the anger, hatred, and frustration you have towards hot white girls. We get it, they didn't invite you to their parties in high school, their formals in college, and they regularly picked other guys over you. Get over it, hating them and telling the world how bad they are will do you no good because hardly anyone will listen. This is the number 1 thing you need to do above all else.

2 - Hot (keyword) white girls are different from other demographics because they don't value money/wealth as much (unless you are a millionaire or billionaire) as other kinds of women do. Most of these girls value status and looks above all else. While great game and below average looks can get you the latina beauty and a nice six figure salary can land you girls of other demographics, it does not work so well with this demographic.

3 - Certain races of guys (white guys, black guys, and mixed race guys who can pass for white) have it easier with this demographic than other races, but no matter what your race is, you can still have a lot of success with this demographic if you put the time into giving them what they're after.

4 - Bartender at a nightclub, club promoter, guy with 10k Instagram followers, and guy who throws his own parties is good status to these kinds of girls. Nerdy med student and software engineer is negative status. Though you shouldn't change your careers just for this demographic, you should be careful in telling them what you do for a living or at least spin it to where it doesn't come off as nerdy.

5 - Hot white girls value looks more than any other demographic out there, max out your looks!

6 - Your location has a huge say in how you do with hot white girls, especially if you're any race other than a white guy, black guy, or mixed race guy who can pass for white. You want to be in a location that has a lot of hot white girls, that makes the game much easier. Am I saying you should change your location just for women? No but keep in mind that it is playing a role.

Edit: Well, the anger and drama was to be expected but overall, this thread turned out alright.

Whoever gave me gold, thank you!