"The sad part about being the good guy is everyone loves the idea of you. It sucks on a personal level when I'm not good enough. Women love they idea of a good guy but then they have them, the same speech comes out everytime... You are an amazing man, you will make some lucky woman out there very happy, it's just not me. When that happens constantly it just sucks to hear the same speech. Over and over again. But you know what? We can be the best of friends though. Then you get to watch some other dude come in like its nothing and see her act a total different way with him than you. Kinda just makes you sit back and wonder if they were honest with you from the get go? Just mentally tired now."

Edit: I have pointed him to this website...i hope it helps