Stay picky, ladies!

whattheduck77 · 2020-01-21T16:54:21+00:00

As a divorced women, yes. And I would rather be alone 🤣

stillcantsee · 2020-01-21T16:22:48+00:00

Better to be alone than in bad company 💁🏽‍♀️

saltyandpepa · 2020-01-21T16:36:14+00:00

Yup. Settling just leads to resentment. I'll wait for someone I can be truly excited about, who's excited to be with me as well.

Thatgurl_overthere · 2020-01-21T17:29:48+00:00

Or worse spend their whole life in a loveless marriage

samismyboy · 2020-01-21T17:46:44+00:00

I testify to this!! Edit to say my 400$ a month spousal support that I pay testifies to this

Scotsburd · 2020-01-21T17:48:01+00:00

Divorced is the best option. Misery is an unhappy marriage to an arsehole. Better single than stuck.

laumincey · 2020-01-21T20:06:05+00:00

I never get this! This is possibly your LIFE PARTNER we’re talking about here. Why would you NOT be picky?!

o_charlie_o · 2020-01-21T17:53:58+00:00

Also I love being alone, getting dates isn’t hard, finding a good one to keep around is.

Hawkbiitt · 2020-01-21T18:09:32+00:00

Yup ladies dick is abundant lol

quaintlyspoken · 2020-01-21T15:06:45+00:00

💥💥💥💥

FodderFigureIllushun · 2020-01-21T18:23:38+00:00

LOL my best friend always asks about how I can possibly date men who aren't attractive to me at first. She can only date men she considers "hot" in the beginning. (This is surprising to me because her husband is not what I would call "hot" but to each her own.)

I have to be honest, this was my mentality at first but I've seen the light. Attraction goes further than physical for me. I can eventually find someone handsome as long as he treats me well and courts me properly.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-01-21T18:42:39+00:00

"I'd rather be alone than have what you have". Seriously. A lot of the women who say this kind of shit have the SHITTIEST relationships that NOBODY envies.

But no. You'd be the monster for saying that

TheMarbleSlab · 2020-01-21T17:06:47+00:00

AMEN

MermaidsHaveCloacas · 2020-01-22T01:43:16+00:00

I say this a lot, especially having had 4, yes FOUR failed engagements. Because I'd rather have a failed engagement than a failed marriage!

(Ftr, these all happened in my late teens/ early twenties; I'm 32 now lol)

TalkBritishToMe · 2020-01-21T21:31:34+00:00

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spaceislove23 · 2020-01-21T18:40:52+00:00

I couldn’t agree more with all of you! I’ve been putting a lot of thought into this recently. I do get lonely/discouraged about dating but I’ve started to realize my priorities. I’m about to graduate with a degree in a high paying field so I can support myself. The thought of being able to afford to do what I want with my money - traveling, decorating my place how I like , doing what I want and just being free is appealing. I don’t need to settle. I think a big part of why I get discouraged is because in my area it’s common to get married young. But then I hear about how their husbands are cheating or how they’re on their sixth pregnancy at 24 and I’m just happy I didn’t fall into that trap. ✌🏻 I’m going to be very careful about who I give my time to in the future, because being single is starting to seem more fun 🤣

2020-01-21T23:53:42+00:00

Yerp. These bottom dwelling men are not worth your light, your talents, your strength, and love.

ceramicunicorn · 2020-01-21T21:50:51+00:00

Haha of ALL people to be featured in this meme...

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-01-21T22:47:48+00:00

Don’t fall for it! Misery likes company.

AyemHerself · 2020-01-21T23:51:21+00:00

Joke's on you, I'll stay in my miserable marriage forever for the kids!

...

/s

anthropomorphicsocks · 2020-01-21T20:48:11+00:00

Getting married for the first time in a couple months at the age of 38. I shudder to think what my life would be like now had I settled for any of the low value men I met before my badass feminist af fiancé. So glad I stayed picky!

PicklesNBacon · 2020-01-21T21:10:22+00:00

💯

red_lrker_0612 · 2020-01-22T04:51:46+00:00

Hell yes, needed this today as I’m worrying that maybe I’m asking too much from someone who gives too little.

Title	Stay picky, ladies!
Author	spaceislove23
Upvotes	2213
Comments	58
Date	January 21, 2020 2:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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