My Nigel has been ghosting me for DAYS. We’ve been together for two years and this has NEVER happened. Basically to sum it up. He lives 35 miles away from me, he has no car, and usually i drive to see him. Since we’re both in school we only see each other on the weekends but since it’s break time we’ve been spending more time together. We had our anniversary in December and a few weeks later we spent a week together meeting his parents. After we got back i had a tonsillectomy, i needed someone to take care of me and he agreed to the first 24 hours lmao....then he left...i begged him not to because i was in so much pain and couldn’t talk, if something happened to me i wouldn’t be able to call for help. I basically live alone. He went home on Sunday. Come the following Thursday I’m in the worst pain I’ve been in. Haven’t eaten in days, haven’t pooped, threw up a bunch, and passed out in the shower. I asked him for help and he told me to “text 911”. I asked if he could come Friday because i was feeling very alone in this stressful situation, he agreed. I should also quickly mention that he uses a phone i gave him and some of my apps are still signed in. A day before Friday i got an email that someone had tried resetting my Uber password at 8am....mind you he never really leaves the house and walks/uses metro when he has to. I asked him if he did and then since i was pissy i said “betraying me while I’m sick and injured huh?” That is the last message he read to this day. Friday came....no word. I texted him and asked if he was still coming. No word. Then Saturday comes and I’m worried now that maybe something happened to him. I spent the day crying thinking the worst things. I sent him a message apologizing for the poor timing but i expressed that i felt alone and needed support. Still nothing. Then i said “please let me know that you’re at least okay, idk what I’d do if something bad happened to you”. Still nothing. I called him twice and his phone is off. It is now Monday....no word from him. He left his google signed into my computer and i can see his web history and movements....ALL this time he has been looking into building some bullshit guitar electronic. He is fine...at home...avoiding me while i am in pain. Is this an offense worthy of a break up. I’ve thought about letting him approach me since the ball is and has been in his court. Should i break up with him over this? This really crossed a huge line with me and it’s honestly very cruel. He was online on Facebook a few hours ago but of course didn’t open my messages. Sorry for the long read ladies. I’m feeling very lost, lonely, and hopeless. What do i do?