Been there, done that. Never again.

talldrankofH2O · 2020-07-23T22:10:17+00:00

Oop I definitely did that before & never again

willowgrowingroots · 2020-07-24T00:49:05+00:00

Any excessive writing (or anything else excessive) about your partner is a bad sign. If you constantly need to distract your mind or worse, convince yourself constantly it’s all good—it isn’t.

SuccessfulShow5 · 2020-07-23T22:17:21+00:00

Omg I started doing that halfway into my last relationship in my iPhone notes!!!! This is sooo true

imyoursoulmate · 2020-07-24T00:38:02+00:00

I most recently made a cons list after my recent breakup to motivate me not to go back to him. I ended up running out of paper 😬.

CorruptSoulGem · 2020-07-23T21:59:19+00:00

Con: I have to write pros and cons lists to figure out if it’s worth it to be with him.

(If it’s gotten that far then no, it isn’t.)

randomgirlimok · 2020-07-24T02:09:14+00:00

Oh wow, I actually did this when I was considering divorce. So glad I did it, I would still be miserable. There are no pros in the end.

GraveyardH2020 · 2020-07-24T00:17:39+00:00

Yea I did this.

to_learn_to_fly · 2020-07-24T08:41:22+00:00

So, so true. And I'm ashamed to admit that even though my list had more cons than pros LOL, I stayed with my ex for a few more months. Girl, even if your list has only one con, but it's something essential and important to you, all his pros are not worth it.

CharTheCatMom · 2020-07-24T01:11:46+00:00

Been there.

Cringeworthy and a bag of yikes.

hyacinthgirl95 · 2020-07-24T01:52:42+00:00

Ross from friends did this lol

RedRetrograde · 2020-07-23T21:57:11+00:00

Interesting that this advice is coming from someone who calls herself “HentaiHunny.” She sure is one strangely based kinkmeisha. Must be speaking from experience.

thegrrr8pretender · 2020-07-24T03:28:08+00:00

Ugh. Once upon a time I did this. Knew it would be bad. Did it anyways. Was bad. Ugh.

typeadhd · 2020-07-24T03:01:23+00:00

Damn I did this I thought I was the only one

liz2e · 2020-07-24T03:34:23+00:00

wig.

tigergeisha · 2020-07-24T08:46:01+00:00

Ouch, this hit hard 😅

Celia2000NRZ · 2020-07-24T12:55:27+00:00

ROSS AND RACHEL

2020-07-24T14:28:25+00:00

i even did this for a friend that ghosted me... yikes

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-07-24T15:43:32+00:00

Well okay, this hit me like a truck.

Not a toxic relationship but definitively one I should have ended before it did.

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-07-24T16:04:00+00:00

I’m dead. That’s so true. And usually the good qualities are things I could find in my dog tbh

prettyexcitingnews · 2020-07-24T19:45:44+00:00

So true, just timing when to break up... ⏱

Title	Been there, done that. Never again.
Author	Myplummms
Upvotes	931
Comments	32
Date	July 23, 2020 9:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hwowyn/been_there_done_that_never_again/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/been-there-done-that-never-again.717589 https://theredarchive.com/post/717589

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