I’m never chasing. I learned my lesson.

I was texting and calling a guy during quarantine. We were setting a specific time for a date. He kept moving it

And moving it

And moving it

First I was sympathetic. He has work. He is busy. After the third time he moved it, I realised that this is quintessentially NOT MY PROBLEM. It’s his.

Why did he schedule the dates when he was busy? Not my problem. You have time to talk to me for hours and then you flake on a date because of work?

Not my problem.

If he wanted me, he would have come and got me. This is my message. Don’t ever wait for a man. If he wants you, he’ll get you.