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[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple320 points321 points322 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
They don't do either.
[–]BiscuitWoofFDS Newbie198 points199 points200 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yup! I’ve never heard of them say either. Do you ever see men say only fans is work? No they only complain that life is on ‘easy mode’ for women.
[–]ooftaboofta329 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You know what? Im convinced. Women literally never work. I'm gonna walk into work today and sit at my bosses desk and he will be totally ok with it since its not like i was going to work anyway
[–]verusckaFDS Disciple448 points449 points450 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Saying “sex work is work” requires nothing from them plus it sounds woke. Admitting housework is work would mean they would have to concede that they benefit from women’s unpaid labor
[–]redwineandsolitudeFDS Newbie96 points97 points98 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is so true it hurts
[–]akrolina0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it's simply because sex work gets paid and house work does not. Men only count jobs that brings money in. Cleaning and cooking is actually spending money, not earning.
[–]whenthingsconsideredFDS Newbie282 points283 points284 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You know what's also funny about men promoting sex work as work? I have yet to meet a man fighting on the street with those other men who slut shame the "sex workers." They only care about stigma attached to male customers because they want to pay nothing to feel entitled to and abuse women's bodies, and don't mind the actual women being harassed and exploited.
[–]berrylikeovaFDS Newbie46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yuuup!!
[–]LurkForYourLivesFDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I have yet to see a man working on the street. I’m sure they’re out there but I bet your average man considers sex work to be women’s work too.
[–]SpaceC4seFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Men who work on the street are called pimps and drug dealers.
[–]LurkForYourLivesFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too right.
[–]akrolina1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And so sex work as women job should be free just as house work. In case they DECIDE to pay for sex work, they feel like they did something good for the worker, and that she should be thankful that he did not rape her and kill her. its just wtf
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[–]4E4MEFDS Apprentice194 points195 points196 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Sex work is work" unless it's in their own home, where they expect their partner to perform exactly as a sex worker, and then get up and go make them a sammich. Having already anticipated his needs and done the shopping for the ingredients. And having paid for them 50/50.
And then she will end up washing the sheets, because you know he never will.
[–]MNC0540 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
These guys are usually lazy men who expect you to do chores, work a lot etc. while they still want you to be sexy and spontaneous like please
[–]FrogspocketFDS Apprentice79 points80 points81 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Never see this passion for hustle outside of telling GIRLS and young women to do sex work. Why not "panhandling is empowering"? 🙄 or "selling plasma is work!"
I'm so worried about girls who are like 14 and exposed to this "empowering hustle" brainwashing. Theyre told on social media (specially tik tok) that you just have to wait a few years and you can be a cool totally empowered sex worker 🙄. I could cry thinking about it.
There are few things as dangerous, traumatic and life altering for young women as sex work. It's so fucking sad.
[–]MaryliciousFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
They also are gaslighted thinking that sex work involves men who simply just don't want a relationship when in reality those men that hire sex workers are mostly abusers that will try to break their boundaries, pay them peanuts and rape them. I don't get what we are allowed to shit on service work (waitressing, retail, etc) and not on sex work which is like 100 times worse.
Edit: sex workers
[–]nancy5559FDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My ex cheated on me six times with six different prostitutes and he acted like being a prostitute is no big deal and that porn stars should sleep with the men who watch their porn more often because it makes them lots of money to do it. That whole relationship was traumatizing. I left him Jan 4th 2021 and I’m staying strong 💪
[–]oh_shit_oh_fuckFDS Newbie[S] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
omg you poor thing 😔
some men just need to be castrated I swear to goddess
[–]nancy5559FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank you so much <3 ya it was really bad, I’ve posted about him on reddit off and on for years, both with posts and comments. I didn’t realize how toxic our relationship was until I joined FDS, it helped me finally be okay with us breaking up
[–]oh_shit_oh_fuckFDS Newbie[S] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
happy to hear it sis. you are stronger than you know!
[–]MaryliciousFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Please check your health status <3 I'm so happy that you are out that relationship
[–]ReignOnYou959 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They always say how its "better than working in retail or flipping burgers" then say to not judge sex work while theyre clearly judging retail and other service work.
[–]spoonxxmFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah men shame sex workers while using them to jack off. Men love „sex workers“ only if they’re not getting money from it lmao
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Flashback to the post over on AITA or Relationships the other day in which a guy was complaining because his wife didn't have a job and didn't work - aside from keeping house and raising their children, which he said she was great at. He also made more than enough to support them alone. He just straight up doesn't respect that housework and childcare are work. Thankless, 24/7 work.
[–]penelopekittyFDS STRATEGY COACH35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Correct terminology: PROSTITUTION and PROSTITUTED WOMEN AND GIRLS
There is no such thing as sex work or sex workers. Let's call it what it is, not by the euphemism coined to hide reality.
[–]oh_shit_oh_fuckFDS Newbie[S] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep, completely agree. Any time I say “sex work” I always say it in quotations.
It’s prostitution.
Lmfao I actually had an ex bestie get mad at me because I said that a girl we used to know is a prostitute because she has an Only Fans. Woman in question made an Instagram post saying that haters were calling her a prostitute. Ex bestie was cross and started interrogating me: “How the hell does that make her a prostitute?”. I straight up had to show her a definition of a prostitute. For any lurkers, I’ll bring it up for y’all too:
“a person - or a woman in particular - who engages in sexual activity for payment”.
I said to ex bestie that if this woman cannot handle being called a prostitute, then she is definitely in the wrong industry.
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And they get both for free from us in a relationship, while paying sex workers on only fans behind our backs.
[–]nancy5559FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex cheated on me six times with six different prostitutes and he acted like being a prostitute was “no big deal” and a great way for porn stars who wanna make extra money by sleeping with the men who watch their porn. That relationship was traumatizing.
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But they don’t really think sex work is work. They’ll say the words but they’re empty.
[–]luvmyvulvaxoxoFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's because housework isn't demeaning and they don't have to justify it.
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[–]whenthingsconsideredFDS Newbie282 points283 points284 points (5 children) | Copy Link
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[–]LurkForYourLivesFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]4E4MEFDS Apprentice194 points195 points196 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MNC0540 points41 points42 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FrogspocketFDS Apprentice79 points80 points81 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]MaryliciousFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points (6 children) | Copy Link
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[–]spoonxxmFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PahapanFDS Disciple32 points33 points34 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]penelopekittyFDS STRATEGY COACH35 points36 points37 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]oh_shit_oh_fuckFDS Newbie[S] 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple43 points44 points45 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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