PUA dissection, have you ladies noticed the same thing?

SerenaFit · 2021-03-02T23:52:14+00:00

I agree with this. Why not just play it fair? Value a woman. Why so much fear of women ? Instead of trying to push a woman down so a man can feel “higher” why don’t these men just concentrate on being better people? We can do this the same way good women do it. Educate yourself. Work hard. Treat people with respect. Don’t cheat. Tell the truth. Show loyalty. Be kind.

honeybeeroll · 2021-03-03T03:47:54+00:00

TRUTH. any man who is so occupied with thinking about how much pussy he can get and how much he's missing out on if he's in a relationship, has got NOTHING going on in his life. These "reformed" guys who want a tradwife type don't care about marriage or being in love. They're now getting up there age-wise, therefore feeling lonely, and realizing the vapid life they lived for the last how ever many years was meaningless and super unfulfilling for their mind and soul. Like wow, what an absolute SHOCKER that valuing sex with as many "hot" women as possible over love, emotional intimacy, and fulfilling deep relationships with women and other human beings would lead to a life of emptiness. Who would've thought that attempting to live life in a constant state bacchanalia could have any negative consequences 🙄

I am sure some former PUAs eventually realized the errors of their ways and made the change to value more fulfilling things and treat women w/ basic human dignity. However, I am sure such cases are few and far between and clearly the OP isn't talking about such guys in their post.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-03-03T02:33:07+00:00

I agree overall, but I have to quibble a bit. I don't think the manosphere guys ever valued women, or will value women in any way, which I think she's about 98% of the way to understanding. I also don't think most women turned into thots, but the few thots who exist are highly visible thanks to men obsessing over them.

She's right, the men who grew up with proto-manosphere crap have started to turn 40. They thought they would be playboys until 35-40, then snatch up a teen trophy bride. Their high paying miracle jobs didn't happen, the teen trophy bride won't happen, and they spent their adulthoods turning the women their ages into emotionally exhausted divorcees who never even got married.

Of course these users want to create a revisionist history, and pretend that women were all eternal party girls, who turned them down. Women did come out ahead, though. These men would never have been good husbands.

nothing998 · 2021-03-03T01:26:11+00:00

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coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-03-03T03:59:31+00:00

I think this is pretty insightfull.

The part about looking for commitment in the early 2010s spoke to me. I was in a relationship then with a guy who was by society's standards physically unattractive, short, no style, and even had a somewhat disagreeable personality, but I truly loved him, thought he was intelligent, and wanted to get married, have kids, the whole white picket fence thing. I was in my early 20s and only dated two other guys before him. I had multiple people comment why I was dating him because of this less than ideal qualities....

Anyways, this f*cker wanted to "play the field." When a single opportunity to cheat presented itself to him, he took it. I dumped him immediately. He wanted to stay friends explaining that he just wanted experience dating "more women." I blocked him out of my life.

Years later I heard from some mutual friends some things about how his life turned out: got cheated on himself, not much success dating, depression, crippling debt, and unemployment.

If he was influenced but the PUA movement, then honestly it did me a favor because I'm free instead of married to a lvm.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-03-02T23:46:00+00:00

This is so true.

Throwawayrightaway28 · 2021-03-02T23:56:09+00:00

This is gospel.

HeavyMetalLobster · 2021-03-03T00:10:34+00:00

Ahahahaha holy wow. They figured it out

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-03-03T01:50:38+00:00

"her personality (how submissive or naive she is)." And thats what they think womens personalities are. This post is spot on.

greenbagmaria · 2021-03-03T01:20:06+00:00

“Men are less sexually valuable” actually if you think about it, it goes beyond that, they actually normally give negative value to a woman’s life historically by way of impregnating her and thus, making her less mobile (more prone to dying in every way imaginable).

So men really need to bring a lot to the table in order to offset that very big negative thing they do to us (historically, now not so much anymore but still) just to bring them to zero level status, never mind high value status.

The absolute audacity of these incels to think they would end up with any woman at all...

TheFinalGirl_21 · 2021-03-03T10:06:36+00:00

I’ve absolutely noticed this. I’ve dated a couple of aesthetically challenged nerds who seemed nice enough (that was where the bar has been lowered) at first. But once they realized I was giving them an actual shot, they started doing weird PUA stuff that turned me off. It’s like they just couldn’t leave well enough alone. A hot woman is giving you a chance. Be kind. Simple. Honestly, they screw themselves out of sex 99.9% of the time.

souredskittles · 2021-03-03T09:04:56+00:00

Interesting read. Notice it took the guys one decade to reform. It makes sense, try tried all the pua garbage in their 20s and 30s and then got old and realized it’s not where it’s at. I think this will happen to the incel/redpill/mgtow men. Don’t be there to catch them in their come to jesus moment.

Sparrow_143 · 2021-03-03T02:42:37+00:00

It was the memorizing Dane Cook jokes & claiming them as their own that did it for me

justforfds · 2021-03-03T22:13:29+00:00

For years, they trained themselves to pump and dump. Nothing more, nothing less. After years, pump and dump is delivered to them. Nothing more, nothing less, until they're not fit to pump.

Title	PUA dissection, have you ladies noticed the same thing?
Author	nothing998
Upvotes	105
Comments	33
Date	March 2, 2021 4:53 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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