This group seems to disagree about a lot of things due to inconsistency in definitions and perspectives about terms such as “slut” or “high n count women”.

I have observed a bunch of debates where people on the forum tend to argue about the pros/cons as well as rights and wrongs associated with how women that are sluts or have high n counts are incapable of becoming strong long term partners. However, there is zero clarity or consensus about how you determine what constitutes a high n count or what kind of behavior indicates sluttiness. Is it an n count more then average ? Is it having rampant casual sex without any effort of settling down ? Is it the occasional 2-3 casual sexual encounters that happen over a 10-12 year period of being sexually active ? Or is it sleeping with someone on the first date?

I get turned off by promiscuity because I feel in some ways it appears to be reckless and inconsiderate towards self respect and health. But i find it hard to believe that anyone in the western world that has ever had 1-3 casual sexual encounters across a period of 10 or so years with vetted partners, is incapable of having good pairbonding abilities.