Yes, "sparks" (aka tingles) are what you build a good relationship on. That's why you're still with the last guy with whom you had sparks, right? (Alternate forum x-post)

loneliness-inc · 2021-07-07T11:58:15+00:00

LOL!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Gentlemen,

Sparks, tingles and feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelings, are - by definition - moving parts. The word emotion (feelings) itself is related to the word motion (movement).

Can you build a home on moving parts?

Absolutely not!!!

Can you live in a home without any moving parts?

Absolutely not!!!

So to anyone who will come here and say: bUt SeXuAl AtTrAcTiOn iS iMpOrTaNt. Please read the warm home analogy. If you still have something useful to say, feel free to say it. However, if you just spew your knee jerk reactions, your comment will be removed.

Cheers!

Joaquino7997 · 2021-07-07T08:55:40+00:00

It's funny how women talk about the mythical 'spark' or 'click' or the 'tingles' as if that is the end-all be-all for a relationship to work.

And it's even funnier how all that talk instantly goes away when she is in dire financial straits or, even worse, has OOW children and is now "ready to settle down."

I've met several women who believe that if they don't feel the 'magic' when they first meet someone, they would never consider dating that man. Those same women are still very much single and most of them have never been married with children.

Dating is simply not worth the hassle nowadays.

silly_birb · 2021-07-07T09:53:56+00:00

We are at a point where guys on tiktok say "you should be toxic or you will never get laid"

And women agree by making "funny" videos about how they react interested for the toxic guy and bored from the normal guy.

Corn_in_your_pussy · 2021-07-07T10:11:05+00:00

Tingles are a the worst thing to base a relationship off of.

In the western world, the divorce rate is over 50%, and that's assuming a woman even makes it to marriage. Why??

Because every relationship is founded on vagina tingles and men have to do all the heavy lifting on the stuff of substance. Moreover, because vagina tingles are the only thing that women base their relationships on, they will constantly seek them out if the man ceases to provide said tingles.

Nevermind the fact that, for men, marriages are about duty, responsibility, and stability for children... It's the tingles that matter the most to women.

felafelsmoke · 2021-07-07T09:09:35+00:00

Women are their own worst enemies 😂

Disciple_Of_Cheesus · 2021-07-07T11:35:16+00:00

If there are no "sparks" as you put it, why would you continue to go on dates with the guy? Oops, I forgot! He's paying for your free dinners, so you'll keep "dating" him for as long as you can get away with it, amirite?

Absolute bull-fucking-shit.

road_laya · 2021-07-07T10:16:55+00:00

Would they still feed and clothe their children if they aren't feeling it one day? How about going to work, or studying for that Masters degree?

ShinyBronze · 2021-07-07T16:28:25+00:00

I. Hate. That. Damn. Word.

It’s the whole reason why it’s rough for me in dating right now. I’m looking for a relationship. I make good money. I have my own place. My own car. I work out regularly.

But every single damn date. It’s always the same thing.

“I don’t think there’s chemistry”

“I didn’t feel the spark”

“The vibe wasn’t there”

“No connection”

It’s all about feelings with them and all these damn buzzwords. Now if I was a creep or didn’t know how to continue the conversation, that’s fine. I get it.

But we have great talks over coffee or dinner, and I continue to hear this.

And yet, these women are out here panicking in their late 20’s, frustrated about being single when a vast majority of the time… they’re the problem. The sad part is, this isn’t even a select few. This is the majority.

Shout out to all the girls who value pragmatism over their feelings. I know it’s hard, but it’s the right thing to do in the long run.

There’s no data for this, but from what I’ve seen; the relationships that are created via logic or understanding are the ones that stand the test of time and weather the storms.

Just because a guy gives you butterflies doesn’t mean that relationship is gonna last.

_Nequis_ · 2021-07-07T15:41:31+00:00

The sparks/tingles etc. is also as fickle as the women basing their relationships on them.

From experience you may well be "the love of her life/sparks like never in her life" (up until one day she wakes up with no tingles) without having lifted so much as a finger, or jump through a hundred hoops just to end up feeling like an idiot at her rejection.

I had my best friend take a girl out 6 times just for her to kiss a stranger and I repeat total stranger at a train station just cause she "felt the moment/spark",that literally destroyed his self esteem and redpilled me even more.

ArrowGantOne · 2021-07-07T14:56:20+00:00

If you want "sparks" get a dog with no hind legs and metal testicles...name him Sparky!

dirtyMathematician · 2021-07-07T13:24:11+00:00

Reminds me this video about "sparks"
https://streamable.com/j0ph69

BluepillProfessor · 2021-07-07T19:40:50+00:00

And after all these years of red pill analysis they still don't acknowledge that the spark is nothing but vaginal lubrication dripping onto a yellow and Red spotted pad.

It's not some.special spiritual connection girls. Its just cunt slime.💋💋. Your bloody, prolapsed butthole and your drippy runny nose are also rather uninteresting when you put it that way.

comptejete · 2021-07-07T17:00:26+00:00

Bro tip: take a portable Van de Graaff generator with you to a first date

Devilsgun · 2021-07-08T01:54:05+00:00

Homegirl got BASTED
Then Chad left her WASTED
Now YOU get to be her Own Personal Jesus, individually wrapped up into a sexless relationship and handled frozen for her protection
Anything For Bebbie, For Bebbie iz Muh Werld and You Ain't But Your Wallet is Welcome Here

sharedisaster · 2021-07-08T03:42:01+00:00

Reminds me of this

https://i.imgur.com/1xRgRUB.jpg

HipsterNgariman · 2021-07-07T17:24:48+00:00

Let's assume tingles are a tangible thing -- you get bored of everything, so it's just temporary. Every relationship based on tingles, wears off after a while.

If she says she's for you for the tingles, pump and dump. It won't last. But if you're not an idiot, there is no "she" in your life except your mom.

too105 · 2021-07-07T22:56:51+00:00

On a side note: what is this forum you speak of? I thought I wasted a lot of time in Reddit and a few minutes on Quora.... tell me more

GentleHawk1 · 2021-07-08T04:10:59+00:00

They are like beasts on the hunt for instant pleasure.

PopularBug5 · 2021-07-11T08:52:05+00:00

Look guys, let's just see spark as what it really is - compatibility.

She's a broken, damaged girl, and she only feels it with her value matches - broken, damaged guys.

She tries to chameleon herself as a wholesome lady so she could get marriage-minded men to pay attention to her, but her natural affinity for broken, damaged guys stops her from pulling the con.

That's what it really is. No don't feel angry about her inability to feel spark.

Trash begets trash. Good riddance and lucky the men that she doesn't feel anything towards them.

Vikingbeard1 · 2021-07-16T05:42:32+00:00

It is especially ironic when the same women claim to be "demisexual". O rly? Then why are you still single and have fucked 34 men?

Takkune · 2021-07-07T10:34:16+00:00

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