50 kids lacked of a father's figure for an activity involving their dads so they asked through FB 50 volunteers to finally appearing 600 in order to help. So, this is the "Toxic-Masculinity" that we should give up right? [Satire]. Link to the article in comments
But this isn't toxic masculinity and no one is claiming it is.
Toxic masculinity isn't saying that masculinity is inherently toxic, it is talking about the toxic elements of traditional masculinity - the very things we should be fighting against too.
I’m not saying a majority of men are bad though, I think the opposite quite frankly. I personally love men like this and if you look at the article it goes to show that a lot of men will do stuff like this. Our entire problem is with men like the missing fathers in this problem (those that aren’t suffering from issues and are just absent fathers.) Those boys are gonna grow up and now think, hey my father wasn’t here but I’ve got people that love me. Versus oh hey this is what my example of a man was growing up, let me follow suit.
Birth control doesn’t always work and just as women can use that men could use condoms. Also birth control affects your chances of getting pregnant in the future.
Women are more so shunned for abandonment.
Abortion is illegal in a lot of states so the next option would be adoption. What’s wrong with putting a kid in a better home with parents who can care for them?
This is even true in cases of rape where the woman had no choice.
For the most part a lot of men are consensual but unwilling parents. If you don’t want a kid put on a condom (birth control isn’t always affective but a condom is 99% of the time.) If a woman can’t bring herself to give up her blood then as someone who chose not to wear the condom shouldn’t the man be just as responsible?
None of the woman’s outs are 100% effective or a sure thing. But wearing a confirm sure as hell is
Women have the same things men have to prevent pregnancy. Like I said birth control isn’t 100% sure and could lead to problems with future pregnancies.
It is not and has never been legal to dump kids. Woman have always been less inclined to abandon their children.
Abortion is 100% illegal in Alabama. They JUST signed a bill in 2019. No exceptions. And plenty of other states are very strict on abortion.
Okay, so what are you then? White passing? I’m black and Hispanic so my skin is brown. If it hurts you that people are saying that stuff about your grandparents imagine someone saying that straight to your face. Also you turning this into a race issue after clearly stating you’re white passing isn’t helping your case.
I also never said anything bad about men in general. I called out specific men that were deadbeat dads and you took offense to that. Why is that?
Okay so you skipped over answering one of the sentences I put out.
I never said anything paralleling that of racism. If so be more specific and quote it.
You did make this a race issue, you started talking about being white passing and your racist neighbors. I’ve never taken a damn thing back as I described prior but you didn’t quote that sentence because you know I’m right.
Nobody wants to be oppressed, but after I congratulated the men who showed up you started defending deadbeat dads.
That last sentence really irks me because calling out deadbeat dads and calling out people who join gangs to survive and fund a living in a community that lives to put them down is two different things.
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But this isn't toxic masculinity and no one is claiming it is.
Toxic masculinity isn't saying that masculinity is inherently toxic, it is talking about the toxic elements of traditional masculinity - the very things we should be fighting against too.
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Nah, this isn’t the toxic masculinity a majority of us are talking about did. These are great men that everyone should applaud
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I’m not saying a majority of men are bad though, I think the opposite quite frankly. I personally love men like this and if you look at the article it goes to show that a lot of men will do stuff like this. Our entire problem is with men like the missing fathers in this problem (those that aren’t suffering from issues and are just absent fathers.) Those boys are gonna grow up and now think, hey my father wasn’t here but I’ve got people that love me. Versus oh hey this is what my example of a man was growing up, let me follow suit.
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Not all of the missing men were in those categories. And I just specifically said not counting the ones that were
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Birth control doesn’t always work and just as women can use that men could use condoms. Also birth control affects your chances of getting pregnant in the future.
Women are more so shunned for abandonment.
Abortion is illegal in a lot of states so the next option would be adoption. What’s wrong with putting a kid in a better home with parents who can care for them?
This is even true in cases of rape where the woman had no choice.
For the most part a lot of men are consensual but unwilling parents. If you don’t want a kid put on a condom (birth control isn’t always affective but a condom is 99% of the time.) If a woman can’t bring herself to give up her blood then as someone who chose not to wear the condom shouldn’t the man be just as responsible?
None of the woman’s outs are 100% effective or a sure thing. But wearing a confirm sure as hell is
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Women have the same things men have to prevent pregnancy. Like I said birth control isn’t 100% sure and could lead to problems with future pregnancies.
It is not and has never been legal to dump kids. Woman have always been less inclined to abandon their children.
Abortion is 100% illegal in Alabama. They JUST signed a bill in 2019. No exceptions. And plenty of other states are very strict on abortion.
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“If you have to lie to make your point it's a bad point you shouldn't be making.”
Theirs a difference between abandoning your kid and just putting them into a better home.
Women have total control over the man putting the condom on?
Are you trolling me?
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Okay, so what are you then? White passing? I’m black and Hispanic so my skin is brown. If it hurts you that people are saying that stuff about your grandparents imagine someone saying that straight to your face. Also you turning this into a race issue after clearly stating you’re white passing isn’t helping your case.
I also never said anything bad about men in general. I called out specific men that were deadbeat dads and you took offense to that. Why is that?
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Okay so you skipped over answering one of the sentences I put out.
I never said anything paralleling that of racism. If so be more specific and quote it.
You did make this a race issue, you started talking about being white passing and your racist neighbors. I’ve never taken a damn thing back as I described prior but you didn’t quote that sentence because you know I’m right.
Nobody wants to be oppressed, but after I congratulated the men who showed up you started defending deadbeat dads.
That last sentence really irks me because calling out deadbeat dads and calling out people who join gangs to survive and fund a living in a community that lives to put them down is two different things.
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So it's not toxic masculinity.
It's shitty people. Shitty people can me male or female. Toxic masculinity places all the blame on masculinity that is not inherently bad.
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