Why are male virgins lumped in with Nazis, white supremacists, and the KKK?

ayana-shimmer · 2017-08-13T22:16:18+00:00

Agreed. It's a cheap insult that shouldn't be an insult.

I don't think people realize that having a problem with male sexuality can be sexist. I mean there's nothing inherently wrong with being a virgin man and that "insult" doesn't just come out of nowhere.

Clockw0rk · 2017-08-14T02:52:16+00:00

Remember, feminism dismantled female gender roles. Male gender roles are still very much in effect, which is why men are still judged for their height, virility, and income (amidst other things).

Labeling a man as a virgin is an attempt to degrade their virility.

And because attacking men is more socially acceptable than attacking women, you'll see sexist assholes toss around virgin shaming comments with gusto. Try to shame a woman for being infertile though, and you'll be accused of being a hateful misogynist.

Yet another double standard.

HeForeverBleeds · 2017-08-14T00:42:33+00:00

It's typical virgin shaming; the other side of "slut shaming" that gets less attention since males are disproportionately the victims of it.

I think society associates the worth of a man with his relationship to women far too much, anyway, that a guy who's a virgin is perceived so negatively. And with how much people still seem to think the highest achievement a man can have is getting married and providing for his wife

McFeely_Smackup · 2017-08-14T02:58:25+00:00

Consider that anyone using "virgin" as an insult towards a man is stating that they personally measure a man's value by his sexual conquests. When an SJW does it, it's revealing that they're exactly the kind of person they pretend to stand against.

PinkEyedGayDragon · 2017-08-14T06:31:40+00:00

because they are trying to shame the opposition with every most shameful thing they can think of. There is no merit to their claims that their opposition is made of virgins, nazis, white supremcais and kkk, but if you claim they are, you are shaming and silencing them.

andejoh · 2017-08-14T05:37:27+00:00

I remember a classic line in the movie Just One of the Guys. "It's not like I haven't had sex before. I've had lots of sex. I'd like to try it with a partner someday." Quote may bot be exact. It's been 30 years since I watched it.

mrwhibbley · 2017-08-14T06:26:40+00:00

Men that are virgins are seen as losers, geeks and something wrong and need outlets to channel their anger and frustration. Women that are virgins are seen as prudes or overly religious but with no angst or major issues. It's a double standard that may or may not have some validity. But ultimately it's used as an insult to the men questioning their masculinity.

Lethn · 2017-08-14T06:03:41+00:00

Because it's easy but you need to take a look at their backgrounds to understand why these people do what they do. I've always had this theory about SJWs they're not actually 'losers' like a lot of people claim and they used to be the 'popular' ones in school. Look at their pasts and backgrounds, they're often from rich backgrounds, very well off and little to nothing to complain about.

I realised this when everybody found out about MoldyLocks, seriously, look her up. She actually looked totally normal back in the day but for some reason has deliberately made herself ugly like many of them but people do it for a reason.

This is the new 'popularity' game, before it was school, you remember those horrible cunts who went around in groups stereotypically went around being mean to all the people who they thought were losers? Well I suspect many of these types grew up to be SJWs.

So where's my proof in all this? And why would they attack the male virgin stereotype? Well, as it so happens I'm not afraid to admit it I belong to that demographic, I've had no sex life, zilch, nada, but it's all been for a reason. I have almost completely reversed the situation that I had in school quite successfully, very close to starting to earn some real money now once I finished my project. I am literally capable of forging silver bars from raw metal and may even at some point try gold soon enough, yes, I know that sounds like something out of Skyrim but it's real, what SJW do you can do that? And I'm almost ready to release my first game hopefully this year.

Adding to this, I am debt free, because I haven't got a girlfriend I have total freedom to do whatever I want. Sure, It would be nice to get a girlfriend but I'm at least reasonably at peace with myself, especially compared to how I was at school and even people I chatted to for about five seconds after I left school remarked at how much I had drastically changed since then.

Now in comparison look at what these SJW/Feminist losers have, if anything. They are massively in debt, they have no prospects whatsoever beyond being professional activists or journalists for the rest of their lives. They really are the most useless people out there, partly because they come from rich families so they know mommy any daddy will take care of their every need and they'll still get their money when they die so they can afford to do all this bullshit professional activism.

What they do have in comparison to the 'male virgins' they so despise is a handjob once in awhile. It's meant to try and shame us, but when you actually look at the level of their 'relationships' with each other, my fucking god it's miserable as we all know. Like traditionalists, they're trying to drag my demographic down with them, it's our 'duty' to be miserable and in a relationship with someone we don't really like that much anyone like them.

So the TLDR of all of this is it's standard shaming, maybe I'm over thinking this and it's like other people say where they're just trying to throw insults at a lot of us on the other side and this one works every now and then. Really though? I do think it's down to them having truly miserable lives and trying to drag the rest of us down with them.

Hell, Bill Maher get's it believe it or not, I know the guy is a hard lefty but I actually sympathise with him when he talks about being single or at least not married. He said once that people before used to give him a look of pity but now it's "Good for you, how did you do it?" and I think it's because he's known already what we're all discovering where there's a massive amount of social peer pressure to stay in lock step with either the SJW sexless relationship ( If you can call it a relationship ) or the traditionalist slave for your wife mentality.

2017-08-14T06:33:46+00:00

Because, to the female's mind and their enablers, its equally as bad. Social status is EVERYTHING.

meh613 · 2017-08-13T22:29:20+00:00

We were all born virgins.

omegaphallic · 2017-08-14T21:35:30+00:00

Because men are only concidered valuable if they have female approval, virgins are concidered to have no female approve unless they are a Christian Priest and their for have no value in peoples eyes.

MagicTampon · 2017-08-14T00:40:14+00:00

Nothing wrong with being a virgin.

axsis · 2017-08-14T09:21:35+00:00

Quite often when looking at attacks on men with off-mainstream opinions you'll find that insult lurking.

I saw it a lot recently with the James Damore 'google manifesto' saga. Those people often don't realize their enforcing stereotypes they claim to hate.

It's not an argument, it's a fallacy and it shows what type of people they are.

WildHuntsman · 2017-08-14T10:53:47+00:00

It's easy to kick a man when he's down.

lokudde · 2017-08-14T16:46:16+00:00

Interesting how the side that preaches tolerance and equality is one of the first to throw out "virgin" as an insult.

Neko404 · 2017-08-14T23:38:31+00:00

because it is ok to shame and bully men.

2017-08-13T23:39:58+00:00

Social Marxism is anti-male so they'll do anything to equate masculinity with negative things.

TracyMorganFreeman · 2017-08-14T07:56:33+00:00

Because they think any man getting laid must have to grovel at women's feet.

slartitentacles · 2017-08-14T10:23:54+00:00

Knowing what I know now, that the average woman is psychotic and abusive, I would've gladly held on to my virginity.

No amount of sexual experience was worth the emotional and physical scars.

JebberJabber · 2017-08-14T11:09:56+00:00

The Incels sub is hated but that is for their attitude not their celibacy or virginity.

There isn't hatred of virgins. It is used as an insult, suggesting they have been unable to attract a partner. It soudl be called out consistently wherever it is seen. This is one of the few things a MRA can usefully do on a feminist site. Just briefly and politely call out any shaming of virgins, male bodies etc. They know it is wrong but femiinists often don't call it out themselves.

ThatDamnedImp · 2017-08-14T13:43:38+00:00

All leftists hate the latter three. Feminists hate the first one. Feminism dominates the left (no matter how often partisans here try to deny it). People (particularly stupid ones) tend to view everything they dislike as being a piece of the same whole, and partisans are especially stupid people.

Title	Why are male virgins lumped in with Nazis, white supremacists, and the KKK?
Author	henrikali
Upvotes	182
Comments	43
Date	August 13, 2017 9:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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