This is what most of the Okcupid profiles in my area look like

Archibald_Andino · 2016-01-25T06:29:00+00:00

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TheDude41 · 2016-01-25T08:25:48+00:00

Wow, that makes it easier to screen them out.

2016-01-25T07:13:44+00:00

After the tyrannical patriarchy is dismantled via prodigious struggle with indignant emotions, raised fists and feisty sassitude, I suppose something better will spring-up to replace it, much in the same way that Jeffersonian democracy just sprang-up in Libya after the fall of Gaddaffi or in Iraq after the fall of Saddam or in Somalia after the fall of Barre or in Russia after the death of Ivan the Terrible.

Or in Congo after the fall of Mobutu.

Or in China after the fall of the Qing dynasty and the Sun Yat-sen regime.

Or in Russia after the deposition of tsar Nicholas II.

I could go on like this for a while.

NotAllCisMen · 2016-01-25T06:53:47+00:00

Posted this to /r/okcupid here and got a very hostile response. I think it's telling how unspeakable this subject is without an angry mob silencing and downvoting.

PorkShake · 2016-01-25T07:39:00+00:00

Most of the ones I see are overweight single mothers, often with children from multiple fathers. Of course they always say that they aren't looking for a father for their children.

carbonnanotube · 2016-01-25T08:47:50+00:00

I really do prefer when they are up front about this kind of thing.

Usually I filter them out based on their profile picture, but from time to time you get a human sized profile picture with these kinds of sentiments attached.

To add some nuance, I don't care if cares about women's rights or even considers themselves feminist, but putting it on their dating profile tells me they far to radical to have a healthy relationship with.

DoItDidIt · 2016-01-25T06:42:26+00:00

Seattle or Portland?

Il128 · 2016-01-25T14:53:01+00:00

Online dating can make a man angry and bitter.

When you think about it, it really says more about the women who do it more than it does men.

Imagine if you will a person with a circle of friends, a job, Facebook, school activities, so on and so forth. Now imagine that no one in the pools wants to date you or you don't want to date them.

As a man if you're not in the top twenty percent where are you left to look for somebody?

As a woman and you're not in the top 50% where are you left to look for somebody?

I always get a laugh when I see a 20% man or a top 50% woman in online dating.

It follows that there is something not right about them.

For me. I just use it to get laid. I'm a jerk. But those women, especially the 9-10 women. Why are they there?

MotherFuckin-Oedipus · 2016-01-25T15:50:07+00:00

I don't think I have ever seen a finer example of sciolism, ever.

EDIT: I realise that sciolist and sciolism are obscure as fuck works. A sciolist is a pretender of learning. Someone with only superficial knowledge, who uses buzz-words and certain phrases in order to appear expert, or knowledgeable, but on further examination prove themselves to be quite thick.

Allblacksworldchamps · 2016-01-25T09:12:01+00:00

Were you looking at lesbian profiles?

I'm not sure they were putting the best foot foward if they wanted to meet many men :(

baserace · 2016-01-25T11:37:30+00:00

Can you filter out by keywords, such as 'patriarchy'?

HoundDogs · 2016-01-25T19:34:43+00:00

Replace the word "Patriarchy" with the word "Illuminati" and you get a glimpse into how truly absurd their bullshit actually is.

Griever114 · 2016-01-25T13:04:07+00:00

Im sure their faces and body's both look like they eat a lot of pizza and fastfood.

FalcoPeregrinus · 2016-01-25T13:35:04+00:00

What the hell is "ethical sluttiness?"

Sasha_ · 2016-01-25T15:00:48+00:00

When I see women describe themselves as feminists, I always think it's little bit like someone telling you they believe in astrology.

5MC · 2016-01-25T11:14:02+00:00

dismantle the capitalist system

poking around new apps for iPhone

Top kek

splodgenessabounds · 2016-01-25T08:20:19+00:00

I gather you're in SF, but what age group are you talking about here?

Vance87 · 2016-01-25T06:28:41+00:00

Two options...both of them start with M.

Move or MGTOW.

2016-01-25T11:33:40+00:00

I'm so glad I don't live where you do.

soalone34 · 2016-01-25T15:03:57+00:00

They're brainwashed from birth into believing society is out to get them.

JeebusWept · 2016-01-25T19:40:10+00:00

No wonder they're single.

FangornForest · 2016-01-25T19:45:17+00:00

"Yes, Hello! Thank you for coming in today. So, what's your past work experience like?"

Well, I have 8 years experience of combating and smashing the patriarchy... because we all know the gender pay gap is real. Speaking of which, how much money do you make? Because I wan't to make at least that much... otherwise I will sue your ass gender for discrimination.

"... Well, then... I'm sorry to say but... YOUR HIRED!!!" -Tumblr

jimmywiddle · 2016-01-25T19:48:48+00:00

Canada ?

questionnmark · 2016-01-25T23:01:08+00:00

It's a sexual market effect. The poor quality females stay on the market a lot longer than the good quality ones. The fact that they also like to 'marry up' leaves a lot of them stranded in the 'fuckzone' because they are trying to go for the few males that have more power than they do. I'm sure a quick succession of being 'pumped and dumped' would also be a factor in these women becoming angry feminists.

My intuition tells me that women are not being given accurate information on how to navigate the relationship game. Noone talks about their biological clocks, and I bet even less is said about the fact that the men they want are also likely wanted by a lot of other women, so the competition is severe.

marauderp · 2016-01-26T05:39:30+00:00

Can confirm. I don't have numbers, but a large percentage of my "best" matches list feminism and patriarchy in their profiles. =\

Kirril · 2016-01-25T15:04:48+00:00

Proper batshit insane.

Ledbetter86 · 2016-01-25T16:03:05+00:00

As with so many things women do in the dating game, this is more for signaling other women than for men.

chocoboat · 2016-01-25T16:19:10+00:00

Yeah, well... that's what you see on some of those dating sites. No doubt you'll find "bronies" and other guys with pretty strange interests that are helping to keep them single for long periods of time, too.

mrstickman · 2016-01-25T16:20:08+00:00

This may not solve anything for you, but it should get a laugh.

2016-01-25T16:23:07+00:00

Eww...

forlackofabetterword · 2016-01-25T17:16:14+00:00

Lol @ that one bitch talking about "entropy" as if she actually understands the concept beyond pop science and all that hipster intellectualism in general

2016-01-25T17:53:56+00:00

Really helps you weed out the dumb ones

samsc2 · 2016-01-25T17:55:28+00:00

You're lucky. In my area it seems everyone is some weird shit I don't even know wtf it is/means. Stuff like sapiosexual, gender neutral, polyamorous, heteroflexible... It's so confusing and makes me wonder where did normal women go? If I have to ask "do you have a penis or a vagina and do you want a guy with a penis or vagina" every time its just going to kill the mood.

apullin · 2016-01-25T18:24:22+00:00

This is seriously way OKC is like in the SF bay area.

Maybe there are male profiles that are equally shitty in the same way or their own ways, but I don't get exposed to male profiles, so I don't know. Yes, there is room for everyone to be horrible.

Electroverted · 2016-01-25T18:52:48+00:00

I wonder why they're single though...

BlightedArrow91 · 2016-01-25T19:15:08+00:00

This genuinely makes me want to run a social experiment; I'm thinking of making three separate dating profiles on three separate dating sites, one listed as being a vehement feminist, the other listed as being an mra, the final one listed as just a regular schmo with no leaning to one or the other, just to see which gets the most messages and responses.....advice on whether i should or shouldnt do this and how to best do this would be appreciated.

melloboi23 · 2016-01-25T22:09:00+00:00

If only you could filter by a word like that. Using the word patriarchy is enough to disqualify anyone for me.

MyOtherTagsGood · 2016-01-25T14:13:32+00:00

This is less men's rights and more TIA

Edit: So I get downvoted for pointing out that this has nothing to do with male rights being violated? This is just a bunch of guys circle jerking about how they hate feminists, one of the main things we criticize feminists for. Like I said, if you want to just talk shit do it in another sub, this place is for discussion not finger pointing.

Wargame4life · 2016-01-25T14:18:52+00:00

this is exactly what you would expect to happen since OKcupid is a purely for and by single people.

They are actually helping you out by letting you know to avoid them at all costs.

Im glad they are so upfront about it

Title	This is what most of the Okcupid profiles in my area look like
Author	NotAllCisMen
Upvotes	172
Comments	106
Date	January 25, 2016 6:19 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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