My wife of 24 years is being served divorce papers at her work on Wednesday. I have been her doormat or simp. I guess they call it now for way too long. She pushed us into an open marriage just to discover it was one-sided in her favor. Her phone is through my company so I cloned it on to my Ipad. And I am truly done with her. I am going to lowball her a divorce settlement, as my lawyer suggested. And use the information I got off her phone to push her into signing to save face. Unethical maybe but it's more than she deserves. How do I get past the shame and embarrassment to seek support in person. Hiding behind the internet is so much easier.

Edit, and yes, I was told about this sub from the open marriage sub. And very new to reddit in general. But I do like all the ufo conspiracy subs.