Am I fucked?

Jonger1150 · 2023-03-20T02:30:37+00:00

Marrying a 3rd world woman (captain save a ho) never works out.

Sea-Shallot · 2023-03-20T02:00:24+00:00

Hire an attorney if you haven’t already. It’s likely going to be very ugly for u, realistically

caseyjshu · 2023-03-20T02:52:20+00:00

Had a friend do that with a russian girl. Same result. Yes you’re probably fucked

pk2at · 2023-03-20T02:11:19+00:00

Yes, you are!

Dramatic-Ad7192 · 2023-03-20T02:39:55+00:00

Contact immigration and fuck that botch

upvotersfortruth · 2023-03-20T02:02:20+00:00

Canada is more fucked than the U.S., so ... maybe?

She's also asking for spousal support and equity in our house... she literally came from absolute dirt with ZERO to her name!

You can be angry or whatever, but you should have known this could happen so don't let the betrayal cloud doing what you need to do to cut this cancer out without wasting too much cash in the process. In other words, don't take your anger out. Don't yell, don't fight, don't even give her the time of day.

She duped you, own that. Be a good loser. That doesn't mean give away the farm, it just means accepting that the game is over, now you need to defend what's yours without emotion.

smooth-vegetable-936 · 2023-03-20T03:36:14+00:00

I was about to get fucked myself . Got married back in 2009 and after having two daughters she wanted divorce 3 months ago. I have been nothing but honest hard working husband and she has never appreciated me. I tried to change her mind bcs we have two daughters 12 and 6 but she doesn’t give an absolute fuck about them. Just to illustrate that I’m wealthy, very wealthy and never discussed anything to her just incase. She decided to make a deal to get a 45k and walk away and leave back to her country and leave me everything. The judge did not hesitate to sign the deal I live in the United States. She literally walked away from almost half a million according to 50/50 rule, a brand new car, child support, almony, maintenance and I have full custody of my two daughters. She gas shot herself in the you know what. I couldn’t sleep, eat breath for a long time. This marriage crab is a fuckin trap. Never again. She makes 15 dollars In hour even if she stays her, I make 125k a year. For shizzzzle

Alatornio · 2023-03-20T02:05:27+00:00

Where are you located. What province.

Protomize · 2023-03-20T03:37:52+00:00

Yikes! Hire an attorney and see what your options are. Good luck!

Kwen_Oellogg · 2023-03-20T04:34:18+00:00

You expected her to be grateful? Oh, my sweet summer child.

Lawyer up. And fast.

burnttoast14 · 2023-03-20T07:12:43+00:00

OP as a brother to you. id be lying and sugar coating to you things. But lets just say its gonna be a hard uphill battle for you.

A battle that im gonna go to bed tonight and pray you win….

yeldellmedia · 2023-03-20T02:13:49+00:00

We need more information first…. Does she work? Do you guys own a home?

deenath247 · 2023-03-20T10:20:16+00:00

Emigrate to Guatemala.

david10277 · 2023-03-20T04:05:13+00:00

Sell the house... Doesn't matter whose name or title. Is you lived.in it and was married. It's considered a matrimonial home She is entitled to half of the equity

Only time it is protected is if was a inheritance before you got married.

You will need to buy her out and pay her share Refinance or sell...see the fn house

Also lawyer up..you will be on the hook for spousal support and child ..dont waste time , book a court date and offer her a buyout.

Hereforthatandthis · 2023-03-20T06:22:34+00:00

You’re such a loser. Great way to talk about your ex and her kid - of which you WILLINGLY took the responsibility for as you married her. What a dummy. I hope they take a ton of money from you.

Gazmn · 2023-03-20T06:03:47+00:00

What does Your lawyer say about how you sit in the process?

Title	Am I fucked?
Author	throwitaway123random
Upvotes	10
Comments	44
Date	March 20, 2023 1:51 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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