Caught

Several-Eagle4141 · 2026-01-27T15:20:09+00:00

What happened for you to suspect this?

North-Permit-1021 · 2026-01-26T03:59:29+00:00

sorry to hear that man, i hope you feel better soon

hhh888hhhh · 2026-01-25T16:50:48+00:00

Shame her to friends and family before she lies

DntCareBears · 2026-01-25T14:06:00+00:00

Courts not gonna care, but if you have an opportunist lawyer, he will “legal theatre” you into all this paperwork and motions you can do in order to increase billing against you.

You busted her, process it and move on. Get in shape, glow up and don’t seek her. It will fade and she will seek you out later on, but you will have moved on. Don’t sit there and wallow. It’s simply a choice, and you choose to be the best version of yourself.

ApprehensiveSpare925 · 2026-01-25T13:45:43+00:00

Something similar happened to me a few years ago. Been thru hell and came out fire proof. Not going to lie, you got tough times ahead. But life is so much better now. You got this bro.

winnipegviking · 2026-01-25T13:44:01+00:00

Wondering but you had more than this before? Business partners have business dinner meetings. Genuinely and personally interested.

superman_410 · 2026-01-25T10:42:31+00:00

Divorce time bro, you deserve better, hand her them papers and show her you mean business

BrownHoney114 · 2026-01-25T10:39:52+00:00

UpdateMe

Legitimate_Slide2672 · 2026-01-25T10:02:28+00:00

Updateme!

Fuzzy-Delivery799 · 2026-01-25T09:25:28+00:00

Don’t waste time being upset with the guy. Your wife made the decision to give him the time of day.

Hang in there mate… everything will be ok

interspeciesMama · 2026-01-25T09:16:32+00:00

Seeing reddit, strangers from across the world's posts & then a post like this & without fail, the feeling of being punched in the stomach when somebody finds out they've been cheated on, in no matter which way they have found out. That nauseating empathic feeling that sits in one's throat & lingers in the chest for a while afterwards. Then pulling back, learning to center, hoping for them to navigate calmly, quietly, meticulously towards their own best outcome. My heart goes out to you big fellow. Edit: C-R, had to delete other messages as I believe they took up too much space in your commenters' section 🙏)

Comprehensive-Rub207 · 2026-01-25T07:42:14+00:00

Yea ive been expressing my concern over this, our daughter called her mom who told us she was fine and didn't accept the invite to a resteraunt and said she had food at her shop. Lo and behold 2 hrs later i was told that she was at waffle house alone.. yea right i know my wife " well i thought" so i drove over there and seen with my own eyes she was with her buisness partner having dinner and he knows this causes problems. So i walk up in there and sit beside her i say hello and look at him and say " do you see that ring in her finger budy" and the conversation went on she didn't like it of coarse he didn't i told him that this was way out of line and he should be ashamed and that he needs to back off. Ive talked to many people concerning this in my family and network and have been told im over reacting, go see therapy. Well guess what, i was right when i said he does not respect our marriage and my wife is in a emotional affair. I didnt hit nobody, i didnt cuss, i kept calm even though i wanted to beatthe smirk off his face

UseResponsible4368 · 2026-01-25T07:34:27+00:00

Sorry to here, bud. Go find a place to cool off - a hotel room if necessary.

Get the anger out and then turn to cold and calculating.

warwww · 2026-01-25T07:25:06+00:00

Take a long drive….it helps.

tnts_daddy · 2026-01-25T07:20:20+00:00

What? I don't understand what you're saying

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-25T07:18:04+00:00

Relax. Find somewhere where you can get angry without repercussions. You are doing fine.

MiloGoesToPorridge · 2026-01-25T07:10:43+00:00

Damn.

Sorry pal.

Title	Caught
Author	Comprehensive-Rub207
Upvotes	43
Comments	42
Date	January 25, 2026 6:49 AM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1qmbwzt/caught/
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