How’s everyone doing? I’ve joined a few divorced men/ divorced fathers pages on various social media platforms and still find this sub to be the best by far.

Recently I posted about feeling bad because I don’t have any interest in women at all ATM, and a bunch of you guys agreed with me and made me feel not so alone. The comments boosted my confidence and it has allowed me to fully detach from female companionship for the time being, and I want to express how important it is for everyone here to reach this.

Seeing women differently now has allowed me to pursue my own likes, wants and needs with zero remorse or regret. It has allowed me to blossom as a father, son and brother. It’s allowed me to pick up all sorts of little hobbies such as fishing & gardening. Just want to note that I’m a 29 year old single dad of 3 and I by FAR have the best flower/plant presentation in the neighborhood. (take that married house wife bitches)

My music taste has broadened, I’m finding joy in various sports, movies and tv shows. When I want to do something, I fucking do it. I don’t have the grim reaper to answer to and explain my self to. Now that I’m use to this, I don’t see my self ever putting my self back into a situation where that goes away.

I hope you all are getting to this point, or have already achieved it. Drop the thought of women for some time, and really just focus on your self, your career, and your children (if you have them).

Good luck!!