For those of you who are back into the dating world post divorce, I have a question.

Is it just me, or does it seem like every girl you’ve interacted with heavily jumps the gun on being in a relationship?

I have had a ton of success with the dating apps (Hinge, Bumble & FB Dating) and am honestly spinning more plates that I can handle. I wanted to talk to as many women as possible so that I could really experience the different types of women the world has to offer.

I’ve met some that are wonderful, I’ve met some that are miserable. Some are potential partners, some are fuck buddies at best.

What I have noticed though is that regardless of which category they fall under, they all want to heavily dive into a conversation about becoming exclusive.. most of the time before the first date even occurs.

It’s alarming because they don’t know me, and I don’t know them. It genuinely feels like they’re falling in love before I’ve even had the chance to break bread with them.

Has anyone else dealt with or noticed this? I guess in some way it’s an ego boat because I’m appealing enough through photos and short conversations to grab their attention like that, but it’s making it difficult to pay attention and pick up on both their red & green flags, as well as just learning about who they are as individuals.

Curious to see what your guys experience has been so far.