Woman's have a easier life?

SilverTango · 2024-01-22T06:51:46+00:00

I think life can be difficult for men and women, in different ways.

xvszero · 2024-01-22T06:56:06+00:00

Which women? Where? When?

hapylittlepupppy · 2024-01-22T07:54:51+00:00

Copying and pasting my comment from a thread just like this a week or two ago

The leading cause of death of pregnant women is homicide

Gender bias in medicine puts women at risk on multiple levels

Contrary to popular belief, homeless women don't have it easier, they are sitting ducks for sexual assault

Lack of access to period products can increase the risks of poverty

Women and girls die because of some cultural practices around periods being seen as unclean.

Rape is a common tactic of war women are more often the targets

And a reply to that comment mentioned r/whenwomenrefuse

I could go on and on and on with link after link. Comparing lives doesn't help anyone, and it takes away from the fact that women and girls experience both sex and gender-based violence in ways that men do not.

SweelFor- · 2024-01-22T06:38:31+00:00

Which woman? There are 4 billion of them.

You and I are two men, would you say that we have the exact same amount of life difficulty, whatever that is?

Why are you trying to apply this to a group of 4 billion people? Is there any point when you were writing this, where you thought "hold on, women aren't all the same so how can this make sense"?

AcrobaticRhubarb2147 · 2024-01-22T08:34:11+00:00

In some ways, some women do have it easier than men. However, globally, women are raped and murdered and tortured by men. Many women die in child birth and our bodies and plumbing are complicated and needing of more medical attention and care. I don’t think any man wants to have a period once a month. Women suffer a lot of pain just being a woman and that’s even if no crime is committed against us. Many men think it’s completely okay to hit a woman and they are not shy about saying that out loud. Are women perfect angels? Do men not have their own struggles? Of course they do. In some ways men have it harder. Think about the restrictions of women in Taliban ruled Afghanistan. Think about the wars in Africa and the massive gang rapes that occur during war there. Think about the women and girls ganged raped in India. India has a rape epidemic. Women in the United States are being abducted, raped, and tortured, and killed. Look at the body cam footage of Chloe Jones. She was on death’s door. No man is going to trade places with her. The man that abducted her, beat her with a baseball bat for days, and of course raped and tortured her by pouring gasoline on her, fractured her skull. Google the bodycam footage of her face when the police rescued her. Unless you live under a rock, if you turn on the news in the United States, you’ll quickly see what is happening to women and then think about not everything makes the news. An 84 year old woman was dragged from her house in Detroit and her husband was immobile and she was raped and brutalized outside. Another 80 year old woman on the east coast was raped and tied up and then thrown in freezing water to drown. This is what women are up against our whole lives and that’s just in the United States where we have much more rights and protections than women in Muslim countries. No heterosexual man would ever trade places with a woman for a day or at least none I know if they are being honest. Men enjoy the freedom to go out in the middle of the night and really not think twice in most places in the United States. A woman going for cold medicine to a 24 hour Walmart in the middle of the night for her or her sick kid ….if something happens to her, many men will say she was asking for it.

Stargazer1919 · 2024-01-22T06:46:41+00:00

Sure, if you ignore all the stuff that makes womanhood difficult. 🤷‍♀️

-AlwaysBored- · 2024-01-22T07:06:44+00:00

On average, no.

DangerStarfish · 2024-01-22T08:34:24+00:00

Everyone has difficulties in life regardless of their gender or sexual identity or whatever.

I would recommend just living your life and playing the hand that you were dealt instead of... Commenting about everyone else's cards at the table.

If you want to be a woman, be trans, go for it. Be the best woman you can be. If you don't want to be a woman, then don't.

Idk, all these gender debates and battles of the sexes that have been circulating about for the last 15 years ago are honestly a stupid waste of time in my honest opinion.

TreyTrey23 · 2024-01-22T18:36:49+00:00

I think it's not only misguided but also downright offensive. The idea that one gender universally has it easier than the other is a oversimplification and completely ignores the diverse experiences and challenges faced by individuals of all genders.

Life's difficulties are not determined by gender but by a multitude of factors such as socio-economic status, cultural norms, personal circumstances, and individual resilience. Both men and women face their own unique struggles, whether it's societal pressures, discrimination, career obstacles, or personal hardships.

BlueParsec · 2024-01-25T22:51:50+00:00

I think the truth is closer to "prettier people have an easier life".

goodboy92 · 2024-01-22T17:08:21+00:00

As a man who grew up with women, not so sure. Women's period can be excruciating sometimes, the menopause seems like the worst and all the things they have to spend money in order to be relevant and healthy. On the other side, they have easier time dating (although not always the case) and, if they play the cards right (which they usually do), they can turn their life around completely and without less difficulty than men.

mun1942 · 2024-01-22T19:54:40+00:00

Women have more. Pregnancy, two or three years of daily care of her child, kG, take care of her husband, she has multiple tasks. Man has on task to work outside and provide. Both are challenging life stile

HeroeNoMore · 2024-01-23T02:05:27+00:00

For the woman you find attractive and age the only ones visible to you, yes, probably.

markd315 · 2024-01-25T20:07:50+00:00

I sometimes get into passionate but well-mannered arguments with (strong feminist) women in my life about this topic.

It's an interesting conversation but largely inconsequential. Whether life is harder for women on the whole is unrelated to their need for political equality and equal workplace treatment. My take is that both genders face different but serious impediments to their happiness and that based on the experiences of transpeople, the gap is probably small.

And we always pretty much conclude on the note that life is much easier for rich people, regardless of their gender. I won't feel bad for the personal plights of female or male billionaires and megamillionaires regardless of their gender.

To seriously confront "easy vs hard" lives in our society demands a serious reckoning with the idea of class, not gender, even if the two might intersect.

If you find that women are able to secure certain fringe benefits you're free to insist on 50/50 or income-based financial splits in your personal relationships, as I have done.

Don't get too invested in this debate is my advice, even if you like to dabble in it. It's not a hill to die on either way, there's no value in pulling out all the stops to try to win this argument for your gender.

W-Pilled · 2024-01-26T11:38:24+00:00

Women have it easier making friends and getting into relationships. They can move on quicker from a breakup as they generally can get into new relationships quicker. A lot of things are in favor of women in the western world, such as workplace incentives to hire more women and quotas for higher education.They also have lighter sentencing when committing crimes to compared to men. Women tend to take more pain than men can. Women also tend to be more protected by society and are the first to be taken care of, next to children.

Things that are bad for women is that they are generally weaker than men. They are constantly harassed on a daily basis. They also experience painful cramps on a monthly basis. A lot of times, women are not taken seriously because men believe they are more dramatic and prone to lying more. Women tend to avoid conflict more than men, which can hinder women's role in promotions at work. Women also experience risk of unwanted pregnancies and have to carry the burden for 9 months.

Men are overall stronger. Men's bodies are better suited for sports and labor where strength is needed. Men are more able to defend themselves with their fists alone and do not worry about being endangered as much as women do. Man tend to enjoy sex with less risk than women do. Men also tend to be more direct to their wants and needs when it comes to the workforce or making deals.

Things that suck for men is that they have a harder time building relationships. Men are expected to be stoic as showing emotions could be considered weakness and, to some extent, a turnoff to women. During times of war, men are the first to be sent out on the front lines. Men experience more outbursts of anger and commit suicide at higher rates than women do.

TL;DR: Both have their ups and downs. I would not want to be a woman. And I've met women who would not want to be men. Be happy you're alive in the first place

Tagalongdog · 2024-01-28T18:57:56+00:00

I think both sexes are bound to a flawed social structure in their own way. Can’t really say one is easier than another when everyone has their own unique traits.

DaneCountyAlmanac · 2024-01-29T19:45:47+00:00

If I had to put up with some of the stuff I've seen female friends deal with at work, I'd have caught a felony charge by now.

DemifluixTulpaTalk · 2024-01-30T15:20:37+00:00

Women have it harder because we as a sex are physically neglected. Men are psychologically neglected. Both are garbage experiences. This second grade debate is why human rights issues never go anywhere for both sides.

Title	Woman's have a easier life?
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Date	January 22, 2024 6:24 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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