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meecy166 · 2020-05-15T21:20:32+00:00

He is just misunderstood, he is acting out and jealous because he has been trauma. A little bit of loving should help him 🤡

PunnyPrinter · 2020-05-15T20:01:34+00:00

“If I act like his girlfriend, he’ll upgrade me from fuckbuddy to being in a relationship”

That’s the old me looking into the mirror.

AfraidofFollowers · 2020-05-15T19:33:18+00:00

I stuck around before but now it’s hard to stick around at all. They could be great guys but one flaw and I’m like... “this isn’t working for me”.

Not wasting any more time. Time won’t wait for me.

upgradingjewel · 2020-05-15T20:16:24+00:00

I recently realized, thanks to this sub and therapy, that I have spent so much time trying to change men’s actions and thoughts that I never spent time building myself up and making my life great. Even when I would change parts of myself to please men under the guise of “self-improvement,” I was still trying to change men’s thoughts (how attracted they were to me) to no avail because LVM cant change unless they want to and unfortunately they usually don’t see any women as unique enough to change their behavior. It’s been hard but I’ve been slowing scrubbing my clown makeup off lol...I refuse to put my energy into controlling or changing anyone besides myself.

jmaydizzle · 2020-05-15T21:35:43+00:00

I pick me, therefore I am

DJSparksalot · 2020-05-15T22:42:00+00:00

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Me irl

But my psycho ex was normal. Until he wasn't. There were for sure LVM 🚩 that my dumb ass ignored but for the first year he seemed to be trying/pulling himself up.

Then I started out pacing him after 2 years and he got jealous of me bc he was 10 years older than me and behind and started tearing my self esteem to shreads but I thought I could "love him back to normal".

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There's us & our house and the pickmeisha 15 years younger than him he cheated on me with & left me for. They lasted like 5 months bc I guess he started abusing her immediately as opposed to waiting it out several years. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Maisiebr · 2020-05-15T21:47:43+00:00

He has his excuses, I better believe him and do this all over again. Oh, that's the ninth time he failed me and his excuses don't add up? Sorry, I can't hear you over my clown wig!

2020-05-15T19:32:40+00:00

💔 ouch I wish they taught this stuff in school lol

2020-05-15T22:16:05+00:00

“Oh you’re not ready for a relationship? It’s ok, I’ll stick around & give you the gf benefits maybe you’ll realize how good I am for you!!”

“Oh you don’t want me talking to other men bc of your trauma? That’s cool I’ll show you my loyalty & prove that I’m not like your cheating exes!!”

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limitededition19 · 2020-05-16T00:58:46+00:00

Hers to all of the strong powerful woman that grew to wipe that clown make up off and put on the crown they deserve to wear 👑

crimepuff · 2020-05-15T23:32:40+00:00

“Maybe i can change his mind” 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

am-I-doing-it-right · 2020-05-16T01:33:11+00:00

Never again. I swear I used to see red flags take a step back and then run full speed ahead. What was wrong with me?

2020-05-15T21:40:51+00:00

HAHAHHAH old me feels personally attacked

ElleNova77 · 2020-05-15T21:46:43+00:00

He just needs time to realise things 🤡

gigababejfl · 2020-05-16T02:47:49+00:00

I'm weak 💀

Pick me tactics are so tempting and usually the first stage because of how much women are told that failing to attract and keep a man is her fault. Men say if you're not resilient enough to accept their foul behavior, you were never loyal and your love was never true.

From all the stories I hear it really take a lot of women trail by fire to really kill the pick me in them. Many just end up mangled with deep psychological trauma but those who make it emerge all the better for it

Its sick

Postcardtoalake · 2020-05-16T04:57:29+00:00

God, this even applies to having male friends.

FashionTech537 · 2020-05-15T22:31:16+00:00

That was actually me at one point lmao

Few_Direction · 2020-05-15T20:53:25+00:00

LMAO

emowhit15 · 2020-05-16T00:26:21+00:00

Personal attack ain't even the words for but never again!

Manko_Mochi · 2020-05-16T05:09:31+00:00

I was a whole ass clown from 2016-2018

kikivegan · 2020-05-15T19:05:58+00:00

Ouch 🤡

Jinxhourglass · 2020-05-15T20:16:43+00:00

Lmfaooo!

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Author	electroloop
Upvotes	2377
Comments	56
Date	May 15, 2020 6:59 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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