Always keep this in mind, ladies ✨

apommom · 2022-02-26T12:07:51+00:00

When you have boundaries and standards you don’t even need to make decisions, they’re made for you.

askmeabouttheforest · 2022-02-26T12:46:25+00:00

Lol yeah, worst-case scenarion when you have standards is being happy on your own - now compare this with the worst-case scenario of not having standards, which is lifelong abuse and murder...

elainejay82 · 2022-02-26T16:39:45+00:00

This is seriously it.

If you're "hunting" for a HVM, you've lost the point.

Also, any time I was in this mindset and working hard to vet during my "hunt" I came up sorely disappointed every time.

Just live. Men pop into our lives, reveal themselves to us, and we go from there. Just level up and you start to meet better men, naturally.

These past couple years, I did not go looking for men in any capacity. Stayed by myself, alone, leveled up at work, stuck to my exercise routines, updated my living situation, and I met higher value men and got a scrotation going from there. I literally did nothing at all to find a man and this has been the best dating experience I've probably ever lived through. I vetted the ones who popped into my life and went from there.

Don't lift a finger to find one. Only do lifting to keep upping your life.

ironglaciers · 2022-02-26T18:12:45+00:00

If he wanted to, he would. 👏🏻

fireforestfairy · 2022-02-26T15:49:34+00:00

Yeah there is no magical "way" to find a HVM. Whether you come across a HVM you like who likes you back depends on being at the right place at the right time. The thing you can do is creating boundaries with LVM and distancing yourself away from them if possible.

MsWriteNow07 · 2022-02-26T23:26:55+00:00

It’s true. Being an HVW is twofold. If you are a high value woman, you are going to attract a lot of men. All you have to do is sift them. The one you’re left with who meets all your standards is the right one.

AnniaT · 2022-02-26T14:04:47+00:00

Queen.

hexriot2001 · 2022-02-26T14:01:03+00:00

love fleeksie, she's an fds queen!

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-02-26T16:01:41+00:00

This is what I’ve always done, but when I bring it up here, I get told I’m humblebragging and arrogant lol

Ok-Appearance5982 · 2022-03-05T07:29:12+00:00

“How to get the guy” Matthew Hussey 🤮

Title	Always keep this in mind, ladies ✨
Author	Pure-Organization-26
Upvotes	1716
Comments	21
Date	February 26, 2022 11:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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