Being a predator is relatable!

howdoilogoutt · 2021-03-23T20:49:54+00:00

I dont understand how not being popular in high-school is an excuse for literally anything? I didnt date at all, and had like 3 friends but I feel zero urge to make up for it by chasing after younger dudes.

tallwomenneedlovetoo · 2021-03-23T21:07:05+00:00

I was leaving high school when I started watching a similar channel, Roosterteeth, towards its beginning, I believe. It was pretty short lived but I remembered the name. When the grooming that R did came out this past year. I wasn’t surprised. I don’t have any surprise for any of these celeb “bombshells” when it comes out they were trying to rape minors.

I’m saying this with my chest y’all:

I do not believe that there are any good quality, high value men who achieve fame on social media or social media-like websites, especially Instagram and YouTube. They are inherently narcissistic websites and attract men who want fawning young girls to watch them for hours and attempt to engage with them.

I’m on the fence about men who are generally in the spotlight but like only my pinky toe is still on the side of “maybe they aight.”

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-23T21:08:41+00:00

“Dan is not creepy...he is simply horny and does not exhibit the amount of self-control a person of his status should strife to possess.” AKA Dan’s creepy.

Lavender_flow · 2021-03-23T21:15:59+00:00

I literally just can't with fucking men anymore. I have always been pretty popular with the opposite sex, but I was bullied in school when I was younger and suffered from low self-asteem. NOT ONCE, have I felt any desire to ever have sex with a minor and even guys under 30 just seem horribly immature to me. I have actually never slept with a younger guy now that I think of it. (and I have never been attracted to older men either). Even if I was super famous, I would never ever want to engage with thirsty men, I would just instantly block them all. I have had plenty of men approach me, check me out and send thirsty messages on social media- ALL WAS IGNORED or told to fuck off + blocked. Men are so fucking pathetic.

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-03-23T21:14:30+00:00

I’m so glad grooming is beginning to be called out for what it is. I recently found out a male from a band I love also received allegations for grooming from his now ex-wife. I just look at this kind of stuff and my disappointment is palatable. Like how hard is it to just not. To just focus on women your own age. These men will NEVER be approaching women 10 years younger than them with good intentions, ever.

dembar126 · 2021-03-23T21:59:36+00:00

"It can't be creepy because all men do it!"

Always telling on themselves.

howdoilogoutt · 2021-03-23T21:25:02+00:00

This makes me think of a famous potter named Tortus. Not only was he stiffing pottery studios (mainly women) out of their cut of his classes while he was touring, but up popped a sexual harassment and assault accusation. He reeked of douche to me from the get go, i unfollowed him early on because i could just tell. Many women have confirmed he's a fucking douche nozzle. Men can't help but abuse their positions of power. Have I mentioned yet how disgusted I am by men lately?

coldfoot23 · 2021-03-23T22:06:05+00:00

He was almost 40 at the time of doing this shit to his young fans. Both the dynamic of power and parasocial relationships and these young women who haven’t fully mentally developed is disgusting and predatory. I’m so sick of this “technically legal” shit that gets men out of trouble even though they’re creeps.

dkwantsdk · 2021-03-23T22:39:38+00:00

He was an unpopular teenager. Oh okay 🙄

Notspecificc · 2021-03-23T23:21:56+00:00

I know there gotta be some out there, but honestly—how many famous women are out here exploiting sex from people who are way too young, using their fame status?

the-worst- · 2021-03-23T22:34:21+00:00

I'm silently dreading the day that markiplier has allegations thrown his way. Only because his videos helped me through a very depressing time in my life.

I'm already disappointed in his playing (and obvious enjoyment of) the hunnipop series of games.

numbers213 · 2021-03-23T23:14:54+00:00

I use to watch them! I got a weird vibe from Dan because of how much he would talk about sex?? or just be odd all around

2021-03-24T00:15:41+00:00

When you need a backstory to make your predatory behavior excusable.

I swear.

hologothic · 2021-03-24T01:30:07+00:00

Even if a 15 year (or several minors, as it sounds like) is throwing herself at him, he should have the sense as a fully grown adult to be like 'hey, this is wrong, they're too young for me'. Most people don't have their shit together until their prefrontal cortex finally finishes forming around the age of 25. Guys wanna talk about bIoLoGy when it's in their favor, but biologically speaking? A girl that young isn't as capable of making the same level of decisions as someone ten years older, and that's exactly why men like him sleep with them.

Source: was a dumb 15 year old girl at one time, and was often targeted by older men (25-40 age range mostly) that tried to groom me so I'd have sex with them, but thankfully I didn't let it go further.

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-03-24T01:32:15+00:00

This reminds me of that post about what you would do if everyone was frozen in time except for you. One guy said rape and it got many upvotes and comments saying the same 🤮

2021-03-24T02:27:23+00:00

This happened to my friend group way back in the 90s. One of us got into a prestigious and lucrative career right out of high school and I never wondered HOW she got that job. Years later turns out the man in charge 'knew' my friend when she was 14/15 and 'stayed in touch' with her (as in, he groomed her when she was 14) and the second she hit 18 he 'gave her a job' that meant she had to move into his house in LA.

He was 48 years old when she was 18.

He was a pedophile. Recently a string of women came out nationally with stories of him grooming them and my friend is one of them. If I said his career and his name, you would know who I was talking about. The worst part is, her MOTHER was the one who invited him into the home and pushed her daughter towards him because she wanted my friend to be famous.

Platipus6 · 2021-03-24T03:13:17+00:00

Wellp, he used the word ascend, and thinks it was lucky.

in-cel speak for "got laid" and it was just "luck". This kind of shit keeps them in their self-defeating spiral of "may as well lay down and rot". Because hard work leading to success (being successful in life other than getting laid) never occurs to them.

gutsandgorey · 2021-03-24T02:59:37+00:00

Nooooo I loved Dan from GameGrumps! Why does every man have to be shitty ugh.

Lavender_flow · 2021-03-23T21:19:02+00:00

https://gamerant.com/game-grumps-dan-avidan-grooming/ Found this.

and this: https://www.reddit.com/r/rantgrumps/comments/dtciec/kati_schwartz_dans_exclose_friend_releases_a/

Solid-Liquid · 2021-03-24T02:05:03+00:00

I used to be a huge fan of GG (got me through my lonely college years). Fuck man, I liked Dan this shit is disappointing

Title	Being a predator is relatable!
Author	howdoilogoutt
Upvotes	175
Comments	42
Date	March 23, 2021 8:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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