Best thing I’ve seen all week

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2020-12-02T15:01:47+00:00

Yep big advocate of this (only caution if you’re totally alone with the person and smaller). A man grabbed my ass in a club once and smirked at me so I chased him down, grabbed his glasses off of his face, and stomped on them. His smirk dried up QUICKLY.

dollymyfolly · 2020-12-02T14:39:01+00:00

Is her lipstick magic? 😮

Pasdepromesses · 2020-12-02T18:06:00+00:00

I did this once at a festival and all his pickmeisha friends tried to defend the guy. They didn’t see it coming because I went to a good university, am a sorority member and am the ‘going to the opera’ kinda girl. My mom comes from a legit scary and hardcore background so I was raised to take no shit. They didn’t know this though.

Never let a men touch you against your will and if you’re in a safe enough setting, defend yourself. And never let people who turn a blind eye to sexual harassment tell you that ‘violence isn’t the answer’.

Edit: this is off course only in settings where it’s safe to do so.

Also, I really hated the fact that these people acted like I was some sort of caveman for ‘using violence’ but none of them even asked him why he felt entitled to grab my ass.

posprov · 2020-12-02T14:52:30+00:00

Yes! I am not a violent person but I do advocate this

Gourmay · 2020-12-02T18:31:37+00:00

I teach self-defense/jiu-jitsu and no matter your size you can do plenty to defend yourself. And men never expect it. But obviously be careful if they have friends etc. situations can get bad fast.

Partypuppers · 2020-12-03T02:14:38+00:00

A colleague once grabbed my ass at our end of year work Christmas party. I shamed him publicly, called him out for it.

Yeah, no other male colleagues tried to grab me, or even go near me again. Once they know you won't take shit, they avoid you like the plague and it's such a relief.

everythingandlove · 2020-12-02T16:45:33+00:00

I totally advocate this, but if you’re in a situation where you don’t know you’ll get back up, be careful. In that crowd, she had a lot off witnesses.. but be aware of what kind of situation you’re retaliating in.

Stay safe!

GoldandGlowing · 2020-12-02T22:24:00+00:00

There was some h e a t in that slap 🤣 heard it with the camera that far away lmaooo

chateauduchat · 2020-12-02T20:46:13+00:00

I wish this woman was my godmother 😂😂

kimmysradscreename · 2020-12-02T19:19:01+00:00

I was at a club and a random man I hadn't even been talking to smacked my ass. I turned around and he said "I'm sorry but I couldn't help it!" I smiled coyly and told him to get out his phone. He said "Oh shit, yeah, let me get your number." He pulled out his phone and I said "Now call your mother and tell her what you just did. Clearly she isn't done raising you."

EarthKveik · 2020-12-02T21:18:04+00:00

That. Was. Beautiful.

Spittens · 2020-12-03T07:06:48+00:00

My mama always said, don't you start it, but you damn well better finish it.

Title	Best thing I’ve seen all week
Author	frogchickenhorse
Upvotes	304
Comments	29
Date	December 2, 2020 3:41 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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