Last week I had a lovely encounter with a public masturbator. I drove over to the local trail for a bike ride. I had the unfortunate luck to park right beside this guy. I noticed him jacking off immediately. I wasn't sure how to react, so I went to the bathroom as I originally intended. As I sat there and thought about it, I got angrier and angrier.

When I walked back to the car (he was still going), I started yelling at him. Something like, I should call the cops on you. You're sexually assaulting people. You're a disgusting asshole. He raised his hands up in a childish way, like "Oops, you caught me, tee-hee." And drove off quickly.

In retrospect I should have hid my reaction, filmed his license plates and called the cops. But I was so angry.

Real life isn't a porn movie. No one wants to see your shriveled up cock at the park, one of the ONLY places I can exercise and feel peaceful these days (gyms are still closed in my area). I guess I should be grateful he wasn't 100 metres down, where the children were playing on the playset. Grateful he was just another porn-addicted scrote, and not a pedophile. What a shameful world we live in.

I'm pretty much scared to go to the park now. My friend says he probably won't be back, that I scared him away. I doubt it. He probably WANTED to get caught and got off on me humiliating him. Literally every time I go there (again, to mind my own business and exercise) I have an unpleasant encounter with a man. Old men that creepily invade my personal space (in a fucking pandemic) or try to take pictures of my ass in leggings (bro, your shutter sound is on). Strange men in the women's washroom who act confused/pretend not to hear you when you call them out. That guy with the Mustang who pulled up beside me to check me out... before his wife came out of the washroom. And now, whenever I see men sitting in their cars in the parking lot, I wonder if they are masturbating as they stare at the girls passing by.

Anyways, just venting. I know this is a "minor" incident in the scheme of sexual abuse, but I was surprised how much it affected me. I feel like I can't go anywhere without being sexualised. It doesn't matter if I'm wearing tight leggings or baggy clothes, my body is just inherently sexual to men, an object to be gazed upon.

For the male lurkers in this sub, you should be ashamed of yourselves. I see your posts on ladybonersgw where you think it's fun and kinky to jerk off in your car. Oh teehee, it's so naughty, you might get caught.

NO ONE WANTS TO SEE YOUR DICK. YOUR ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES. LIFE IS NOT A PORNO. DON'T INVOLVE PEOPLE IN YOUR KINKS WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT.