I didn't even mention our sub, I only tagged a user in comments, then commented on the original thread about how she should keep holding herself up to higher standards, then it devolved into idiots saying that this space is cult-like and toxic because it offends men, that's basically the gist of it. Honestly they need to just separate it by preferred gender because men and women for the most part don't have the same advantages/disadvantages as the other gender. Sure we have some common ground being human beings, but there's nothing CULT-LIKE about having a women-only space. Women need solidarity with other women. Women need the high-tier examples being led by other women who've reached great personal achievement. Women need a space in which their thoughts and feelings are validated and expounded on.

There's nothing wrong with chewing the fat and there's nothing wrong with wanting better for oneself. I'm glad we have spaces like this, because too often in actual life women can be divisive among each other all over a man, and in spite of that queenly knowledge we share among each other as women. I feel empowered and I'm taking steps towards bettering myself, like many of you. That's why I'm thankful for all the knowledge and wisdom y'all have shared 🙏