I ended a situationship a year ago after I saw the signs that it wasn’t going to turn into a relationship and he was very low value and manipulative. He always made me feel like I wasn’t good enough or didn’t meet his standards. None of my friends liked him and they still don’t.

I think I fell for the bare minimum things he did such as pay for everything, did acts of service without me telling him and more. However there were so many red flags and I couldn’t take it anymore and decided to just be friends. This was not a good idea.

Now that he knows he’s not getting anything from me his true colours have now shown, when we were hanging out he was mentioning how sexy some girls looked, he was telling me how I need to start putting myself out there because I didn’t want to party with him and he was bossing me around. Again making me feel like I wasn’t good enough and boring. We only hung out for 30 minutes because he had other plans.

Moral of the story is to listen to FDS and once that situationship/low value relationship is over do not turn back and try to be friends with that person!