Don’t let them fool you

SlumberAddict · 2020-08-23T23:51:36+00:00

kickhimout2020

hikurangi2019 · 2020-08-24T00:48:38+00:00

I picked up one of these “hobosexual” men, all the red flags were there but I was blind as a bat. He’s 30 and has a track record of moving in with women because he didn’t have a place, technically these women offered him to stay with them including me! (This was right before I found FDS, I was under the illusion if he wants to move in together it MUST mean he’s committed.)

talldrankofH2O · 2020-08-23T23:53:22+00:00

Has anyone seen those TikToks of women taking in homeless or nearly homeless men & turning them into husbands? There are way too many young women applauding them in the comments for me.

Jelly_Lover · 2020-08-24T02:20:30+00:00

It's known as 'cocklodging' in the UK.

Sage_Planter · 2020-08-24T00:20:34+00:00

My dad always warned me about these men.

dragon_wolf4 · 2020-08-24T04:57:10+00:00

Men totally lust after women's bodies and drop them when they don't find them good looking, and are able to find a younger, better looking (in their pathetic opinion) chick. Men want women who will do housework, child rearing, emotional labour, make a house a home. Then they also want to treat women as their personal sex worker. But when it comes to relatively meagre job of paying rent & bills, the woman is a gold digger. Fuck these men. They want everything for nothing.

2993 · 2020-08-24T03:26:49+00:00

I say one of the #1 signs is having no place of their own (living with ex, parents, etc.). These parasites can't pay bills on their own and are nowhere ready to care for a partner. They can't even take care of themselves.

redvioletta · 2020-08-24T03:24:19+00:00

A guy with 2 kids (he repairs phones for living) wanted to marry me because of my work as a teacher. He aimed to be with me so I can make a loan from bank, to support his business. We haven't been in a relationship yet he tried to control everything (what car should I buy, how much money should I send to my parents after we get married etc). I quickly dropped that guy, blocked him, and never contact him anymore. Best decision ever.

hanscons · 2020-08-24T01:50:01+00:00

i know more men like this than not. i wish i was kidding.

feminologie_ · 2020-08-24T08:32:52+00:00

The Weeknd has a song that describes how he used women for shelter and sex back when he was homeless, before fame. It's called Nomads. In the second verse he explains how low value behavior:

I do it all to stay warm I do it all to get by I do it all for a home For a night But, baby I won't keep ya Just know that I'mma leave ya So, fuck me right Baby, fuck me right Until I'm too tired to leave ya

dreamytealuv · 2020-08-24T01:01:18+00:00

What's funny is I know a man like that, he used to find very insecure women off fb, chat them up and then move in. Once they got pregnant he'd dip and movein with his next victim.

Like, whew, having the self-confidence to not accept whatever comes crawling and not tolerating someone to leach off of you can really save you a headache.

Lagaceta2020 · 2020-08-24T03:20:48+00:00

We deserve so much better!.

naga5497 · 2020-08-24T12:14:03+00:00

I’m such a fool. I had at least 4 LTRs with hobosexuals. 🤦🏻‍♀️

cece188 · 2020-08-24T04:03:36+00:00

Honestly, I’m really not afraid to admit I’m a gold digger. It’s really not a bad thing. Anybody that shames me and other women for it are broke and bitter scrotes.

smart-tart23 · 2020-08-24T13:41:46+00:00

Hobo sexual..... I like it

CommercialCamel2 · 2020-08-24T09:53:15+00:00

Yikes, and this could be a problem of mental health most likely,and/or substance abuse.

GlamorKiss · 2020-08-24T17:43:24+00:00

Men NEVER talk about hobosexuals... only gold diggers

kmblue · 2020-08-24T23:26:38+00:00

This is my dearly departed father to a tee. He got his hooks into my mother and never let go.

Title	Don’t let them fool you
Author	Cherishedcrown
Upvotes	955
Comments	44
Date	August 23, 2020 11:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ifdwok/dont_let_them_fool_you/
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