Don’t loose yourself trying to please a man! Either he wants you for you or he isn’t the one for you sis!
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One sure way to lose a man's interest is to be too available, showing too much love to him, being too nice with him. Guaranteed he will get bored and start chasing other women. He might still keep you around as a bangmaid so you will not lose him exactly, but you will definitely lose all his interest and he will now treat you as a stupid slave. I have seen this happen with so many women I know.
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I know. Right now I am having a confusing time handling a super attractive guy who is flirting with me on Facebook. Dude is a state-level sportsman, fitness trainer and has his own business line. He and I both volunteer for a party. So I thought he added me after seeing this as I frequently get friend requests from other volunteers. Turns out he wasn't even aware about my volunteering and added me just because he liked my photos. He was pleasantly surprised when he came to know that we share same interests. He seems decent enough from whatever information I could get on him.
Thing is whenever I talk with him about any topic he answers that and then brings up the subject of my looks and asks me questions like "how you look so beautiful?" "Why your smile is so pretty?". It's not false flattery exactly because I am pretty attractive and guys do compliment me a lot. But they just compliment me and leave it at that and don't ask me to describe my beauty. I tried being polite and told him something like "everyone looks nice when they smile" but he disagrees and says that if someone doesn't have a beautiful face how their smile could be good. And we have had this conversation twice already. Clearly, politeness wasn't working and he wanted a reply where I arrogantly praise my beauty or something. I did give him such reply and that seemed to please him. Now he is requesting my phone number but I told him to earn it by being good on FB first. The more I learn about men, the more I realize that they are very attracted to cold, distant, beautiful woman who knows her value and who treats them with disdain.
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