Exactly! It's not about being more "selective"; I'm literally sorting through trash!

applestorm · 2020-07-31T04:15:42+00:00

Men have a very narrow definition of 'shitty dudes' lol. Basically anyone that's not a murdering rapist is A-OK.

venomous_g · 2020-07-31T03:48:10+00:00

These 5 shitty guys are the only ones that exist in the whole wide world, according to men... but they absolutely don't know who these guys are (it isn't them or anyone they know!). They take great offense at the idea that you think they would know them, and demand that you apologize immediately.

Cosmictears83 · 2020-07-31T04:33:44+00:00

And they literally materialize out of NOWHERE sometimes. Just the other day I went down to my car, and a scrote just appeared out of thin air. I could tell he didn't live in my complex and was passing through on foot. He proceeds to sit down next to my car and start asking invasive questions. "So you got a boyfriend?" Etc. I booked it out of there and watched from upstairs as he sauntered away from the complex. He was a weirdo at best and a potential rapist at worst.

Men don't get that even at home during a quarantine scrote weirdos are imposing themselves on us any which way they can. There's no escape from them. Yet I'm supposed to just keep this neutral to positive view of men?

cinderella_rising · 2020-07-31T03:34:02+00:00

That first pic is more representative of the 5 decent guys we meet in a year! 🤦🏻‍♀️

2020-07-31T04:27:18+00:00

ItS yOuR fAuLt YoU cHoSe An AbUsIvE pArTnEr - Every r/niceguy

Edit: wrong subreddit

DangerousRiver9 · 2020-07-31T04:39:19+00:00

“I’m sorting through trash” 😂😂 I’m going to have to borrow that line.

meecy166 · 2020-07-31T04:26:13+00:00

But not all men, don’t use the minority to judge all the good guys 🙄

HazyOdell · 2020-07-31T09:10:01+00:00

I hate the comments about women's inboxes being flooded with other guys messages, and how defeated they feel. The grass is definitely not greener it's full of turds that treat, and sees you as a fix all to their problems. It's soul sucking the amount of times a man has planned an entire relationship without my input or feelings being considered.

idhavetocharge · 2020-07-31T15:37:54+00:00

This is why I want to puke every time I see #notallmen bullshit.

Its not ALL but its definitely MOST.

ezadaze · 2020-07-31T08:52:40+00:00

That's why I don't care about hurting anyone's feelings with my hIgH sTaNdArDs. I'm looking for the 1% (one) that is right for me, not to date every pathetic male on this planet to appease their ego.

heleninthealps · 2020-07-31T06:28:38+00:00

OMG LMAO, I'm LITERALLY encountering them there (The picture is from Oktoberfest in my hometown) x'D

littleredpartydress_ · 2020-07-31T17:49:50+00:00

Why do people get so mad about a woman actually literally any individual having some level of standards because they know what will work for them and 90 percent of the time these standards are about love and respect. Also most of us women looking for a high value man are also trying to if we aren’t already high value women. We are not the equivalent of the overweight balding 40 year old who sits on the couch is unemployed and drinks like 2 cases a day, and then proceeds to berate the woman who gave him all of his children and takes care of his home because she’s not a skinny fit 20 year old who plays to his bimbo fantasies

LCM75360 · 2020-07-31T11:33:29+00:00

Haha...ugh. This is so true and sad and makes me angry. I wish I'd only encounter 5 shitty dudes instead of the unknown but obviously much higher number which I do not like to think about. All I need is one good man..."lord knows I've been searching" (Cue Janis Joplin's song 'One Good Man')

blair2006 · 2020-08-02T01:17:54+00:00

Yeah I can, off the top of my head, think of three of my friends whose boyfriends or husbands literally tried to kill them. Nah.

Exactly! It's not about being more "selective"; I'm literally sorting through trash!

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Title	Exactly! It's not about being more "selective"; I'm literally sorting through trash!
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Date	July 31, 2020 3:25 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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