FDS is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-01-08T00:05:10+00:00

God men are fucking stupid. The amount of times I've said I want to get married and they go "buT NO mAn iS jUSt gOinG to jUMP INto mArrIAge" like you want to marry the first man that asks.

Fuck off, idiot. And take your 'casual' bullshit with you.

Also, great gif reply. I literally lol'd. Hope you blocked his ass after.

FlamingFeminist · 2020-01-08T00:21:48+00:00

I hate if I woman says anything about marriage or a relationship it's always like "WOAH ease up on the pressure" Obviously, we don't want to marry just anyone, and literally no one asked YOU to marry me. It's a general question. Calm down, bro. They love to accuse women of pressuring them into things. 🙄

If you ever watch 90 Day Fiancé the guys will travel across the world to meet some chick they've been talking to for 3 months. Buy an engagement ring, walk around with it in their pocket and talk about popping the question at every confessional shoot. Then, the woman gently asks about getting engaged on day 19 of 20 of their trip and he runs to the camera like, "She is putting some real pressure on me!!!1" Excuse me dude, you literally have a ring in your pocket.

janeaustenfan99 · 2020-01-08T00:51:00+00:00

Why do guys get upset or argumentative when you tell them you want to get married or want a relationship one day? It’s almost as if he’s trying to convince her she’s wrong for wanting that. If he wants something casual he should find a woman on the same page as him and stfu.

2020-01-08T00:33:56+00:00

Something casual with potential for more means he wants to have sex with you biweekly and rarely text you but "maybe one day"

2020-01-08T03:30:50+00:00

"Maybe calm down." I instantly felt rage.

"I'm looking for a serious relationship/marriage"

"Holy fuck, CALM DOWN. Calm aaaaaalllllll the way down. Down soooo low. Lower. Loooower. Okay now you're at rock bottom, and here I am, baby!"

BDizzy18 · 2020-01-08T02:06:31+00:00

My man, judging by your avatar picture a woman interested in "jumping into marriage" is not going to be a problem for you.

This guy really has a short-sleeved white shirt on with a red bowtie and suspenders PLUS a scruffy no-effort beard and a soyboy grin and he thinks a woman vaguely interested in talking to him needs to "calm down" and not want to "jump into marriage." Sheer audacity.

azngirl7689 · 2020-01-08T01:02:42+00:00

That’s a lot of words for FWB. Male word salad man.......

CyanCayenne · 2020-01-08T06:42:49+00:00

"And if you do then run"

It's pretty annoying when total players try to act like they're gonna tell you who the real bad guys are.

Itchy-Transportation · 2020-01-08T07:14:27+00:00

the replies were hilarious, but next time a man tells you to "calm down" for stating your preferences, that's your cue to insta block. they deserve no more mental effort.

jalapenopancakes · 2020-01-08T00:48:39+00:00

You CAN have these discussions up front.

I did with my husband. I did with multiple men I dated as well - some were looking for the same things but we didn’t pursue a relationship as we didn’t click during the first date

ThrowAway3879284 · 2020-01-08T08:33:04+00:00

Men are idiots, when I talk first time about the expectations I have for my partner they are like “chill out no guy is going to date you if you are like that” or “you would make such a great gf if you were not that demanding”.

Bitch I’m lesbian. I couldn’t care less.

Also lesbian women are not low effort like these scrotes that can’t even check the boxes of basic adulting.

not4321 · 2020-01-08T04:00:39+00:00

why are you sending funny gifs? just block and move on.

Asbelowsoaboveme · 2020-01-08T16:19:36+00:00

We should start telling men to “calm down” when they express their desires. “Whoa you want sex? That’s insane, what’s wrong with you, chill out, slow down you weirdo creep”

perhapsbutnottoday · 2020-01-08T13:39:21+00:00

Asked a man I was seeing ( being breadcrumbed by is the truth) to be my boyfriend . This was via text. I meant I needed him to stand in some capacity for some benefits I was applying for where the funders looked at partnered women better than single ones. The verbal gymnastics this man played verses the weak /porn sick sex game he had still amazes me. Said the spiel of how he “really liked me and enjoyed the sex but was not yet in love with me.” I told him hold up! And take a deep breath that’s not what I’m asking. Wish I could have been harsher/ more truthful but I wanted that grant money. In the end he says no, 3 weeks later. I blocked him immediately.

They seem to think all women want that from them but don’t know that even if we do want marriage we are choosy about who we tie ourselves to precisely for the reason that we’re gonna enhance his life. We add value. A married man has standing and gravitas in Society apart from living longer and better than single guys.

Puhleeese!

take1990 · 2020-01-08T23:03:31+00:00

“Something casual with potential for more”

Fuckboi here couldn’t be more predictable.

Haltthemoon · 2020-01-08T18:41:57+00:00

what a dumbass! This is the problem with men. When they ask you what you're looking for, they really think your answers would mean you want that with them.

"I want to have kids within the next 3 years". Men hear "I want to have kids with YOU within the next 3 years".

Loser, hell no.

Hot-apricot · 2020-01-08T12:14:12+00:00

Hahaha love the GIF!

Title	FDS is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural
Author	Helppls445
Upvotes	145
Comments	34
Date	January 7, 2020 11:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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