He is right

Sewud · 2021-06-27T16:39:33+00:00

This is what I did with my boyfriend's homework in university.

Did I ever get paid for the grades I got him? Did I get a thank you? It came to a climatic end on the eve of our solid state physics final. He came to my place that night and confessed he hadn't done his half of the homework (which was due at the same time as the exam, the next morning). I did his half of the homework while he studied. He was still there at 2 AM asking me to explain stuff to him. I remember after explaining something over and over that he still wasn't getting, I said I wanted to move on to read a chapter I hadn't read yet. He told me "you can't seriously be this selfish, this could be on the exam and then you would know how to do it and I wouldn't know how to do it, how can you be okay with this?". So I kept explaining the thing to him. I became exasperated like "but this is how it is, what don't you get?". He went to the bathroom and when he came back he said "you were so mean to me I went to the bathroom because I didn't want you to see me cry. I looked at myself in the mirror and there was a tear rolling down my cheek. This is the first time anyone's ever made me feel stupid. After the exam, I'm done with you." This was the same guy who told me he didn't like "girls who cry" because he felt it was "manipulative". He didn't even have a car so I didn't even get free rides. I got absolutely nothing from dating him, yet he felt so entitled to my help any time he wanted.

It's just not worth it. Men should be bringing joy to your life and working hard to impress you, not the other way around.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2021-06-27T16:25:48+00:00

Idk what makes his cuter but ok.

Tanalize · 2021-06-27T12:00:29+00:00

BuT wHaT dO wOmEn BrInG tO tHe TaBlE??? 🤨

engineergorl · 2021-06-27T16:08:17+00:00

hIS Is cUtER???? HIS IS CUTER?????? girl, no. Not only are you devaluing your own work, you're doing it by coddling his ego. Fam, we have eyes.

arnezuara · 2021-06-27T11:12:45+00:00

The fact that she devalued her work. She’s clearly so, so talented and yet 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’m tired of seeing women diminish themselves for the sake of men’s fragile egos.

lolmemberberries · 2021-06-27T22:14:51+00:00

A coworker of mine who is an older woman always boosts up women who become more successful, who are talented, and who take on leadership roles and her rationale is "You give a woman something and she will always make it more." Women are amazing, we bring so much to the table. Men are aware of this, which is why they work to keep us down.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-06-27T14:33:44+00:00

Oh great, so she basically did free graphic design labor for him. 😒

This happens so often. She has this amazing skill or drive, he has the dream but no skill, drive or passion. Maybe she’s really organized and good with numbers. Well, suddenly she’s drawing up spreadsheets for his business idea. Work that he would have had to hire for.

I hope this was just a silly drawing and he’s not going to try and sell it on merchandise or anything.

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-06-27T16:31:23+00:00

Hey a new form of everything digging; art digging! So sad that she's publicly putting herself down because she's afraid of being better than a man at something. His literally looks like something a kindergarten kid scribbled out in crayon. She brought life to HIS (not her own) vision and she's minimizing her talent to preserve his fragile ego.

Aromatic-Owl8808 · 2021-06-27T20:35:53+00:00

Reminder: Don't be Barbara the Builder

NinjaCynic · 2021-06-27T11:28:11+00:00

Hers should be framed and/or on a t-shirt. His is..... erm....shite.

Platipus6 · 2021-06-27T11:36:43+00:00

I got the ick secondhand 🤮

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-06-27T21:34:14+00:00

Cute?

You mean garbage?🤡🤮

Title	He is right
Author	PinkestMango
Upvotes	860
Comments	34
Date	June 27, 2021 10:30 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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