Seriously, unless you're also a parent, and you want someone who can understand what another parent goes through, I get that. But even so, combining families, becoming a step-mother just sounds gruelling, arduous, uphill all the way. There just don't seem to be many, if any, good points to being a step-parent, specifically a step-mother.

What would any single woman get out of dating a single man, unless she can't have kids, and is willing to step into that role? My fear, especially as a childfree woman, is that a NVM wants a woman to just dump his kid on while he plays video games, or goes off and just lives his life while she's the angel in the house. He would then expect her to run the entire household and manage him too, as a manbaby and project.

I'm venting here because The Idiot With 10,000 Names contacted me yet again, with yet another new name, and tried to run roughshod over my clearly stated boundaries. It underscores just how much my wants, needs, standards, preferences don't count with this scrote and idiots like him, and just how much more I stick to those wants, needs, standards and preferences as a way to exert my will over his. If this is all about power, dominance, and control, which I highly suspect, then my will is the way things are. Any single father would bring no value whatsoever into my life, and would be a negative value.

Thanks for listening to me rant. I'm so tired of this scrote, or these scrotes, and their AGENDA of please love me even though you've said you don't want men like me, don't have kids, don't want kids, don't want to marry a third time, don't want to live with anyone. I want your time, attention, all your money, all your resources, and I want you to completely reverse yourself on every standard you have because I'm sPeCiAl.