«If you think the current conversations about women’s safety don’t affect you...» I thought a lot about this, and its true

Southernbelllle · 2021-06-12T20:09:29+00:00

Can confirm, was a child. 😔

Frogspocket · 2021-06-12T20:55:47+00:00

I hate this fact so much. We were all so young (I was 10). It boggles my mind. And every man I've ever known has acted like they hate pedos and predators. They all laugh at shows like to catch a predator, seem supportive of serious sentences for sexual criminals, and make fun of losers who seek out kids to prey on. But it's like, hmmm.

Kimpractical · 2021-06-12T21:39:56+00:00

First time I was age 9 and it was by kids my age (parents did nothing when I told them). First time by a grown man I was 12

Platipus6 · 2021-06-12T22:50:40+00:00

I was 8 and a pack of three teenage boys were looking at me weird then one did the crotch-grab up-nod. At 12 going for a walk around the "safe" suburb, a perv used his car to block me crossing the street.

My grandpa molested my aunts. Uncle molested cousin.

How far back we going?

RabidWench · 2021-06-12T23:05:34+00:00

I was 13 the first time a stranger grabbed my ass on my way to school. This phenomenon is not new, that was almost 30 years ago. Men have felt entitled to women's and children's bodies since the dawn of time.

Dnotchtiebd · 2021-06-13T03:30:58+00:00

I was a child, probably 8,9

ivy176 · 2021-06-13T08:08:34+00:00

Sexually assaulted (genital area touched under clothing) by some guy at 10, I resisted and was pulling my pants back up. Told my mum.

Hit on endlessly by 25-40+ men at age 12-16

30 year old man touched my boobs and said I'd be gorgeous when I turn 18, knowing I was 15. Stalked me and turned up to my house to do/say that.

16 year old guy used me for sex at 14, we were together a year and agreed to have sex then he dumped a couple of days later even though he said he loved me that day? Also tried to guilt me into using no condom, I refused

At 16, predatory 22 year old pursued relationship with me. We got married

Stalked and chased while hiking, got away by reaching my car and locking the doors

Etc

janestnycrk4 · 2021-06-12T22:28:56+00:00

I was 12 it was 1985 in a small farm town.

Party-Promise-8840 · 2021-06-13T01:41:48+00:00

I was only 4 years old. 😞

QueasyEducation5 · 2021-06-13T03:12:06+00:00

7th grade :(

Ok-Performance5997 · 2021-06-13T03:13:24+00:00

I was 8 years old when I was first assaulted by an 11 year old boy.

Attention from grown men and older teenage boys began at 11/12. I wasn’t an early developer, and I still look about 16-17 at 22.

I had two boys from 13 years of age routinely send me extreme BDSM and similarly themed porn.

Many boys in high school would at the very least, attempt to grope you. Boys would coerce you into sending nudes and then distribute them amongst themselves and older male friends and relatives. They would then typically mock and degrade the women for taking the pictures.

Jokes about rape and sexual assault were common. I had nonstop commentary being made about my body. Boys who were attracted to you would attempt to humiliate you.

At 14 I had a much older male doctor molest me.

At 16 staring, catcalling and sexual advances from grown men started ramping up. I was sexually assaulted again. On one occasion I managed to escaped being rape.

Some of my female friends were coerced into sex by their boyfriends, or were almost successfully groomed by older men.

Honestly, what do people think this does to a child’s psyche?

leptophile · 2021-06-13T03:19:12+00:00

When I was a small child my uncle called me his “girlfriend” 🤢

vagesta · 2021-06-13T05:15:08+00:00

I was 2-3 years old. Was from an adult nvm.

BxGyrl416 · 2021-06-13T14:40:39+00:00

I must have been 4 or 5. 😞

t3ddi · 2021-06-13T01:53:08+00:00

Yep.

Title	«If you think the current conversations about women’s safety don’t affect you...» I thought a lot about this, and its true
Author	sjefsiljuuus
Upvotes	801
Comments	59
Date	June 12, 2021 7:33 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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