Imagine being in a Long Term Relationship...

Twolipz_78 · 2021-04-08T08:19:16+00:00

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fdssavedmylife · 2021-04-08T10:20:46+00:00

I used to give men a break on this and blame myself (which is bullshit) and would just offer to touch myself. It almost always upset them. They don’t want to put in the effort to make me orgasm, but don’t want their ego bruised by me doing it. So now they get one chance and if the first sexual encounter isn’t cunnilingus ending in an orgasm, block and delete.

BoxingChoirgal · 2021-04-08T13:05:26+00:00

Don't need to imagine. Lived it. Never again.

Fact: Having No sex is better than having unsatisfying sex. Your mind is clearer, your mood calmer, and your Bed stays cleaner.

p.s. Vibrators don't fart in their sleep.

superderpina_ · 2021-04-08T07:04:18+00:00

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PirateFairyPants8 · 2021-04-08T05:31:08+00:00

a friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend. Turns out in 4 years she never had an orgasm with him. One of the last times I was at their house he was complaining that she doesn't want sex and probably should stop taking the pill because she doesn't have any sex drive lol wonder why... scrote she doesn't want it because you can't even give her an orgasm.

DEAR MEN if your girlfriend doesn't want sex it's your fault. You probably suck at it and are a terrible boyfriend in general

You're welcome :)

2021-04-08T11:59:11+00:00

The by accident part is too true. I was in a relationship where every time I orgasmed I was genuinely surprised. Women, why do we do this?😪

HlGHFIVE · 2021-04-08T07:31:07+00:00

Never 👏 Again 👏

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-04-08T12:44:41+00:00

Couldn't be me. At least not anymore. Im my current relationship I cum even slightly more often than him, because he just knows how to do it, loves to give me pleasure and the body of a woman simply works that way. Let's be honest, it never made any sense that the sex, who is physically able to have multiple orgasms, gets to have less.

For those who are in a healthy relationship with an attentive man but still struggling with coming off as too "demanding" I advice you this: Basically every sexual activity is sex. Don't artificially draw a hard line between "foreplay" and "rEaL sex". Porn tells us, that only penetration counts as sex, which is false. Yes, Cunnilingus is sex. Yes, it's OK that only you cum. No, you don't need to "make up" for it by letting him penetrate you post coital. Consent exists. It's possible for both of you to find satisfaction without centering the male perspective (works even better if you don't). You don't owe a man as many orgasms as he gives you. This has nothimg to do with double standards, that's simply how biology works. If you want to "keep count" of orgasms you are still fucking with the 50/50 mentality, like literally.

pretty_kill · 2021-04-08T11:54:07+00:00

Wow you described my last LTR of 5 years exactly. Only 2 is being too generous 😭

Feral_Housewife_ · 2021-04-08T13:30:48+00:00

My current guy tried out the "you know you can always get yourself the rest of the way there after..." Once. I put him directly in his place and said that is not a substitute for putting in the work to get me turned on enough and making me come. If he tries valiantly, and we both really try, and it doesn't happen because I got overstimulated, or my body hurts too much, or I just can't mentally get in the zone enough to get there, ok. That's fine. But I am not accepting low effort bullshit.

He took it really well and brings his A game every damn time. He is very good at taking constructive criticism and instruction. Because he's a worthwhile person.

working-girl- · 2021-04-08T14:45:57+00:00

I was in a relationship with a guy who I made cum so much and I would pamper him after sex too. He never made me cum. Then once we were talking with a lesbian couple about how good sex they have and he got super worries about me cumming more. And I was like dude you need to make me cum once before you worry about doing it more.

TellCerseeItWasMe · 2021-04-08T13:27:49+00:00

Ugh OP why did you just describe my last relationship 😤

After 4 years, I got 1 mercy lick after begging for it (he still stopped after 15 minutes) and never having 1 orgasm ever from his average sized and premature ejaculating weenie

And, yes, he made sure to remind me that I'm the problem as his previous always got it n never "faked it"

spinsterchachkies · 2021-04-08T05:33:57+00:00

And you pay the bills and he doesn’t take you on dates. “Equality”. Lol 😂 couldn’t be me

dingdingdingdongbing · 2021-04-08T13:37:59+00:00

Would've left after the first lack of orgasm

shurrimpu · 2021-04-08T13:37:50+00:00

I’ve had two partners, but if I were to only count partners that have given me an orgasm as sexual partners, I’d be a virgin

awise87 · 2021-04-08T05:31:19+00:00

This hit too close to home lol

Twolipz_78 · 2021-04-08T13:50:43+00:00

Lmaoooo “probably be accident”...Not. Even. Once!

2021-04-08T05:28:36+00:00

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Title	Imagine being in a Long Term Relationship...
Author	fds98
Upvotes	375
Comments	35
Date	April 8, 2021 5:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mmkpvm/imagine_being_in_a_long_term_relationship/
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