Imagine bragging about how you settled?!? I cannot

Morgan6788 · 2019-11-28T00:35:00+00:00

The world does women a great disservice in telling them romantic love is the most important thing in life. So much that they settle for a mediocre relationship. Or even stay with an abusive man out of love.

There are so many more important things in life like respect, dignity, peace of mind, and financial independence. When we feel the importance of these things and allow ourselves to be content with these things we will not settle for less than we deserve.

plutunic · 2019-11-27T22:32:25+00:00

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feiyue-over-converse · 2019-11-28T00:55:50+00:00

I literally just had a guy who I hit it off really well on the first two dates tell me he wanted to keep it platonic because he wasn't feeling sparks and I came SO CLOSE to being like well sometimes spark grow, gimme another chance! And then stopped and was like nah nah nah. I don't wanna be invested in someone who isn't 100% invested in me!

(Also you bet your asses i told him that no, we would not be keeping it platonic. Either you're dating me or i'm out. You don't get all my dopeness as "just a friend". I'm all good on new friends.) #levelup?

silvernikki · 2019-11-27T23:54:22+00:00

Imagine being a beautiful black woman and ~~bugging~~ begging a mediocre looking white guy to date you. I can tell there isn't a spark just by looking at the picture.

Freezer222 · 2019-11-28T01:13:12+00:00

He will dump her when he finds that ‘spark’ with someone else. Silly woman

134340-92494 · 2019-11-27T23:44:26+00:00

He looks a wet loaf of bread and she’s gorgeous?? Imagine not believing that you can DEFINITELY do better. This just makes me sad honestly.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2019-11-27T22:50:52+00:00

Plus she’s way out of his league just by looking at the photo.

ino_y · 2019-11-28T01:36:07+00:00

He has the dead stare of a man who's fantasizing about his xbox.

BellaStayFly · 2019-11-28T01:39:57+00:00

That looks like some disappointing dick. She needs to level up.

CSQUITO · 2019-11-27T23:46:49+00:00

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 They’re meant to be together. Actually I’m happy they’re together. People like this should stay together it makes things easier for the rest of us

Ms_Tilly · 2019-11-28T22:46:22+00:00

This is what settling looks like. Forcing something that isn't there. NO THANKS. I'll stay single.

2019-11-28T04:08:26+00:00

This is the gutter literally the gutter of low self esteem and self worth for any human being much less a woman. First of all why would you deal with some one who ghosted you and why would you reach out to that man again and beg him for anything. Secondly you both admitted there was no spark but you still wanted to stay so both of them (but especially the woman) settled for less than what they deserve. Third all of this because you had a “good” time girl you can have a good time with literally anyone whether it be a man , friends , or family or shit you can have a good time by yourself it means nothing when it’s all said and done if there is no connection between y’all or spark. My heart goes out to her May she realize her worth and beauty and realize that she deserves someone who truly has a spark with her and a genuine non forced connection.

humanwithfoodname · 2019-11-28T06:34:42+00:00

“After a week of buggin his ass...” sis whet?! YOU were bugging HIM?! My my my how the mighty have fallen lol

pokersnob · 2019-11-28T04:46:18+00:00

Im just crying for the unseasoned meat

idiosyncraticg1 · 2019-11-27T22:50:20+00:00

That’s really sad :(

2019-11-28T04:40:46+00:00

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SarcasmSlide · 2019-11-28T23:29:50+00:00

How romantic they should make this their wedding vows.

2019-11-28T03:35:23+00:00

He looks like the type of scrote that thinks his shit doesn't stink.

Brie_Hart3587 · 2019-11-29T02:32:16+00:00

Poor girl

Title	Imagine bragging about how you settled?!? I cannot
Author	stillcantsee
Upvotes	201
Comments	45
Date	November 27, 2019 10:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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