It's empowering!!! /s

starlight_sequence · 2021-06-04T13:18:33+00:00

I worked at a strip club as a door girl very briefly while I was job hunting after grad school. It’s a humiliating experience even when you work fully clothed.

The men, customers and staff alike, all treat you like absolute trash.

motioncaptureF · 2021-06-04T13:04:01+00:00

Wtf was the comment section !? How TF is that empowering !!!!! I wish I could tell those young girls to go get their fucking degree and have a respectable job ! Poor girls ... 😭

Gambit12345 · 2021-06-04T13:06:35+00:00

I like Cristina but I agree she’s definitely grooming. There was a video where she drives up to a strip club late at night and is stressing because she may have to park further and there’s no chaperone. That was the one time she expressed concern of the very real danger that comes with sex work. Other than that she really doesn’t communicate all the negatives very well so there’s scores of girls wanting to emulate her.

Ok_Meringue9724 · 2021-06-04T13:40:09+00:00

I hate it so much that young people are normalising sex work. I'm disgusted tbh. The fact that women and girls find it empowering to dance for a bunch of men to earn cash is shameful to the feminists who fought for women's rights. They didn't fight for women to take their clothes off and dance to please men's dicks. Idc if this is a controversial opinion.

LexiJay94 · 2021-06-04T12:55:57+00:00

Video title "I took my SUBSCRIBERS to apply at the STRIP CLUB 💰💃🏻" ...

radsera99 · 2021-06-04T13:05:19+00:00

This is depressing

electroloop · 2021-06-04T13:01:38+00:00

Most of her subscribers are freshly 18, this is vile. Imagine. She’s grooming the next generation of women into prostitution.

Also I don’t know why you need to audition for a strip club. I never understood it. Men will masturbate to literally anything (even fuck a McChicken). Learning to “dance” and “auditioning” to essentially pander to men who would have jerked off to you anyways is hilarious.

miss_peach94 · 2021-06-04T14:25:08+00:00

These girls barely look 18. Jesus Christ

souredskittles · 2021-06-04T15:38:25+00:00

Ive watched a lot of cristinas videos after looking up videos of plastic surgery and I can tell you she omits a big part of the experience of working as a SW.

She’s interviewed many women to talk about the details of SW (OF, stripping), how to make money and general things but they never mention their disgusting clients.

She recently got an OF where it seems like she’s doing HC porn with her BF. It’s weird to me because she makes it seem like she’s making tons of money, enough to be looking at real estate according to her. I feel like someone who legit makes enough income from stripping would not go further into pornography. I don’t know, that might not be true seeing belle delphine makes a ton and still ended up doing HC porn. Maybe that’s the nature of it? As in, it’s a gateway to pornography and prostitution?

It’s also disturbing that a lot of comments tell her that watching her was the last push to apply to be a stripper.

ceramicunicorn · 2021-06-04T17:42:59+00:00

Lmao at the 20:30 mark about the cutout dress being unallowable at the club because the rules are strict. Like, a dress with open sides, that is the line in all of this 😂

HomeGrownInDallas · 2021-06-04T15:21:04+00:00

Strip clubs are basically a meat market and these girls are fresh cattle walking in.

Since twerking videos, “Instagram baddies”, and OF has become so accessible, most strippers can’t just be pretty and dance anymore to make decent money.

You would think they would just leave the strip club but nope, they’ve started resorting to desperate and depraved avenues in order to keep men’s attention. This includes having sex with clients, getting a grotesque amount of plastic surgery to get a big rack and/or ass, self degradation on stage (such as fingering themselves, letting a man or another stripper eat them out on stage, etc.)

I’ve even seen some crazy videos of strippers putting firework sparklers in their vagina. Lit and all.

divination__ · 2021-06-04T18:12:38+00:00

this is literal recruitment and grooming? one of the girls she brought along was nineTEEN??? they're literally still teenagers.

ucompost · 2021-06-04T20:34:26+00:00

If it’s so empowering I wouldn’t feel the need to hide it. Or have all my female friends get mad at me when their boyfriends found out. Or have my fiancé ex friend apologize when he found out I was a stripper like our relationship was diagnosed with cancer.

If it was empowering it would be widely accepted OUTSIDE the conversation of sex work or hitting on women. It could be discussed at job interviews HR or at family gatherings.

Men who say they’re cool with it do so behind closed doors and only with the hopes that you’ll sleep with them. Because former strippers, according to men’s minds, are slutty

“You’ll take your clothes off for strangers but won’t fuck me?” Has been said to me MANY TIMES.

I’ve also been dumped MANY TIMES when my partner finds out I was a stripper in college.

As soon as a man finds out, their gaze their very nature in how they treat you changes. They’re uncomfortable but also more interested in you before (either in person or behind closed doors)

It’s not empowering. It’s shame. Men literally ensure it’s shame. Because you didn’t strip for them therefor it’s a loss on their end. No need to defend a woman you didn’t get off of.

lunatigre · 2021-06-04T22:47:00+00:00

Just wow. This totally sanitized the experience of stripping!

Made me think of this old Vice video Life as a Truck Stop Stripper

Started out two very naive girls having an adventure and they got a quick taste of sexual harassment and very real threats to their safety by the end. Stop Glorifying This Shit!

Jacquerex09 · 2021-06-06T12:18:24+00:00

Wtf why are all the comments supporting her pimping out these girls? Liberal feminism is so detrimental to women.

Title	It's empowering!!! /s
Author	LexiJay94
Upvotes	72
Comments	38
Date	June 4, 2021 12:54 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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