Maybe because he isn’t the right guy for them 🤷🏻‍♀️

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-10-30T01:50:12+00:00

This goes to the post someone shared earlier, like what, I’m just supposed to magically know that that one guy is not a psycho abusive manipulator and let all my walls down at the snap of a finger? If I do that and he is actually psycho it’s “my fault”

apple_cores · 2020-10-30T02:36:03+00:00

It’s like when “nice” guys complain about girls saying they want a nice guy to them. Doesn’t mean they want you just cus you’re “nice” sir. I know plenty of nice, good guys and I’m not attracted to them.

kimjongchill796 · 2020-10-30T02:14:48+00:00

This dude STAYS in my DMs too 🙄

wayward_woman · 2020-10-30T04:42:36+00:00

And I guess we're supposed to be psychic mind readers to know the guy is "genuine"? Besides, a high value woman puts walls up for every man during the vetting process.

ethnicallyabiguous · 2020-10-30T04:42:57+00:00

Women are also given the burden of picking the “right guy”, not what they desire. Oh and they don’t get to decide if the guy is “right”, that is the man’s job. 🙄

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-10-30T07:34:10+00:00

"But what if you met your dream guy who was perfect in every way but ((insert deal breaker here))?"

I hate this argument. If a deal breaker applied to him then by definition he's not my dream guy. If I make an exception for that flaw then it wasn't a deal breaker was it?

Men hate it too. They want us to lower our standards but they curdle at the thought of being settled for.

Old-Flower-9089 · 2020-10-30T16:54:47+00:00

its stupid when girls say they cant find a guy, yet they ignore me. its like saying youre hungry when theres a hot dog on the ground outside

entpgirl415 · 2020-10-30T14:18:53+00:00

These guys always tells on themselves LMFAO

seraphinelysion · 2020-10-30T14:27:56+00:00

Did he just assume he would be a good fit for a woman just because he thinks he's "genuine"??? What gives him the right to think he would be good for a woman he just met? That's a lot of arrogance right there. How about you let her decide what is right for her and her life and respect her decision even if that means she doesn't want you to be a part of it no matter how "genuine" you appear? 🙄

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-30T15:49:20+00:00

By "genuine" he means someone with mental and emotional problems who overshares way too quickly and tries to love bomb or sympathy bomb the woman into a weird codependent relationship and suck her dry.

gutsandgorey · 2020-10-30T18:23:25+00:00

You know what I've learned about "nice guys"? They're the same as every other garden variety douchebag except they don't get pussy. For some reason men think that because they can't get laid that makes them a nice(er) guy? Nah.

warinmymind94 · 2020-10-30T18:54:04+00:00

Walls? He means boundaries. Hes mad because she actually did like him until he tried ghosting her, leaving her on read for hours, canceling plans last minute, until she had to start planning and paying for the dates. "Walls" came up because she thought he seemed okay on OLD but then he asked her to come over to his house to drink beer and have sex. "Walls" came up when she wasn't comfortable talking about her past sexual experiences, "body count", or naming her "favorite position". They never take accountability or realize that they probably caused it.

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2020-10-30T22:18:33+00:00

Reverse the genders and I guarantee you a man would comment something like "define genuine..."

KamariFerrari · 2020-10-30T09:53:51+00:00

Can someone please tell me how I can learn to just look at a man and know if he’s genuine? I feel like this could be a useful skill

Equal-Ear2312 · 2020-10-30T18:08:25+00:00

This post only shows that LVMs are and will continue to be the ultimate pickmes. And because they are passive aggressive, they switch it all on you.

ItsFreezen · 2020-10-30T18:09:54+00:00

Don't give men the benefit of the doubt.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-10-30T18:58:55+00:00

Men know how to fake normal and safe. Know how I know? Every documentary or podcast about serial killers I've ever seen in my life. Women watch them like crazy because they don't want to be a featured victim on one of these episodes. It's like studying on how not to become a homicide victim. Men play dumb, but they know how to be duplicitous. The reason they accuse women of being backstabbers is because, once again, they're projecting their sins onto us.

2020-10-31T11:35:38+00:00

maybe because the guy has no personality and is only acting ‘nice’ for an end result. We all know these guys who complain about this and we all know they literally have nothing to offer

Title	Maybe because he isn’t the right guy for them 🤷🏻‍♀️
Author	kimjongchill796
Upvotes	261
Comments	27
Date	October 30, 2020 1:46 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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