Men need to stop thinking that porn is reality and see sexual acts performed in these scenes as an expectation.

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NotSoSmartChick · 2021-03-02T13:57:55+00:00

“What are your dislikes?”

Anything learned from porn

DifferentBar6 · 2021-03-02T14:34:19+00:00

I doubt porn stars like it either.

howdoilogoutt · 2021-03-02T14:11:30+00:00

When I was a pickme I had a guy fucking twist my nipple I was like wtf are you doing!

bizzybumblebee · 2021-03-02T13:58:55+00:00

let's start over? nah sis

Kimpractical · 2021-03-02T13:56:50+00:00

We really need to just stop having sex with them. They don’t learn and they don’t listen. It’s dangerous and not worth it

2021-03-02T15:42:31+00:00

"Let's start over"

More like "get the fuck out"/"I'm leaving"

Don't allow porn users in your lives in any capacity.

Innanaspeaks · 2021-03-02T14:53:27+00:00

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eatmypooamigos · 2021-03-02T22:25:10+00:00

Ugh reminds me of my pickme days when I wouldn’t want sex if I wasn’t willing to be hurt that day. Like, no, sex shouldn’t hurt just because a man wants to smack you to get himself off.

Pain receptors aren’t shut off just because I’m naked. I don’t enjoy being in pain. How the fuck is this so hard for men to understand? Oh wait, it’s not, they just don’t care.

AyemHerself · 2021-03-03T02:31:44+00:00

Funny how porn is a "fantasy" and the women are "just acting" but the second you get a guy into bed he's convinced women are into everything he's ever seen in a porno.

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-03-02T16:15:27+00:00

If a guy ever tries this send him out the door.

quasarbar · 2021-03-03T00:04:00+00:00

Porn stars don't like it either. They're acting. That's what they're required to do.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-03-02T23:29:35+00:00

In this scenario the only reason why she suggests starting over with a smile is because she feels guilty about saying this because it will make him feel bad, it's not enough reason to break up... etc.

The first time is enough of a reason to break up. You are the one harmed but still worry about how bad he feels? Or worse, run away from any man who starts to cry and say how bad he feels when you tell him how he hurt you like this. He shouldn't putting you in a position of consoling him when you're the one wronged. If it was an honest mistake that harmed you then this doesn't apply, but hurting you physically on purpose? That's not a mistake, regardless of porn.

Fuck starting over.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-03-02T19:36:05+00:00

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PasDeTout · 2021-03-03T01:55:01+00:00

We get told over and over again that men know that porn isn’t real and it has no influence on their everyday lives. Sure Jan.

Today I read a comment from a woman whose boyfriend was complaining that her vulva was ugly and didn’t look like the ones in porn. Pretty sure your equipment isn’t porn star standard issue either, dude.

oscine23 · 2021-03-05T05:59:11+00:00

My 15 year old told me he doesn't plan to watch porn because it causes erectile dysfunction. I calmly said, "So proud of you, son." Then walked into my bedroom and danced a jig. Winning.

spicyspa · 2021-03-03T03:51:17+00:00

Don't start over.

zorua · 2021-03-04T00:06:22+00:00

I hate it so much. My ex would bite me (left me with bruises) and pull my hair then he would kind of choke me but would grab my jaw/neck and turn my head to force me to look at him when he came during sex (because he could only cum in a certain position because he had serious death grip and was generally useless).

I will never let another man do that to me. Never again.

Title	Men need to stop thinking that porn is reality and see sexual acts performed in these scenes as an expectation.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	552
Comments	31
Date	March 2, 2021 1:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lw1xii/men_need_to_stop_thinking_that_porn_is_reality/
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