NEVER AGAIN will I...

Platipus6 · 2021-06-10T03:21:49+00:00

Makes cutting remarks designed to make me feel like shit whenever I'm cheerful.

What is up with that one?? They claim they hate bitter, moody, jaded women who are "no fun" but as soon as we're chirpy they say something utterly horrible. I've been asked if I'm high by 2 different males, and as I was telling a fun story, my ex smiled and said "wow I didn't ask".

You're right, fucker. You didn't ask. I want my future husband to be delighted when I'm bubbly and in my feminine energy. Go fuck yourself, grinch.

AC7878 · 2021-06-10T02:45:42+00:00

Count me in 👋

-tells me their ex cheated on them early on or just talks about their ex in general

-talks about their ex all the time

-victim mentality

-doesn't take responsibility for their mistakes and simply doesn't apologize

-belittles, criticizes anyone

-carries so many insecurities and uses it to control

-any controlling behavior

-walks ahead of me

-chooses to be materlistic rather than showing their emotions, empathy to "win" people

-tells me they need time to think over things. You want time? I'll gladly give it ALL.

w0rmsongs · 2021-06-10T02:46:23+00:00

• Add smilies to my work emails (fucking cringiiiing)

• Accept speaking down to myself

• Feel responsible for somebody else's happiness in life

• Date smokers

For a full list, envision a long ass scroll unfurling to the ground. A work in progress over the many years.

spicyspa · 2021-06-10T04:24:19+00:00

Nothing missing here.

I did the "make the first move to seem fearless" bullshit.

Faux empowerment feminism urges women to take harmful risks to seem brave, but why should we care about appearing brave especially when it comes to our personal lives? What are we trying to prove by doing this and who would care anyway? Until now, the only one who knew about my fearless behavior was the guy who used me.

Connect-Ad-9361 · 2021-06-10T09:12:34+00:00

Pay for shit

I'm fucking DONE with it. I've done it way too fucking much in the past because my pride is deeply entangled in my finances. Still bites me in the ass every time. I'm over it. Not doing it anymore.

LetsGetin_Formation · 2021-06-10T02:26:34+00:00

Ooh I’ll join! Never again will I date a guy who...

Doesn’t make me orgasm
Isn’t a good kisser
isn’t physically attractive
betrays my trust more than once
holds in and masks all of his feelings and emotions (passive aggressive f*cks)

lovetarie · 2021-06-10T10:05:53+00:00

Never again will I stand shook and startled when the male I’m seeing starts yelling at his mother. Never again will I offer free therapy for a male

deadinsidelol69 · 2021-06-10T03:33:12+00:00

-gamer

-dead end job

complains about everything and anything
talks about sex all the time
no motivation for anything
doesn't do any self improvement
zero effort
cheap, except when it comes to himself
expects, never gives

Twolipz_78 · 2021-06-10T13:16:50+00:00

Lives with an “ex” and very, very much involved in her life.
Abuses animals.
Very mean-spirited in general even if you seem like you would be immune to it, he will not spare you. He hates himself too much.
Doesn’t seem to care or spend anytime with you/ruin it on special occasions and holidays.
Execute wifely duties when he is just a (an undeserving) boyfriend if even that.
Has major control issues.
Does not get along with any family (he’s got a very large one) or anyone for that matter, always in a conflict with someone some where, sometimes even strangers.
For myself, I will never allow mistreatment or disrespect of any kind even if it’s veiled in “a joke”. Benefit of the doubt for these very obvious LV scrotes? Never again! My pickme is in the process of dying!

BetterDeparture436 · 2021-06-10T08:47:41+00:00

I like your list! I will go with each and every one!!! I will try and try and try some more. 2 steps forward, one step back.

candyfox84 · 2021-06-10T22:20:33+00:00

I think general flirting in front of you, or just not 100% faithful in some way (texting, weird lunch dates, female FrIeNdS, etc). I used to tolerate a lot of things that made me insecure because men and pick-mes told me I was just jealous (one of these pick-mes actually ended up with my boyfriend, cheating).

My current HVM never makes me feel that way. I think there is just a certain integrity/maturity where you know how to handle yourself with the opposite gender while in a relationship. If he ain't got it...He ain't the one.

fak_beauty_standards · 2021-06-10T14:27:24+00:00

Answer q I don't want to answer

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Title	NEVER AGAIN will I...
Author	HumanAdhesiveness360
Upvotes	353
Comments	43
Date	June 10, 2021 2:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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