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Shawn Mendes dumped Camilla Cabello and called the relationship “stale and complacent”… this happened conveniently after she gained weight and publicly spoke about her cellulite, fat and stretch marks. Coincidence?

kinda-embarrasing

November 21, 2021
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https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/shawn-mendes-initiated-camila-cabello-split-relationship-stale-report
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Title Shawn Mendes dumped Camilla Cabello and called the relationship “stale and complacent”… this happened conveniently after she gained weight and publicly spoke about her cellulite, fat and stretch marks. Coincidence?
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kinda-embarrasing

Upvotes 296
Comments 36
Date November 21, 2021 8:18 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qz3fqi/shawn_mendes_dumped_camilla_cabello_and_called/
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[–]engineergorlFDS Newbie 469 points470 points471 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

…..Shawn Mendez and Camila Cabello were a PR relationship. They broke up because the publicity was dropping and getting old and not enough to save her Cinderella movie.

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 233 points234 points235 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This. I always felt it was a publicity stunt from both sides but I don't think it benefited their careers in the end. The public never believed their relationship was genuin and as you said it was getting old. So they probably decided it wasnt worth keeping it up anymore.

[–]herbivorouscarnivoreFDS Newbie 80 points81 points82 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Robsten was a publicity stunt, but I feel they presented as a believable couple.

Camilla and this guy? It always looked like they were trying too hard to convince the public.

[–]PossibleCookFDS Apprentice 224 points225 points226 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Honestly I just assumed their relationship was a publicity stunt. Whenever I think about them I just remember that video of them walking super slow so the paparazzi could get good pictures of them.

[–]butteryrumFDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I honestly had never heard of them until they broke up. Maybe that proves your point?

[–]2340000FDS Apprentice 247 points248 points249 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

When this squeaky little fucker publicly announced that he yelled at Camilla, I KNEW his ass was LV. The media was like, "he's so honest"🤡

The fucking audacity. I'm not surprised. Everyone was romanticizing their shit😑

[–]kinda-embarrasingFDS Newbie[S] 48 points49 points50 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Quote from his interview about it:

"Maybe there even is bad inside of me, and I have to just accept that that exists," the singer said. "And that other part of me, he's just got to be here and we've just got to work together until eventually he gets worked in all of the trauma and all of the kinks get rubbed out of him and he's okay."

"But I can't avoid the fact that there's a little bit of darkness inside of me," Mendes continued. "And letting that darkness kind of be present is a horrible feeling."

[–]Suspicious_Bad_5178FDS Newbie 74 points75 points76 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh not again LVM with the "I have a darkness inside of me" thing

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 87 points88 points89 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He yelled at her? Wtf.

[–]kinda-embarrasingFDS Newbie[S] 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Apparently he did yell at her…about YOGHURT

[–]Japanese_LasagnaFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I saw it as the honeymoon phase / new relationship energy faded, so he got bored. Appearance changes were also probably a factor as well.

[–]arnezuaraFDS Apprentice 281 points282 points283 points 4 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

She has been rejecting him for years. He was not taking “no” for an answer, only to dump her later. He is a narcissistic NVM.

Good for her.

[–]kinda-embarrasingFDS Newbie[S] 201 points202 points203 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Seems to me that he “won” her and then lost the “attraction” as soon as her fairly minor weight gain became public. Looks like there were no deep feelings on his side.

Lots of women get dumped after childbirth for this exact reason. I say she dodged a bullet.

[–]__kamikaze__FDS Newbie 213 points214 points215 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Yet another reason why I won’t have kids. The thought that a man can impregnate you then say he hates your body after is infuriating. Like umm.. hello? You did this.

[–]HhjjuuyFDS Apprentice 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And then they'll turn around and use "fertility indicators" as the reason they're paedophiles while a post-partum body is the most reliable indicator of fertility that we have.

[–]kinda-embarrasingFDS Newbie[S] 143 points144 points145 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I find it infuriating situations like this happen all the time, but god forbid a woman dares to comment on her husband’s beer belly and refuse sex, they suddenly turn into the most fierce body positivity campaigners

[–]__kamikaze__FDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ughhhh yes. The second we say this we are labeled as shallow superficial b itches.

[–]herbivorouscarnivoreFDS Newbie 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Didn’t the mentality come up in a hair loss post? We women are expected to go to great lengths to look like time doesn’t touch us, but some men act like there’s nothing they can do.

[–]LittleSnackPack58FDS Newbie 91 points92 points93 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

they suddenly turn into the most fierce body positivity campaigners

This is what the "dad bod" campaign is all about. A tall fit man in shape with some reasonable muscles > short, bald, overweight, beer belly, no effort. No matter how much pickmeshias say they "just love the dad bods", okay sure Jan.

[–]europoor24Pickmeisha™️ 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm considering co-parenting with a gay man perhaps.. its 10 years down the line though

[–]staywiththecrownFDS Newbie 76 points77 points78 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Have the baby on your own. Some FDS users have posted links where women agree to do coparenting with men in advance but then the man decides to exert control of "his legacy!" and break the coparenting agreement.

[–]europoor24Pickmeisha™️ 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

do you have those links? I'd love to read through them for my research

[–]staywiththecrownFDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not sure, but search the keywords "single mother by choice" or SMBC(?) or sperm banks. I wouldn't coparent with a man. They use children to control women.

[–]europoor24Pickmeisha™️ 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

definitely something I'm considering as well.

[–]xfelugirlxFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This!! He was so fcking loud about wanting her and now this? Hahahaha omgg so narcissist and scrote

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 87 points88 points89 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I actually think that their relationship was a publicity stunt made to benefit both in their careers. It never seemed genuin. And I don't like to speculate about people's sexualities but there's also those rumors. I think that their relationship staled his career a bit specially after many canceling her due to the Normani situation and so he probably decided to call the quits.

[–]butteryrumFDS Newbie 75 points76 points77 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Men say things like their relationship got "stale and complacent" as if it has nothing to with them, how they're treating their spouse, if they're actually sharing in the mental load. Instead of thinking to fix anything, once the toy is broken they shrug and walk away.

That's how these types often treat women anyways as toys, as things. Pass.

[–]aoi4egFDS Newbie 66 points67 points68 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Probably gonna sound a bit problematic, but I'm 99% sure Shawn Mendes is gay, not even bi, and for some reason (homophobic family maybe?) he tries to date women but it's basically self-conversion therapy and obviously not working.

[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think so too

[–]PrivyPalFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To everyone saying it was a publicity stunt: why would they even quarantine together? Have you even seen parts from his documentary 'Wonder'? Very clear in that documentary they were a real couple and were in love.

I do however think, that since Camila gained so much weight (in comparison to how skinny she was before) did play a part in the spark fizzling out and their breakup.

[–]SpecificPatience8FDS Newbie 123 points124 points125 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think he is in the closet

[–]FemclFleshBeckyBonesFDS Disciple 60 points61 points62 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah this was a PR relationship to cover for his being gay. He used to comment on male thirst traps many years ago on twitter (those tweets are now conveniently nuked of course).

[–]aoi4egFDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My friends think I'm crazy but I know I saw articles about Daniel Craig leaving a gay club with some young guy, but since it was after his first movie as a Bond, his PR team made all this news disappear. Probably the same thing with Mendes. I hope Camilla just got tired of being his cover and asked him to f off. But obviously he got his wittle pwide wounded and tried to humiliate her.

[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't defend this girl. Not after what she did to Normani

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Who are these people?

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