Silly question

sadgirlji · 2021-08-12T17:11:25+00:00

Then these same men will victim blame women if they are hurt or killed and scream Not All Men!! Like if you want women to take “personal responsibility” for her safety instead of holding men accountable for their actions then this is how women are going to view a majority of men

Sage_Planter · 2021-08-12T17:53:37+00:00

There was a post on another subreddit the other day asking "Women, do you ever think about how it feels as a man when women act like you might be a dangerous predator?"

No.

No, we do not think about your feelings when we're concerned about our safety.

munissa · 2021-08-12T19:56:21+00:00

I once went on a date where this man decided to bring up the chivalrous act of walking a woman home. I remember this vaguely but he believes it’s such a nice attempt and that it’s a damn shame that woman on the streets find is horrifying and creepy when a stranger offers to walk them home. I in turn told him is it creepy AF and why would a woman let a stranger know where she lives/what makes him think that she should let her guard down around him? Because he looks nice? Because he is trying to do a kind gesture? I’m sure Ted Bundy seemed like a nice guy at the time as well.

AyemHerself · 2021-08-12T21:24:09+00:00

The funny thing is, a non-predatory man who respects boundaries would never have an issue with a woman's precautions. Either they wouldn't mind (because it doesn't affect or inhibit them) or wouldn't notice (because they wouldn't come close to making a woman uncomfortable.)

If a man takes offense at a woman protecting herself, he's exposing his ill intent.

RuminatingRhino · 2021-08-12T17:04:52+00:00

Of course, when a woman doesn’t assume a male is a sexual predator, and proceeds to get assaulted, it’s her fault. Because she should have seen it coming, duh!

You can never win with these people, their opinions are irrelevant.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-08-12T20:26:15+00:00

Yes, it would k*ll us and this same men would blame us for not taking precautions.

slayeroftruth · 2021-08-12T17:57:52+00:00

Come on now. Women can't even trust men enough to leave drink alone for little bit in bar to go to the bathroom. Why should we trust them with anything more?

ComprehensiveAmoeba9 · 2021-08-12T18:25:20+00:00

I had a scrote of an ex who would complain about how because he was so tall (around 6’7) women would look scared whenever they passed by him on the street, especially at night. One woman clutched her keys and another had pepper spray on her keychain. He took offense to that and got so butthurt that they would be intimidated by him, because he (in his words) was such a nice, sweet, and soft/caring guy. No one shouldve felt scared when he was around. He never stopped to consider other’s feelings, he turned things around to make it about him and his “hurt fee-fees”. He was the pseudowoke closeted misogynist who pretended to be concerned about women’s issues because it was trendy, but he’d make little comments that would give away that he didn’t give a shit about women and would be “but what about men? We’re the oppressed”

Elegaunt · 2021-08-12T19:05:44+00:00

They want it both ways. They embrace the benefits of patriarchy but don't want to deal with the inevitable consequences.

LVM feel entitled to me and my kindness. Miss me with that shit.

bookworm1896 · 2021-08-12T17:03:54+00:00

That is the point. That's why we are cautious when going out and meeting men.

daisy_0720 · 2021-08-13T05:46:30+00:00

When men stop raping and murdering women then maybe we'll talk.

radsera99 · 2021-08-13T09:17:29+00:00

Plus, when women don’t take one out of the millions of fucking ‘precautions’ we’re meant to take, we’re instantly victim blamed, told we’re stupid for being at a certain place at a certain time , wearing the ‘wrong’ clothes, talking to the ‘wrong’ men, etc. If we do take precautions and protect ourselves, we’re man hating, paranoid bitches, if we don’t and something happens, we’re stupid, irresponsible sluts that deserved what we got. Every time, no matter what we do men are absolved of all blame. Damned if we do, damned if we don’t. That being said, assuming every man you encounter is a potential sexual predator WILL keep you safer. It’s depressing to think but safety > male feelings.

blackmetalbetty · 2021-08-12T20:54:09+00:00

I mean, just yesterday I read that sickening post that basically exposed just how many pedophilic fathers or men in general there are harboring depraved thoughts about their own and their friends' daughters.

So...nah dawg lol

kinkardine · 2021-08-12T18:22:44+00:00

Lol they are predators if not sexual then financial or other sort of

BelleCervelle · 2021-08-13T10:48:57+00:00

The entitled ignorance is so disgusting.

This just screams “Why won’t you take a chance on ME?! I’m ”not” a Predator!”

Why is it the ones who protest the most, are usually the same ones who exihibit predatory behavior?

Fucking hypocrites.

2021-08-12T17:09:13+00:00

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Title	Silly question
Author	blueboobs-
Upvotes	1724
Comments	30
Date	August 12, 2021 1:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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