The average LVM posing as HV

BedazzledSwashbuckle · 2022-01-18T17:23:24+00:00

I saw a set of posts on Facebook over the weekend, in which a man was pointing out that men associate women/female partners with pleasure. They do not associate women or hetero relationship with *responsibility.* What that means is that when they do end up in a relationship with a woman, all the parts of that woman that don't bring him pleasure (or even worse, that create responsibilities for him) are seen as a bug, a flaw ... and when they don't go away, he assumes the woman is the problem. Instead of adjusting his flawed expectations, he then goes out and seeks another woman, again assuming this will be a source of pleasure and nothing but pleasure. When she, too, brings responsibilities, obligations, and even moments of non-pleasure, he will again assume she is flawed.

These flawed (and non-human) expectations of female humans are behind men feeling entitled to cheat (one of the few female-male interactions in which solely pleasure is forefront, and most or all responsibilities are non-existent / delayed), weaponized incompetence with housework/children, and failing to stay with sick partners.

It's also behind abuser-think - when men attempt to colonize a female body for their own sexu@l use, while acting as colonizers do and attempting to remove / suppress the native inhabitant of that body until it/she can no longer impose boundaries or shape their interactions.

TLDR: when i see rants like this OP, I see another man who only associates "real women" with pleasure. He doesn't see women as 3-dimensional human beings with whom complex, multi-layered relationships are possible.

Platipus6 · 2022-01-18T06:52:11+00:00

Sits on the couch screaming into his headset, ignoring the hungry kids and full diaper. At least he doesn't hit his girlfriend 🙃

aurelia_86 · 2022-01-18T12:07:46+00:00

Ah, y'all have met my ex boyfriend then...

arnezuara · 2022-01-18T17:00:24+00:00

Since when being loyal is a personality trait? It’s the bare minimum. These imbeciles should get over themselves.

“Don’t cheat” = tries to, but no one’s willing to fuck him.

xfelugirlx · 2022-01-18T13:18:50+00:00

The bar is so low they feel entitled to say they are not bad (they are not good either)

ginnapp · 2022-01-18T06:19:55+00:00

Or pickme's saying: "At least he's not a felon"

Sadly there are women who even date men knowing that they are felons

Smh, absolutely no standards whatsoever

honeybadgerattitude · 2022-01-18T07:01:35+00:00

Wow!

phulkari2784 · 2022-01-18T10:26:47+00:00

Men feel so entitled. They are bad at sex, live in a denial about it, have the audacity of expecting a BJ. Losers AF.

Catz10000 · 2022-01-18T06:03:14+00:00

Spoiler alert: He'll still cheat.

ferociouslycurious · 2022-01-18T16:23:17+00:00

They pretend to be all HV meanwhile you can’t even tell if they like the things you do for them. So you stop and they get all angry.

scorchedsouI · 2022-01-18T09:46:29+00:00

I don't understand how women can stay with men who suck at sex. How doesn't the sexual disappointment get to them?

explicitlinguini · 2022-01-18T09:15:11+00:00

Men always trying to post in ways that make them appear superior than the rest. You only have to yell out for attention when your actions don't communicate loudly enough.

PicoPicoMio · 2022-01-19T02:50:51+00:00

Lmaooooo you just described my ex husband. To this day he really thinks he did good by me, despite me having dressed him down multiple times.

Keepers12345 · 2022-01-18T06:47:32+00:00

Bad at sex??

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Title	The average LVM posing as HV
Author	Catz10000
Upvotes	1830
Comments	38
Date	January 18, 2022 6:01 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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