Why are men so obsessed with women’s age?

gursky0 · 2020-07-09T03:04:22+00:00

"Look, a woman who is confident and content, I must attempt to make her feel bad with an inane comment"

LadyGrimes · 2020-07-09T01:55:52+00:00

Like dude you are not Benjamin Button either

peachpy54 · 2020-07-09T02:02:42+00:00

Because it's their only and most important cope. They think one day, when they wake up at some magical age, the power balance is going to magically shift and the world is going to rain puppies and rainbows upon them LOL.

VioletRomantic · 2020-07-09T02:53:13+00:00

Yes, that is in fact how time works.

Sober4good · 2020-07-09T04:06:33+00:00

Lots of men want women to be insecure, weak, and separate from other women. So whenever they can find a way to encourage that, they will.

I don't date men but I have known many. I have multiple friends right now dealing with shitty male behavior. I get tired of hearing it, tbh. This sub has given me some good insight. It also has useful info about looking for high value people in general.

Chantelmorris345 · 2020-07-09T02:50:00+00:00

If anything i see more older women that take care of themselves compared to older men, usually they are the main ones who lets themselves go with their beer bellies and balding heads🤣😭

LadyGrimes · 2020-07-09T03:44:22+00:00

Because they like to use it as an insult while their ugly old ass looks ten times worse. If a man tells you you're ugly just ignore it and try to imagine or don't, what his mug looks like. Cause it won't be pleasing to the eyes.

bey124 · 2020-07-09T05:41:26+00:00

Oh no, so he means she will actually grow older instead of remain the same age forever? Whoa, she surely did not know this. She must be devestated now. How will she ever cope.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-07-09T03:05:44+00:00

I think they want women obsessed with their age. Or they’re afraid of women growing in wisdom. They rather women focus on frivolous things so they need men for male approval.

Do men really care about age and weight? I think not really, not if they were really attracted to women. They’re attracted to the feeling of power. Power over women. “Sorry but you’ll also age.” Her confidence threatens him.

Humans age. Humans gain weight. They target our humanity as a mechanism of control.

Just look at how much cognitive space eating disorders take up.

They also believe lies they tell.

I was watching videos of JOJO who is 29.

Some dude commenting how she still looks good and has no fillers.

Ok shes 29 it’s not that wild that she would still look good. They exaggerate. Or they lack intelligence.

I hate them. Beautiful kind women are insecure while these trolls are so full of themselves.

He’s just trying to throw her off her new balance. He’s insecure.

2020-07-09T06:13:07+00:00

I don’t get the obsession with teens. I looked awkward and I can remember my peers did as well. Only when I got to real adult hood, I started look bad af. It wasn’t even the makeup either. Idk teenagers tend to look awkward 🤷‍♀️ they are still growing into their features. Am i the only one?

redbunnyinBondi · 2020-07-09T10:24:58+00:00

Don't any of you girls listen to this crap. I am 45 and men do not even know. They always guess 36. I have a constant stream of younger men after me. They do not know. When they do know they like it because of the older woman has more experience crap. Which is annoying but I can deal with it. I think a lot of men like younger women because they can easily manupulate them or for status.

RadarFemef · 2020-07-09T06:42:42+00:00

They’ve successfully got women scared of growing older - older! When it is just the natural progression of being alive!

Novemberinthechair · 2020-07-09T12:40:17+00:00

It's projection...a reversal, if you will.

The more men go on about age the more they worry about aging themselves. They're trying to cope. Having a dick won't save you from mortality, and that wigs them out. I dated a guy who hid his Driver's License from me for years.

Also, some guys are afraid of women who may have lived long enough to have see more than one penis.

Other guys feel better when they're talking down to younger women.

Some think if they're standing next to a younger woman he'll look younger and be admired by his peers...DiCaprio style.

Other guys are closeted pedos.

inlovewithaloser · 2020-07-09T13:17:46+00:00

I’m 25, but I’ve met fabulous, older, divorced women who are still Queens in my eyes. They always seem to have that spunk of independence and personal happiness that men seem to hate. They just can’t stand to see women who have learned to not need them.

mymindmybrain · 2020-07-09T14:00:23+00:00

My dad warn me against older men and large age gap, because he want to protect me to stay away from older men. That’s why older men who are attracted to younger women are disgusting and sexual predators. Dirty old men need to be in jail for obessessing with younger women. That’s why my dad warn me against older men.

totalmess33 · 2020-07-09T03:59:14+00:00

I was once told by a man that women expire once they hit 30 as they're sexual value goes down along with their ability to produce eggs.

What a charmer, eh 🤦

sadcello · 2020-07-09T09:38:46+00:00

Because men are all pedophiles.

RadarFemef · 2020-07-09T18:37:19+00:00

Also to them, women are status symbols. The younger and hotter the woman, the more of a status he will gain by assocation with her. It’s part of why dudes who think they’re hot shit will say things like “I date models” or “I only bang 10’s” because this is the same as bragging about “I drive a Lamborghini” or “my watch is a Rolex”

To these men, women are possessions and toys. They want to use youth and beauty of their “toys” to brag to other men.

Hipster-Aurora · 2020-07-09T14:47:20+00:00

(Ariana voice) and what about it? So is he, but only one of them is upset by the fact of ageing. She'll be happier and he'll feel bad no 20 year old model wants him.

yggiwtmiih · 2020-07-09T11:28:47+00:00

I was OLD a while ago, and saw someone who I went to high school with. I was shocked because he looked awful and very obviously had not taken care of himself at all. He had puffy cheeks from drinking too much, was balding, was starting to wrinkle, and gained weight. We were only 25!!

His alluring bio?

"Balls = blue"

This guy was a total asshole so I didn't feel bad, but in a society that only puts the pressure of looking good on women, it has done men the disservice of giving them baseless and endless confidence while not being scrutinizing toward themselves at all.

eloiselmao · 2020-07-09T16:14:08+00:00

scared of us growing older probably due to the fact that many unmarried older women have been proven to be happier, seems as if women dgaf and are embracing their age and they are still trying to install fear in us !

ishika_23 · 2020-07-09T15:23:26+00:00

Lol, so would his ED

iruoma · 2020-07-09T13:08:36+00:00

i’m excited to get older. more income, more freedom, less of a care given, and when my natural hair goes white it’s going to look amazing.

authorpeytonrichards · 2020-07-09T14:26:40+00:00

A man that I work with at my day job is obsessed with my reproductive cycle. He often tells me things like I don't have much time left to have a baby. I think at one point he liked me. I found this all disgusting. He even told me the ideal way for me to have a baby (after we had a falling out over his behavior) was to go to a bar alone and hope for someone to spike my drink so I would wake up pregnant.

2020-07-09T18:45:54+00:00

Sorry but... you're also gonna be getting too old to deal with men's shit and therefore not easily manipulated.

Who in the goddamn fuck asked him anyway?

ThrowawayKITTY777 · 2020-09-23T05:34:08+00:00

"You look good for your age" is one of the shittiest things you can say to someone, but damn if men don't think that's the ultimate compliment.

wegonfuckornah · 2020-07-09T05:23:48+00:00

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Title	Why are men so obsessed with women’s age?
Author	wegonfuckornah
Upvotes	402
Comments	65
Date	July 9, 2020 1:45 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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